Can divorcing couples each claim $250k capital gains exclusion when selling home?

The good news is that you're thinking about this the right way! When you sell your primary residence during a divorce, each spouse can exclude up to $250,000 of gain from their individual tax return as long as you both meet the ownership and use tests (lived in the home as your primary residence for at least 2 of the 5 years before the sale). The capital gain is split between you, so in your example with a $500k total gain, you'd each report $250k on your individual returns. Since this exactly matches your individual exclusions, neither of you would pay capital gains tax in this scenario. You don't each report the full $500k - just your portion. That said, the buyout option could also make sense depending on other factors in your situation. If one spouse buys out the other, the transaction isn't taxable to either party when done as part of the divorce settlement. The spouse who keeps the house would have a new basis in the property.

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One thing to watch out for that nobody's mentioned: if one spouse hasn't been using the house as their primary residence (like if you've been separated and one person moved out more than 3 years ago), they might not meet the "use test" for the capital gains exclusion. The IRS requires that you've used the home as your primary residence for at least 2 of the 5 years before the sale. There is a special rule for divorcing couples that can help in some cases - if your ex-spouse continues to use the property as their main home, you can count that as your period of use too, but only if it's specified in the divorce agreement.

Has anyone here done a "deferred sale" where you both stay on the title for a few years after divorce? My ex and I are considering this because our kids are still in school and we don't want to force them to move, but I'm worried about the tax implications down the road.

Great question! I've been through a similar situation and want to add a few practical considerations that might help with your decision-making process. One thing to consider is the timing of when you actually close on the sale versus when your divorce is finalized. Even though both happen in 2024, the exact sequence can affect how you handle the paperwork and coordinate with your attorneys. We found it smoother to have our divorce decree explicitly state how the house sale proceeds would be divided, even though we sold before the divorce was final. Also worth mentioning - make sure you're both equally involved in the sale process (listing agent selection, pricing decisions, etc.) since you're both on the title. This can prevent disputes later and ensures you're both comfortable with the decisions being made. The buyout option you mentioned can work well, but factor in the transaction costs of a cash-out refinance versus a sale. In our case, the refinance costs plus the higher interest rate environment made selling the better financial choice, even with realtor commissions. Sounds like you're already planning to get professional help, which is smart. A CDFA can run the numbers on both scenarios to show you the exact financial impact over time.