Can I collect widows benefits at 66 and 6 months while still working? Confused about survivor FRA vs my own
I'm trying to understand Social Security survivor benefits and their relationship to the earnings test. My husband passed away unexpectedly at 58 (born in 1958) after we were married for 36 years. I was born April 1, 1959, and I'm still working at a job I love and want to continue. When I visited the Social Security office, the rep told me something I hadn't heard before - that as a widow, I could start collecting on my husband's record at 66 and 6 months (September 2025), which would be considered my FRA for widow benefits, even though my personal FRA is 66 years and 10 months. The rep said I wouldn't be subject to the earnings test at that point. I was the higher earner, so I want to let my own benefits grow. I've searched SSA.gov but can't find this specific situation in writing. Is this accurate? Can I really collect widow's benefits at 66 and 6 months while still working full-time with no earnings limit? I don't want to make a big mistake in my retirement planning.
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AstroAdventurer
Yes, the SSA representative was correct! The Full Retirement Age (FRA) for survivor (widow/widower) benefits is actually different from the FRA for your own retirement benefits. For someone born in 1959, survivor FRA is indeed 66 and 6 months, while your retirement FRA is 66 and 10 months. This is important because: 1. At survivor FRA, you can collect 100% of your deceased husband's benefit amount 2. At survivor FRA, the earnings test no longer applies 3. You can switch to your own higher benefit later (at 70 is usually optimal) This strategy (taking survivor benefits while letting your own grow) is often called the "restricted application" for survivors and it's one of the few remaining ways to optimize benefits after most claiming strategies were eliminated by legislation in 2015.
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Natasha Kuznetsova
•Thank you so much for this explanation! It's such a relief to have this confirmed. Can I double check something else? When I eventually switch to my own benefits (probably at 70), will I need to actively apply for that change or does SSA automatically give me whichever benefit is higher?
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Javier Mendoza
im in a similar boat i started taking survivor benefits last yr after my wife passed. was born in 55 still working part time and they DEFINITELY dont reduce my check anymore now that im past FRA. the survivor FRA thing is different than your regular one thats a fact
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Emma Wilson
•Thanks for sharing your experience! It's always helpful to hear from someone who's actually going through it rather than just theory.
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Malik Davis
The SSA rep is absolutely right in your case. There's a separate survivor FRA table that most people don't know about. Since you were born in 1959, your widow's FRA is 66 and 6 months, while your retirement FRA is 66 and 10 months. This is great planning on your part! By taking the survivor benefit at widow's FRA and continuing to work, you avoid the earnings test completely. Meanwhile, your own retirement benefit continues to grow with delayed retirement credits until age 70 - potentially increasing by 28.67% over your FRA amount! One thing to remember: When you eventually switch to your own retirement benefit (presumably at 70), you'll need to file an application for that change. SSA doesn't automatically transition you. I'd recommend contacting them 3 months before you want to make the switch.
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Natasha Kuznetsova
•Thank you - that's exactly what I needed to know about switching later! I really appreciate all this verification. I feel much more confident now.
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Isabella Santos
I went through something similar and let me tell you it's a NIGHTMARE trying to get anyone on the phone at Social Security to verify this stuff!!! I spent THREE WEEKS calling every day just to be disconnected or told the wait was 2+ hours. Total disaster. When I finally got someone they gave me different answers than what I was told at the office!!! The widow benefits thing is real but DONT trust what one person tells you because they make mistakes ALL THE TIME.
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Ravi Gupta
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Emma Wilson
Just want to say I'm sorry for your loss. Navigating all this while grieving isn't easy. ❤️
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Natasha Kuznetsova
•Thank you for your kindness. It's been a difficult journey but I'm trying to make sound decisions for my future.
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GalacticGuru
OK everyone is telling you this widow FRA thing is right but IM SO CONFUSED about my own situation now! I'm 62 and taking widows benefits early (reduced) and still working part time. So I AM subject to the earnings test and they take back $1 for every $2 I earn above $22,320 in 2025. Are you all saying this goes away completely at the widow FRA (which for me is 66 even)??? No one ever explained this clearly to me!!
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Malik Davis
•Yes, that's exactly right. Once you reach your survivor/widow FRA (66 for you), the earnings test disappears completely - you can earn any amount without reduction to your survivor benefits. You're dealing with reductions now because you started taking widow benefits before reaching your widow FRA. This is one of the advantages of waiting until at least your widow FRA to claim if you're still working.
