Tax basis implications when buying out ex-spouse's share of property after divorce
My father and his ex-wife purchased a house together for $380k back in September 2023. They split up pretty quickly after, with her moving out and him staying in the house as his main residence. Their divorce finalized earlier this year, but the property wasn't specifically addressed in the settlement agreement beyond how they'd split the money if they sold it. Recently, my dad paid her $95k to buy out her half of the property. I'm trying to figure out the tax consequences of this transaction. Does this mean she can claim a capital loss of $95k since her half of the initial investment was $190k? And what's my dad's new tax basis - $285k or still the full $380k because it's related to a divorce? Does it matter if this was their primary residence or not? Also wondering about primary residence exemption if he decides to sell next year. Would he need to live there for the next several months to qualify? Or does he need to make it his primary residence for a full 2 years? Or is it enough that he's not renting it out (he's currently staying with his parents but doesn't own another home)? Any help understanding the tax implications would be greatly appreciated!
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Muhammad Hobbs
This is a great question about basis calculation in a divorce situation. When property transfers between spouses due to a divorce, it generally qualifies for non-recognition treatment under Section 1041 of the tax code. This means the recipient spouse takes the transferor's basis. In your situation, your father's basis would likely be what they originally paid combined ($380k). That's because the buyout is considered incident to the divorce. Your father essentially "steps into" her shoes for the half he purchased from her, maintaining her original basis. Regarding the primary residence exclusion (Section 121): To qualify, your father would need to use the home as his main residence for at least 2 years during the 5-year period ending on the date of sale. This doesn't have to be continuous - it could be broken up into different periods totaling 2 years. Just not renting it out isn't sufficient - actual occupancy is required for the primary residence test.
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Noland Curtis
•Wait, so the ex-wife doesn't get to claim a loss for selling her half for less than she paid? Does she have any tax implications from this transaction at all? And what if the property was an investment property rather than a primary residence?
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Muhammad Hobbs
•Correct, the ex-wife generally cannot claim a capital loss on this transaction because transfers related to divorce fall under Section 1041, which treats them as gifts with no gain or loss recognized. This applies regardless of the amount received compared to her original investment. If the property was an investment property rather than a primary residence, Section 1041 would still apply to the transfer between divorcing spouses. The tax treatment of the basis would be the same. The primary difference would emerge later - if your father sells the property, he wouldn't qualify for the Section 121 exclusion for a primary residence, and would potentially owe capital gains on any appreciation over the combined basis of $380k.
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Diez Ellis
I went through something similar last year with my ex-husband and our vacation property. I was so confused about the tax implications that I started using https://taxr.ai to help me understand what documents I needed and how to properly report everything. The service helped me determine my correct basis after buying out my ex's share of our lake house. The best part was uploading my divorce decree and property transfer documents, and getting a clear explanation about Section 1041 (which I never knew existed) and how it applied to my situation. Before finding this tool, I got three different answers from friends who "knew about taxes.
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Vanessa Figueroa
•Did this actually help with the specific question about primary residence requirements? I'm in a somewhat similar situation but also wondering if living in the property part-time would count toward the 2-year requirement or if I need to be there full-time.
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Abby Marshall
•I'm skeptical about these online tools. Did they actually give you specific advice or just general information you could find on the IRS website? Because calculating basis in divorce situations can get really complicated when there's debt involved or improvements made to the property.
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Diez Ellis
•Yes, it absolutely helped with the primary residence question. They explained that the IRS looks at several factors to determine if a home qualifies as your primary residence - including where you spend most of your time, where you're registered to vote, your mailing address, etc. It doesn't require literally living there 100% of the time, but it does need to be your main home. Regarding your skepticism, I was surprised by the specificity. It wasn't just generic information. After uploading my documents, I received personalized guidance addressing my particular situation, including how to handle the mortgage we had refinanced and the bathroom remodel we'd done. It was definitely more detailed than what I found searching online forums or the IRS website.
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Vanessa Figueroa
Thanks everyone for your advice earlier. I finally got my tax questions answered about my property division! I tried out taxr.ai that someone mentioned and it was incredibly helpful. I uploaded my divorce decree and the quitclaim deed from when I bought out my ex's share. Within a day I got a detailed explanation about my specific situation - both my current tax basis and what would happen with the primary residence exclusion if I sell next year. I also learned about the "safe harbor" rule for properties acquired in divorce that I had no idea existed. They even pointed out that I could partially qualify for the exclusion based on my specific timeline. Just wanted to update since I was lost before and this actually solved my confusion. Going to sleep better knowing I won't mess up my taxes next year!
