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Update: I went ahead and submitted my Request for Reconsideration today with copies of all my pay stubs. The representative at the field office initially gave me a hard time about having a waiver already pending, but when I explained I was disputing the calculation itself, she finally accepted it. Now I'm just anxiously waiting. Thank you all for your advice!
Great job! That was absolutely the right move. Make sure you keep copies of everything you submitted, and get a receipt if possible. Reconsiderations can take 2-3 months to process, so don't panic if you don't hear anything right away. If they start making deductions from your benefits before the reconsideration is complete, you can request that they temporarily stop the collection while your appeal is pending.
I went thru something like this but with Medicare premiums that they said I owed from 3 years ago?? I found out that if you request reconsideration they are supposed to pause collecting the overpayment until they make a decision. You might need to specifically ask for this though, they don't volunteer it!
One more thing to consider: if you can't qualify for survivor benefits based on this marriage, check if you might qualify based on your previous marriage if it lasted at least 10 years. If you were married to your ex for 10+ years, you could potentially claim survivor benefits on his record when he passes (or even spousal benefits if he's still living and you're both old enough). Also, when you apply, bring any evidence that you held yourselves out as married to the community - joint bank accounts, insurance policies listing each other as spouses, deeds or leases showing both names, even holiday cards addressed to you as a married couple. SSA looks at the totality of circumstances in cases like yours.
Unfortunately my previous marriage only lasted 8 years, so that won't help. But the tip about bringing evidence we presented ourselves as married is super helpful! I have plenty of that - insurance policies, joint accounts, even our wills that refer to each other as spouses. I'll gather all of that before applying. Thank you!
For your specific situation with a 12-year age gap, here's what you should consider: 1. Your husband should coordinate Medicare enrollment at 65 regardless of when he takes Social Security 2. Since you're only 52, you have 10+ years before you reach your own eligibility for retirement benefits 3. Given your age difference, maximizing your husband's benefit has long-term advantages: - Higher survivor benefits for you if he passes away first - Increased household income when you're both in your 70s and 80s - Protection against longevity risk (outliving your money) 4. For self-employed individuals with historically low reported income: - Yes, working a W-2 job with higher reported income for even 3-5 years can significantly increase benefits - Consider restructuring your business to pay yourselves higher W-2 wages if possible - Look into voluntary increased contributions to Social Security (there are limitations) The book recommendation from another commenter is excellent. I'd also suggest scheduling a consultation with an SSA claims specialist to review your specific earnings record and options. Their expertise is free and they can model different claiming strategies based on your exact situation.
my cousin waited til last week of deadline to file reconsideration and then his internet went out! ended up having to drive 2 hours to nearest SSA office that had appointments! dont wait!
One more thing I forgot to mention - make sure you're seeing doctors who are willing to fill out an RFC (Residual Functional Capacity) form for you. That carries a lot more weight than just regular medical records. Your neurosurgeon might be willing to complete one after your consultation. This was a game-changer for my case after my initial denial.
Yes, you can find RFC forms online, or the SSA can provide one. It's essentially a detailed form where your doctor documents exactly what you can and cannot do physically (sitting, standing, lifting, etc.). Since the SSA denied you because they think you can return to your previous work, having your doctor specifically address why you cannot perform those job duties on an RFC form is extremely valuable evidence.
Giovanni Gallo
my moms payment went up but my dads didnt change either! they told him its because his medicare premium also went up by almost the same amount as the cola so it looked like no change in the final deposit. maybe check if ur husbands medicare premium changed?
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Zoe Christodoulou
•That's actually a really good point! I'll check his Medicare premium. He did change some prescription coverage during open enrollment so maybe that affected things.
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Mei Chen
Just to follow up on some of the great suggestions here: 1. Definitely check both your and your husband's Medicare premiums, as premium increases can offset COLA increases. 2. If your husband receives SSDI and you receive retirement benefits, they may process on different schedules. SSDI COLA adjustments sometimes process separately from retirement benefit adjustments. 3. The $120 payment could be: - A retroactive COLA adjustment - An underpayment correction - Your husband's COLA being paid separately - An adjustment related to earnings record updates If this doesn't resolve by next month's payment, or if you need clarity sooner, contacting SSA directly is your best option. Your MySocialSecurity account should eventually show an explanation in the message center, but these notices can be delayed by 1-2 weeks after payments are made.
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Zoe Christodoulou
•Thank you for the detailed explanation! I'll check all those possibilities. My husband did work part-time last year, so maybe there's some earnings record update happening too. I'll wait until next month to see if things normalize before spending hours on the phone with SSA.
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