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Javier Mendoza
btw dont forget that when ur on widow benefits they'll still take medicare out when you turn 65 unless you tell them not to because ur still working and have other coverage. gotta fill out a form for that!
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Natasha Kuznetsova
•Good point! Yes, I do have employer coverage and will need to handle that when the time comes. Another thing to add to my planning list!
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AstroAdventurer
Just to clarify one thing that hasn't been mentioned: If you work *after* you've claimed survivor benefits (at any age), those ongoing earnings could potentially increase your own future retirement benefit if these are high-earning years for you. The SSA recalculates your benefit based on your highest 35 years of earnings, so if you're replacing lower earning years with higher ones now, your own retirement benefit at 70 might be even larger than currently projected.
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Natasha Kuznetsova
•That's a fantastic point! My current job does pay well, so I'll likely be replacing some lower earning years from early in my career. Just another reason this approach makes sense for my situation.
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Emma Wilson
My sister did something similar after her husband died. She took the survivor benefit at her FRA for that and kept working. Then at 70 she switched to her own larger benefit. She said it was the best financial decision she made and now has a much more comfortable retirement than she expected. Just thought I'd share a success story!
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Natasha Kuznetsova
•Thank you for sharing that! It's reassuring to hear from someone who's already successfully implemented this approach.
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Andre Dubois
This is such valuable information for anyone in a similar situation! I want to add one practical tip that helped me when I was researching survivor benefits: the SSA website has a publication called "Survivors Benefits" (Publication No. 05-10084) that specifically explains the different FRA for survivor benefits vs. retirement benefits. It's buried pretty deep in their resources, but it's the official documentation that confirms what everyone here is telling you. Also, when you do file for your survivor benefits in September, make sure to explicitly tell them you want to "restrict your application to survivor benefits only" and that you want to delay filing for your own retirement benefits until later. This ensures there's no confusion about your intent to switch strategies later. You're making a really smart financial move here - maximizing both benefits over time while still being able to work at a job you love. Best of luck with everything!
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Connor Gallagher
•This is incredibly helpful - thank you for the specific publication reference! I've been having trouble finding the official documentation online, so knowing exactly what to search for is perfect. I'll definitely make sure to use that exact language about restricting my application to survivor benefits only when I file in September. I really appreciate everyone's advice and support through this process. It's been overwhelming trying to navigate all these decisions while still grieving, but this community has given me so much confidence in my planning.
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CosmicCrusader
I'm so glad you found this community helpful during such a difficult time! Just wanted to add one more resource that might be useful - the SSA also has a "What Every Woman Should Know" publication (No. 05-10127) that has a section specifically about survivor benefits for widows. It covers scenarios like yours where you might want to take survivor benefits while letting your own retirement benefits grow. Also, when you do make that switch to your own benefits at 70, keep in mind that you'll want to compare not just the dollar amounts but also consider any cost-of-living adjustments that might have occurred between now and then. The delayed retirement credits are substantial, but the total picture includes all the annual adjustments too. You're handling this with such grace and wisdom - your husband would be proud of how thoughtfully you're planning for your future while still doing work you love. Wishing you all the best as you move forward with this strategy!
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Elijah Brown
•Thank you so much for these additional resources! I'll definitely look up both of those publications - "What Every Woman Should Know" sounds particularly relevant to my situation. It's amazing how much information is available once you know where to look for it. Your point about considering the cost-of-living adjustments when I make the switch at 70 is something I hadn't fully thought through yet. I've been so focused on the delayed retirement credits that I forgot about how the annual COLA increases will compound over those years too. I really can't express how grateful I am for all the support and detailed information everyone has shared. When I first walked out of that SSA office, I felt so uncertain about what I'd been told. Now I feel confident moving forward with this plan. This community has been a lifeline during one of the most challenging periods of my life.
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Danielle Campbell
I'm so sorry for your loss, and I want to commend you for being so proactive about understanding your options during such a difficult time. The information you received from the SSA representative is absolutely correct, and it sounds like you have a solid strategy in place. One additional consideration I'd mention is to keep detailed records of all your interactions with SSA - dates, names of representatives you spoke with, and what was discussed. Given how complex these rules can be and how sometimes you might get conflicting information (as others have mentioned), having a paper trail can be really helpful if any issues arise later. Also, since you mentioned you were the higher earner, you might want to get an updated Social Security Statement closer to when you turn 70 to see your projected benefit amount with the delayed retirement credits. This will help you make the most informed decision about when exactly to make that switch from survivor benefits to your own retirement benefits. You're making a really smart financial move that will serve you well in the long run. Take care of yourself through this process!