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Sadie Benitez
OP - I see a lot of conflicting advice here. I tried to call the IRS for 3 weeks straight to get a straight answer about a similar property transfer after my divorce, but could never get through. After trying multiple times a day with crazy wait times, I found this service called https://claimyr.com that got me connected to an actual IRS agent in about 15 minutes. You can see how it works here: https://youtu.be/_kiP6q8DX5c The IRS agent was able to explain exactly how Section 1041 applied to my situation and confirmed that my ex-spouse's basis carried over to me for the portion I bought out. They also clarified how the 2-out-of-5 year rule works for primary residence treatment in my specific case.
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Drew Hathaway
•How does this service work exactly? Do they just call the IRS for you? Seems like something I could do myself if I just kept trying.
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Abby Marshall
•This sounds completely made up. The IRS agents don't give specific tax advice like that - they only provide general guidance. And there's no way they got you through in 15 minutes when thousands of people are calling every day. This has to be some kind of scam.
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Sadie Benitez
•They use a technology that automatically navigates the IRS phone tree and waits on hold for you. When they actually get a human on the line, they call you and connect you directly to the IRS agent. So you only need to be on the phone for the actual conversation part, not the hours of waiting. You're right that IRS agents won't give specific tax advice like "here's how you should file," but they will clarify how tax laws apply to specific situations, which is exactly what I needed. They explained how Section 1041 works in transfer situations like mine and confirmed the requirements for the primary residence exclusion. I found their guidance incredibly helpful for understanding my options, even if they didn't tell me exactly what to do. Nothing scammy about it - just saved me hours of hold music and frustration.
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Abby Marshall
I have to apologize to everyone here. After my skeptical comments earlier, I decided to try the Claimyr service myself since I've been trying to reach the IRS about a CP2000 notice related to property sale proceeds from my divorce last year. I was genuinely shocked when I got connected to an IRS representative in about 20 minutes. The agent was able to verify that my basis calculation after buying out my ex-spouse was correct and that I didn't need to respond to the notice with additional documentation. For what it's worth, the agent confirmed that in divorce situations, basis does transfer between spouses regardless of the amount paid in the buyout, and that this rule applies to both primary residences and investment properties. I've been stressing about this for weeks, so getting confirmation directly from the IRS was a huge relief. Just wanted to share in case it helps others in similar situations.
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Laila Prince
Don't forget that you'll need to document everything carefully. When my brother went through this, he didn't keep proper records of the buyout payment to his ex-wife and got flagged for audit when he eventually sold the property. Make sure your dad gets everything in writing - the divorce decree, the buyout agreement, proof of payment, etc. The IRS can look back many years if you claim primary residence exclusion later.
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Sasha Reese
•Thanks for the reminder! What kind of documentation would be most important to keep? Dad has the divorce decree, but it only mentions how they'd split proceeds if they sold - nothing about one buying out the other. They did do a quitclaim deed when he paid her. Should he get something more formal for tax purposes?
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Laila Prince
•The quitclaim deed is good, but he should also keep copies of the payment proof (canceled check, wire transfer confirmation, etc.) and any written agreement they made about the buyout even if it was just emails. A formal buyout agreement would be ideal, but at minimum he needs documentation showing the amount paid and that both parties agreed to it. It would also be helpful to have an appraisal or market analysis from the time of the buyout to establish the property's fair market value when the transaction occurred. This helps establish that the buyout was a fair market transaction. If your dad moves back in, he should keep records proving it's his primary residence - utility bills, driver's license, voter registration, etc. all showing that address.
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Isabel Vega
I think everyone is overlooking something important - the timing matters a lot here. The post says they bought it in Sep 2023, split up right after, and now he's buying her out. For the divorce-related transfer rules to apply, this has to be "incident to the divorce" which generally means within 1 year after the divorce or "related to the cessation of the marriage." If the buyout happens more than 1 year after the divorce is final, there might be an argument that regular capital gain/loss rules apply instead of Section 1041. The timing could change the entire tax treatment.
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Dominique Adams
•That's a really good point about timing! The post says the property wasn't specifically addressed in the divorce decree though. Would that make a difference? Also, does anyone know if the primary residence rule is different for properties acquired during a short marriage?
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Carmen Lopez
•You raise an excellent point about the timing! The "incident to divorce" requirement is crucial here. However, there's actually a broader interpretation - transfers can qualify under Section 1041 if they're "related to the cessation of the marriage" even if they occur more than a year after the divorce decree. The key factor is whether the transfer is pursuant to the divorce or separation. Since the original post mentions the property division wasn't specifically addressed in the settlement agreement, this buyout could still qualify as divorce-related if it's resolving the property division that was left unfinished. Courts have been fairly generous in interpreting what constitutes "related to cessation of marriage." @dfd231547dac Regarding your question about short marriages and primary residence rules - the length of the marriage doesn't affect the primary residence exclusion requirements. The 2-out-of-5 year rule still applies regardless of how long they were married. The timing starts from when he actually uses it as his primary residence, not from the marriage or divorce dates.
