What are the tax benefits of getting married after buying a house together?

There are several factors to consider when deciding whether to get married before year-end for tax purposes, especially as new homeowners. For your income levels (around $72k and $78k), you might actually benefit from filing jointly after marriage. The "marriage penalty" typically affects couples where both spouses earn similar high incomes or very low incomes. At your income levels, you might get a small "marriage bonus" instead. As homeowners, the main tax advantages come from deducting mortgage interest and property taxes. If you're not married, only the person who actually pays these expenses can claim them (or you split them proportionally if you both pay). If married filing jointly, you can combine these deductions more efficiently. The standard deduction for 2025 for married couples filing jointly will be higher than twice the single rate, which benefits married couples who don't have enough itemized deductions. However, you'll need to calculate whether your mortgage interest and property taxes would exceed the standard deduction to determine if itemizing makes sense.

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One thing nobody's mentioned yet is that the tax benefits of being married go beyond just the mortgage interest deduction! You should also consider: 1. Capital gains exclusion when you eventually sell - married couples can exclude up to $500k vs $250k for singles 2. Unlimited gift tax between spouses 3. Potential benefits with retirement accounts and Social Security 4. Estate tax benefits if either of you unexpectedly passes away Don't just focus on the immediate tax year - think long term too!

Honestly, don't make such an important life decision like marriage just for tax purposes! My husband and I rushed our wedding for tax benefits with our new house and while the savings were nice, we both kinda regret not having the wedding we really wanted. The tax benefits weren't actually that huge in the end - like maybe $1200 for the year? Not worth rushing something as important as marriage imho. Plus the stress of closing on a house AND planning even a small wedding in the same month was insane!!

As someone who works in tax preparation, I'd recommend running the actual numbers before making any decisions! Here are some key considerations for your situation: **Potential Benefits of Marriage:** - At your income levels ($72k/$78k), you'll likely benefit from the higher married filing jointly standard deduction - Combined mortgage interest and property taxes might push you over the standard deduction threshold, making itemizing worthwhile - Student loan interest deduction phases out at higher income levels - marriage could help or hurt depending on your combined income **Things to Calculate:** - Your estimated mortgage interest for 2025 (ask your lender for projections) - Property taxes for the portion of the year you'll own the home - Whether your combined itemized deductions exceed the married standard deduction (~$30,000 for 2025) **My honest advice:** Don't rush marriage just for taxes. The savings might be smaller than you think, and there are administrative headaches with changing names, benefits, etc. right after closing on a house. If you're planning to marry anyway, a small courthouse ceremony isn't the worst idea, but make sure you're doing it for the right reasons. The tax code changes frequently, but marriage is (hopefully!) permanent. Have you considered consulting with a tax professional who can run scenarios with your actual numbers?