What Tax Benefits are better - Tenancy in Common vs Joint Tenancy for unmarried couple filing separately?
So my boyfriend and I are finally about to close on our first house (so excited but super stressed too!!). We're trying to decide between tenancy in common or joint tenancy for the deed, but honestly I'm confused about what makes the most sense tax-wise since we're not married and we file our taxes separately. We both make around $85,000 a year, so pretty similar incomes. The house costs $430,000 and we're putting down 15% together. We're splitting the mortgage payment 50/50, and we plan to live there for at least 5-7 years. I've heard different things about how property taxes, mortgage interest deductions, and other homeowner tax stuff works when you're not married. Can we both claim deductions? Does one option give better tax benefits than the other? Neither of us has owned a home before, so this is all new territory. Anyone who's been in a similar situation, I'd really appreciate some insight on the tax implications! Our closing is in two weeks and we need to decide on the title pretty soon...thanks!
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Anastasia Sokolov
The main tax difference between tenancy in common (TIC) and joint tenancy for unmarried couples comes down to flexibility and how deductions are allocated. With TIC, you can each own different percentages of the property (like 60/40 if one person contributes more) and each deduct your portion of property taxes and mortgage interest on your separate returns. With joint tenancy, it's assumed you each own exactly 50% regardless of actual contributions. Since you're splitting everything 50/50, either option works tax-wise, but TIC gives you more flexibility if things change later. The mortgage interest deduction and property tax deductions can be split according to your ownership percentages and what you actually pay. Keep documentation showing who paid what portion of these expenses. One important thing to consider: joint tenancy comes with right of survivorship, meaning if one of you passes away, the other automatically gets the deceased's share. With TIC, each person can leave their share to whoever they want in their will.
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Sean O'Donnell
•Does this mean we could potentially change our ownership percentages later with TIC? Like if one of us starts making significantly more and contributes more to the mortgage/taxes?
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Anastasia Sokolov
•Yes, with tenancy in common, you can change the ownership percentages later by executing a new deed that specifies the updated percentages. This gives you flexibility if your financial contributions change over time. The mortgage payments themselves don't automatically change your ownership percentages - you would need to formally update the deed to reflect any new arrangement. Just make sure to keep good records of who pays what for tax purposes regardless of the official ownership split.
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Zara Ahmed
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StarStrider
•How does that work with the mortgage interest deduction though? Can you really split it differently than what's on the mortgage? My lender told me it had to match the loan percentages.
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Luca Esposito
•Did you need to have a lawyer involved to set up the tenancy in common with different percentages? And did it cause any issues with your mortgage approval?
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Zara Ahmed
•For the mortgage interest deduction, what matters is who actually pays the mortgage, not whose name is on it. So if you're paying 60% of the mortgage payments, you can deduct 60% of the interest regardless of how the loan is structured. Just keep detailed records of all payments. No lawyer was required specifically for setting up the TIC with different percentages - it was just part of the standard closing paperwork. The title company handled it all. Our mortgage approval wasn't affected since we both qualified individually anyway, but some lenders might have different requirements. The lender cares more about who's responsible for the debt than how the ownership is structured on the deed.
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Luca Esposito
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Ethan Wilson
Something nobody's mentioned yet is that your state laws might affect your decision too. In some states, joint tenancy for unmarried couples has different legal implications than others. My partner and I went with tenancy in common (65/35 split based on our income difference) and it's worked well for us tax-wise. We found that documenting EVERYTHING was key - we have a separate joint account just for house expenses that we each contribute to based on our ownership percentages. Makes tax time so much easier because we have clear records of who paid what.
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NeonNova
•How did you handle bigger home repairs or improvements? Did you split those based on ownership percentage too? We're having trouble figuring out how to track all this stuff for taxes.
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Ethan Wilson
•For major home repairs and improvements, we do split those according to our ownership percentages (65/35). We track everything in a shared spreadsheet and keep all receipts. For tax purposes, most home improvements aren't immediately deductible but get added to your cost basis, which reduces any potential capital gains tax when you sell. The only exception is if you're making energy-efficient improvements that qualify for tax credits - in that case, we each claim the percentage of the credit that matches our ownership split. Our separate contributions to the joint house account are clearly documented with memo lines specifying what they're for, which makes everything traceable if we ever got audited.
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Yuki Tanaka
Doesn't this all become moot if you're taking the standard deduction anyway? With the current standard deduction being so high ($13,850 for single filers in 2023), most people aren't itemizing anymore, right? So would the mortgage interest and property tax deductions even matter?
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Carmen Diaz
•Not necessarily! Even with the higher standard deduction, there are still cases where itemizing makes sense, especially in high tax areas or with expensive homes. For my partner and I, one of us itemizes while the other takes the standard deduction. Also, some states allow you to itemize on your state return even if you take the standard deduction federally, so the property tax and mortgage interest can still save you money at the state level. Definitely worth running the numbers both ways!
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Yuki Tanaka
•Thanks for clarifying! I hadn't considered the state tax angle at all. We're in California which has high property taxes, so I guess that could push one or both of us over the threshold for itemizing. And it's a good point about one person itemizing and one taking standard - I hadn't thought about us doing different approaches.
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