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Sean Kelly
This is a complex situation that touches on several important tax concepts. Based on the information provided, here are the key points to consider: **Tax Basis**: Since this buyout is likely considered "incident to divorce" under Section 1041, your father's new basis would be the full original purchase price of $380k. The amount he paid ($95k) doesn't change this - he essentially steps into his ex-wife's shoes for her half of the property. **Ex-wife's tax implications**: Under Section 1041, she generally cannot claim a capital loss on this transaction. The transfer is treated as a gift with no gain or loss recognized, regardless of the amount received versus her original investment. **Primary residence exclusion**: For the Section 121 exclusion, your father needs to use the home as his main residence for at least 2 of the 5 years before any sale. This doesn't have to be continuous, but actual occupancy is required - not just avoiding rental income. If he's currently staying with his parents, he'd need to move back in and establish it as his primary residence. **Documentation**: Keep detailed records of the buyout payment, quitclaim deed, and any agreements. If he moves back in, maintain records proving primary residence status (utilities, voter registration, etc.). Given the complexity and potential audit implications, I'd strongly recommend consulting with a tax professional who can review all the specific documents and timing involved.
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TechNinja
•This is really helpful comprehensive advice! I'm dealing with a somewhat similar situation but wondering about one specific detail - what happens if there were significant improvements made to the property between the original purchase and the buyout? In my case, we renovated the kitchen for about $25k after buying the house but before separating. Does that get added to the $380k basis, or does it complicate the Section 1041 treatment? I'm trying to figure out if improvements made during the marriage affect how the basis transfers in a divorce buyout situation. @5d89d93fd609 Do you know if the timing of when improvements were made matters for basis calculation purposes?
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Jabari-Jo
•@08070f1f4358 Great question about improvements! Under Section 1041, improvements made during the marriage would typically be added to the basis. So in your case, the total basis would likely be $405k ($380k original purchase + $25k kitchen renovation). The timing of improvements does matter, but since your renovation happened during the marriage while both spouses owned the property, it should increase the total basis that transfers under the divorce rules. This applies regardless of which spouse physically paid for the improvements - marital property concepts generally treat improvements as benefiting both spouses' ownership interests. However, you'll want to keep detailed records of the improvement costs (receipts, contractor agreements, permits, etc.) since the IRS may scrutinize these additions to basis during any future audit. The key is being able to prove these were legitimate capital improvements rather than just repairs or maintenance. @5d89d93fd609 's advice about consulting a tax professional is especially important when improvements are involved, as the documentation requirements can be quite specific.
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Mia Alvarez
One additional consideration that hasn't been mentioned yet is the potential impact of mortgage debt in this situation. If there was an outstanding mortgage on the $380k property when your father bought out his ex-wife's share, the tax treatment could be more complex. For example, if they had a $200k mortgage remaining, your father may have effectively taken over her portion of the debt liability in addition to paying the $95k cash. The IRS sometimes views debt assumption as additional consideration in property transfers. Also, regarding the primary residence question - since your father has been living elsewhere (with his parents), he'll need to be strategic about timing if he wants to qualify for the Section 121 exclusion. The clock doesn't start ticking until he actually moves back in and makes it his primary residence. Simply owning it while living elsewhere doesn't count toward the 2-year requirement. If he's planning to sell within the next couple of years, he should consider moving back in as soon as possible to start accumulating the required occupancy time. The good news is that the 2 years don't have to be continuous - they just need to total 2 years within the 5-year period ending on the sale date.
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Zoe Stavros
•@53e30ed04c48 You bring up a really important point about mortgage debt that I hadn't considered! This could definitely complicate the tax treatment. If there was an outstanding mortgage and the father assumed the ex-wife's portion of that debt, would that change his basis calculation? Or would the IRS treat the debt assumption as separate from the $95k cash payment? I'm also curious about something - if he moves back in to start the 2-year clock for primary residence, does he need to maintain it as his PRIMARY residence for those 2 years, or can he have it as a secondary residence while keeping another primary residence elsewhere? The distinction seems important for someone who might be staying with family temporarily but wants to preserve the tax benefits. This whole thread has been incredibly educational about divorce property transfers - there are so many nuances I never would have thought about!
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