Tips for splitting an Inherited IRA between siblings when beneficiary is in high tax bracket?
So my dad recently passed away and left me as the sole beneficiary on his IRA which has been converted to an Inherited IRA. The thing is, I have two siblings and according to his will, everything should be split equally between the three of us. I'm guessing he just put my name down as the beneficiary to keep things simple. Here's the problem - I'm in a pretty high tax bracket compared to my siblings. If I take the distributions, pay taxes at my rate, and then split what's left, we all end up with significantly less money than if the taxes were applied at their lower rates. Has anyone dealt with this situation before? I'm looking for advice on the best way to split this Inherited IRA so that my high tax bracket doesn't penalize all of us. I want to honor my dad's wishes to divide everything equally while minimizing the tax hit. Any suggestions would be really appreciated!
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Aisha Abdullah
The way Inherited IRAs work is that once your father passed away with you as the sole beneficiary, the IRA custodian created the Inherited IRA in your name only. Unfortunately, this means you're the only one who can take distributions, and those distributions will be taxed at your income tax rate. Since the account is legally yours now, here are a few options to consider: 1. Take distributions as required, pay the taxes, and then gift portions to your siblings. Just be aware that if you give more than $18,000 per person per year, you'll need to file a gift tax return (though you likely won't owe any gift tax thanks to the lifetime exemption). 2. Speak with the IRA custodian about whether a qualified disclaimer might still be possible (though this typically needs to be done within 9 months of death). 3. Consider taking distributions in years when your income might be lower to minimize the tax impact. What matters most is being transparent with your siblings about the situation and the tax implications. You might want to consult with an estate attorney who specializes in this area for specific guidance tailored to your situation.
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Mateo Lopez
•Thank you for explaining this so clearly. I'm really frustrated that my dad didn't understand the tax implications of naming just one beneficiary. Do you know if there's any possibility of having the Inherited IRA split into three separate accounts at this point? Or are we stuck with me being the only one who can take distributions? Also, with the gifting option, would I still have to pay taxes on the full distribution amount before gifting portions to my siblings?
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Aisha Abdullah
•Unfortunately, once the Inherited IRA has been established in your name, it generally can't be split into separate accounts for your siblings. The time to have done that would have been shortly after your father's passing through a qualified disclaimer, which would have allowed your siblings to inherit directly. Yes, with the gifting option, you would have to pay taxes on the full distribution amount first. The distribution is considered income to you, so you'd need to report the entire amount on your tax return and pay taxes at your rate. Then, after taxes, you could gift portions to your siblings. This is why it's not the most tax-efficient approach, but it's often the only option in this situation.
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Ethan Davis
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Yuki Tanaka
•How exactly does this service work? I'm in a similar situation but I'm always skeptical about handing over financial documents to an online service. Do real people review your situation or is it all AI?
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Carmen Ortiz
•Did you find that it actually saved you more in taxes than what you paid for the service? I've tried other tax services before and sometimes the fee isn't worth the savings, especially with something that might be a one-time situation like an inheritance.
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Ethan Davis
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Yuki Tanaka
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MidnightRider
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Andre Laurent
•How does this actually work though? I don't understand how they can get through when regular people can't. Are they just sitting on hold for you or do they have some special access?
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Zoe Papadopoulos
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MidnightRider
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Zoe Papadopoulos
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Jamal Washington
One option you might consider that I haven't seen mentioned is taking the Required Minimum Distributions (RMDs) from the Inherited IRA, but time some larger distributions in years when you expect to have a lower income. For example, if you know you'll have a period between jobs, or plan to take unpaid leave, or will have business losses in a particular year, you could take a larger distribution then when you'd be in a lower tax bracket. Also, depending on your siblings' situations, you might consider having them cover some of your expenses in exchange for larger portions of the inherited IRA. This is a bit complicated, but can sometimes work if done carefully.
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Mei Wong
•Couldn't this approach trigger gift tax issues though? If OP is giving more than the annual exclusion amount to siblings each year? Also, I'm curious if there are any issues with the IRS viewing this as some kind of tax avoidance scheme if it's too obviously structured to avoid taxes.
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Jamal Washington
•The annual gift tax exclusion is $18,000 per person per year (for 2025), so OP could give up to that amount to each sibling annually without any gift tax implications. Above that amount would require filing a gift tax return, but it would just count against OP's lifetime exemption (which is over $13 million), so unlikely to result in actual gift taxes. As for IRS concerns, this isn't really a tax avoidance scheme - it's legitimate tax planning. Taking larger distributions in lower income years is a standard practice. The IRS doesn't require you to take distributions in equal amounts each year (beyond the RMDs). As long as you're reporting all income and paying the appropriate taxes, you're on solid ground.
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Liam Fitzgerald
Has anyone looked into using a Roth conversion strategy here? I'm wondering if it would make sense to convert portions of the Inherited IRA to a Roth Inherited IRA over time. You'd pay taxes on the conversion amounts now, but then future growth would be tax-free, and distributions from the Roth wouldn't be taxable income. Might be worth considering if you think tax rates will increase in the future.
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PixelWarrior
•I don't think that works with Inherited IRAs anymore since the SECURE Act. My understanding is that beneficiaries can't do Roth conversions on inherited retirement accounts. You're stuck with the account type you inherited. Also, with the 10-year distribution rule for most non-spouse beneficiaries now, there's less time for tax-free growth to really make a big difference anyway.
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Carmella Popescu
I went through something very similar when my grandmother passed and left me as the sole beneficiary on her 401k, even though she wanted it split between me and my two cousins. One thing that really helped was getting all parties on the same page early about the tax situation. I created a simple spreadsheet showing exactly how much we'd each net after taxes if I took distributions at my rate versus what we would have received if the accounts had been set up differently from the start. What ended up working for us was a combination approach: I took the required minimum distributions each year and immediately gifted the after-tax amounts to my cousins. For larger distributions, I timed them for years when I had lower income (like when I took unpaid parental leave). The key was being completely transparent about every dollar coming in and going out. I shared all the tax documents and distribution statements so there were no questions about the process. It took a few years to fully distribute everything, but we minimized the tax hit and everyone felt the process was fair. One last suggestion - definitely consult with a tax professional who has experience with inherited IRAs. The rules are complex and the stakes are high enough that professional guidance is worth the cost.
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