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Savannah Vin
•Thank you for the excellent advice about keeping detailed records! I hadn't thought about documenting all my SSA interactions, but given some of the experiences others have shared about getting conflicting information, that's really smart planning. I'll start doing that right away. Your suggestion about getting an updated Social Security Statement closer to age 70 is also really helpful. I want to make sure I have the most accurate projections when it's time to make that final switch. With my continued earnings and the delayed retirement credits, the numbers could change quite a bit from what I'm seeing now. I really appreciate everyone in this community taking the time to share such thoughtful and detailed advice. What started as uncertainty about one conversation with an SSA rep has turned into a comprehensive education about survivor benefits and retirement planning. I feel so much more prepared now to navigate this process confidently.
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Oliver Fischer
What a thorough and helpful discussion! I'm relatively new to understanding Social Security benefits, and reading through everyone's experiences has been incredibly educational. I wanted to add one small point that might be helpful for anyone else in a similar situation: when you do file for survivor benefits in September, you might want to ask the SSA representative to provide you with a written summary of your benefit election and the key dates (like when the earnings test no longer applies). Having that documentation could save you from having to re-explain your situation if you need to contact them again later. Also, I'm curious - has anyone here used the SSA's online "my Social Security" account to track their benefits once they start receiving them? I'm wondering if it clearly shows both your survivor benefit status and your own retirement benefit projections, or if you need to call in to get that information. Thank you all for sharing your knowledge - this kind of peer support is invaluable when navigating these complex government programs!
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Thais Soares
•Great question about the online "my Social Security" account! I've been using it since I started receiving survivor benefits, and it does show your current benefit payments clearly. However, it's not as detailed when it comes to showing projections for switching to your own retirement benefits later - for that kind of forward-looking analysis, I've found you still need to call or visit an office. Your suggestion about getting written documentation when filing is excellent advice. I wish I had thought to ask for that when I first applied. It would have saved me from having to re-explain my entire situation multiple times when I had questions later. One thing I've learned is that the online account is really helpful for tracking your earnings record and seeing how your continued work is updating your future benefit calculations. Since many of us are still working while receiving survivor benefits, it's reassuring to see those earnings getting credited properly each year. Thanks for jumping into this conversation - the more perspectives we can share, the better prepared everyone will be!
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Felix Grigori
I'm so sorry for your loss, and I want to echo what others have said - you're handling this incredibly difficult situation with such wisdom and foresight. As someone who works in financial planning, I can confirm that everything you've been told here is absolutely correct. The survivor FRA being different from your retirement FRA is one of those lesser-known Social Security rules that can make a huge difference in your financial security. You're essentially getting a "bridge benefit" that allows you to optimize both your immediate needs and your long-term retirement income. One small additional tip: when you file in September, consider asking the SSA representative to calculate and show you the exact dollar difference between what you'll receive as survivor benefits versus what you'd receive if you filed for your own benefits at that time. Having those concrete numbers can be reassuring and help you feel even more confident about your decision to wait until 70 for your own benefits. You're doing everything right - taking survivor benefits at FRA to avoid the earnings test, continuing work you love, and maximizing your own future benefits through delayed retirement credits. This strategy will serve you well for decades to come.
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Isabella Martin
•Thank you so much for the professional perspective and validation! It's incredibly reassuring to hear from someone who works in financial planning that this strategy makes sense. Your suggestion about asking for the exact dollar comparison is brilliant - I hadn't thought to request those specific calculations, but you're right that seeing the concrete numbers will help solidify my confidence in this decision. I'm feeling so much more prepared now thanks to everyone's input. When I first left that SSA office, I was second-guessing everything, but this community has provided such thorough education and support. I'll definitely ask for those calculations and written documentation when I file in September. It's comforting to know that what felt like such a complex and uncertain situation actually has a clear, well-established path forward. Thank you again for taking the time to share your expertise!
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Alina Rosenthal
I just wanted to say how incredibly helpful this entire thread has been! As someone who's been putting off learning about Social Security benefits (thinking I had plenty of time), reading through all these detailed explanations has been eye-opening. The distinction between survivor FRA and regular retirement FRA is something I never knew existed, and I'm sure many others don't either. It's concerning how this kind of crucial information isn't more widely publicized - imagine how many people might miss out on optimizing their benefits simply because they don't know about these different timelines. @Natasha Kuznetsova, I'm so sorry for your loss, but I'm truly impressed by how thoroughly you've researched this and how you're planning for your future. Your situation and everyone's responses have created such a valuable resource for anyone facing similar circumstances. I'm bookmarking this discussion to share with friends and family. The practical tips about documenting interactions with SSA, requesting written summaries, and knowing exactly what publications to reference are gold. Thank you all for being so generous with your knowledge and experience!
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Nia Harris
•You're absolutely right about how this information isn't widely known! I had no idea about the different FRA timelines until I was thrust into this situation. It really makes me wonder how many widows and widowers might be missing out on better strategies simply because they don't know to ask the right questions. What struck me most in my research was how buried this information is on the SSA website. Even when you know what you're looking for, it takes some digging to find the specific publications that clearly explain these rules. I think that's why communities like this are so valuable - real people sharing real experiences fills in the gaps that official resources sometimes leave. I'm glad this discussion will be helpful for others. Nobody plans to need this information, but when life throws you these curveballs, having access to clear explanations and practical advice makes all the difference. Thank you for your kind words during what's been a really challenging time.
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Sadie Benitez
I'm really grateful for this comprehensive discussion - it's been incredibly educational! As someone who's been helping elderly family members navigate Social Security, I can't emphasize enough how important it is to understand these nuances about survivor benefits. One thing I'd add that hasn't been mentioned yet: if you're planning to work past your survivor FRA (which you clearly are), make sure your employer's HR department understands that you're receiving Social Security benefits. Some employers have specific policies about coordination with Social Security that could affect things like health insurance elections or retirement plan contributions. It's worth having that conversation proactively. Also, I've found that keeping a simple spreadsheet tracking your annual earnings while receiving survivor benefits can be helpful. Even though the earnings test won't apply to you after September 2025, having that documentation can be useful for tax planning and for verifying that your continued work earnings are being properly credited toward your future retirement benefit calculations. Your strategy of taking survivor benefits while letting your own benefits grow is textbook optimal planning. You're setting yourself up for financial security while still being able to do work you love - that's really the best of both worlds!
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Diego Castillo
•This is such excellent practical advice! I hadn't considered the HR coordination aspect at all - you're absolutely right that I should have a conversation with my employer about how receiving Social Security benefits might interact with our company policies. That's definitely going on my to-do list before I file in September. Your suggestion about keeping a spreadsheet to track annual earnings is also really smart. Even though I won't need it for the earnings test after my survivor FRA, having that documentation for tax planning makes total sense. Plus, it'll be satisfying to see how those continued high-earning years are boosting my future retirement benefit projections. I'm amazed at how many practical details there are to consider beyond just the basic benefit rules. This entire discussion has transformed what felt like an overwhelming decision into a clear action plan with specific steps I can take. Thank you for adding these important implementation details that I would have probably overlooked!
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DeShawn Washington
This thread has been absolutely invaluable! As a newcomer to this community, I'm amazed by the depth of knowledge and support everyone has shared. @Natasha Kuznetsova, first let me express my condolences for your loss - navigating these complex financial decisions while grieving takes tremendous strength. I wanted to add one perspective that might be helpful: consider scheduling a follow-up appointment with SSA about 6 months after you start receiving survivor benefits (maybe March 2026) to review your file and confirm everything is tracking correctly. This gives you time to see how the payments are working in practice and ensures there are no administrative issues before you get too far into the process. Also, since you mentioned loving your job and wanting to continue working, you might want to explore whether your employer offers any kind of phased retirement or flexible work arrangements. Some companies have programs that allow long-term employees to gradually reduce hours while maintaining benefits - this could give you even more options as you approach 70 and consider the transition to your own retirement benefits. The strategy you're implementing really is optimal for someone in your situation. You're maximizing your financial security while maintaining the personal satisfaction of meaningful work. That combination of financial wisdom and personal fulfillment is exactly what good retirement planning should achieve. Wishing you all the best as you move forward with this plan!
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