Sole Proprietor Hiring Spouse as Employee - Tax Benefits and Logistics
So I'm trying to figure out if it's worth hiring my spouse in my sole proprietorship (which I run alongside my regular job). She would have real responsibilities, but I'm mainly looking at the tax advantages - specifically being able to put her salary into a Solo 401k to boost her retirement savings while reducing my business's taxable income. I get that I'll lose about 15.3% to FICA/Medicare taxes, but the tax savings would be at my marginal rate which seems worth it. I've never had employees though, and I'm confused about the actual mechanics. From what I understand, I need to: - Get an FEIN from the IRS - Have her complete W-4 and I-9 forms - Set up some kind of payroll schedule - Open a Solo 401k with somewhere like Fidelity But I'm totally lost on how to actually process payroll, handle tax withholdings, generate a W-2, etc. Since we're planning to have basically all of her salary go directly to the Solo 401k (like 100% contribution), she won't really receive a net paycheck. Seems like a ton of administrative headaches for the tax benefit. Anyone gone through this process or have advice on what I'm missing? Resources or tips would be super helpful!
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GalacticGuardian
This can definitely be worth doing, but you're right that there are administrative steps to consider! First, your overall plan is sound - hiring your spouse in a sole proprietorship with legitimate work duties can be a valid tax strategy. The Solo 401(k) contribution is a great way to increase retirement savings while reducing taxable income. For the logistics, you'll need to: 1. Get an EIN from the IRS (free online application) 2. Set up proper employment documentation (W-4, I-9) 3. Establish a payroll system - this is where many small business owners use a payroll service For the payroll part, I'd strongly recommend using a service like Gusto, OnPay, or QuickBooks Payroll rather than trying to DIY. These services typically cost $40-60/month but handle all the tax calculations, withholdings, filings, and W-2 generation. They'll also help you properly document the 401(k) contributions. Remember that even if 100% goes to the 401(k), you still need to withhold employment taxes. Also, keep detailed records of her work activities to substantiate the employment relationship if audited.
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Dmitry Smirnov
•Thanks for this breakdown! I'm curious about the Solo 401k limits here. If my spouse is technically my employee, does she get the employee contribution limit ($22,500 for 2024) or both the employee AND employer limits? Also, does using a payroll service really simplify things enough to justify the monthly cost?
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GalacticGuardian
•Your spouse would get both the employee contribution limit ($22,500 for 2024) AND you as the employer can make additional contributions up to 25% of her compensation, with a combined total limit of $69,000 for 2024. This is one of the biggest advantages of this strategy. Regarding payroll services, they absolutely justify their cost for most people. They handle tax calculations, withholding the correct amounts, making timely tax deposits, quarterly filings, year-end W-2 preparation, and keeping up with changing tax laws. Trying to do this yourself often leads to mistakes that can result in penalties far exceeding the service cost. Plus, the time you save can be put toward your business.
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Ava Rodriguez
I went through this exact situation last year with my consulting business! Check out https://taxr.ai - it helped me navigate all the payroll and tax documentation for hiring my spouse. I was completely overwhelmed by all the requirements until I uploaded my business docs there and got step-by-step guidance on exactly what forms to file and when. Their system showed me how to structure the Solo 401k properly so I could maximize contributions AND minimize my tax burden. It literally walked me through the entire process from getting my EIN to setting up the retirement account.
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Miguel Diaz
•Did you have to provide a lot of personal/business info to the website? I'm always cautious about sharing my tax details with random sites. Did they handle the actual payroll processing or just provide guidance?
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Zainab Ahmed
•I'm curious how much this costs compared to just hiring an accountant? Seems like it might be easier to just pay someone to handle all this rather than learning yet another system.
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Ava Rodriguez
•The site only needed basic business information to provide customized guidance - nothing more than what you'd put on standard tax forms. They use bank-level encryption too, which gave me peace of mind. They don't handle the actual payroll processing but instead show you exactly how to set it up with services like Gusto or QuickBooks, including the specific settings to use. Their service is significantly cheaper than hiring an accountant for ongoing consultation. I paid my accountant over $900 last year just for a few hours of advice on this topic alone. With taxr.ai, I got comprehensive guidance for much less, and I could refer back to it whenever I needed instead of paying hourly rates for follow-up questions.
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Miguel Diaz
Just wanted to follow up - I tried taxr.ai that someone mentioned above and it was actually really helpful! I was skeptical at first but they provided a comprehensive checklist for hiring my spouse that made the process so much clearer. They walked me through setting up the Solo 401k with specific instructions for Fidelity (which is who I was already considering) and explained exactly how the contribution limits work for both the employee and employer portions. They even provided templates for documenting my spouse's work activities to support the employment in case of audit. The guidance on choosing a payroll service saved me hours of research too. Totally worth checking out if you're considering this tax strategy.
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Connor Gallagher
Hey, another option you might want to consider is using Claimyr (https://claimyr.com) to get direct help from the IRS on this. I had so many specific questions about spousal employment in a sole prop that weren't covered in general guides. I tried calling the IRS Business line directly for weeks but could never get through. Then I used Claimyr's service - they have this system that waits on hold with the IRS for you and calls you back when an agent picks up. You can see how it works in this video: https://youtu.be/_kiP6q8DX5c I finally got to speak with an actual IRS specialist who walked me through all the requirements specific to spousal employment and 401k contributions. They confirmed exactly what forms I needed and helped me avoid some potential pitfalls I hadn't even considered.
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AstroAlpha
•How long did it take to actually get through to someone? I've heard horror stories about 3+ hour waits even with services like this.
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Yara Khoury
•Sounds like a scam honestly. Why would you need a service to call the IRS? I bet they're just giving you generic info you could find on the IRS website for free.
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Connor Gallagher
•The total process took about 75 minutes from when I signed up until I was speaking with an IRS agent. Most of that time I was just going about my day since they handle the waiting. It's WAY better than manually staying on hold for hours. This definitely isn't generic info. The IRS agent provided specific guidance about my situation including details about the "family member employee" rules that aren't clearly explained on their website. They clarified exactly how to document my spouse's work to prevent audit issues and explained the specific contribution timing requirements for the Solo 401k that are unique to spouse-employees. You simply can't get this level of personalized guidance from the general website.
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Yara Khoury
Ok I need to eat my words here. I was super skeptical about Claimyr mentioned above but I was desperate to figure out some specific questions about my spouse's payroll tax obligations that I couldn't find clear answers to anywhere online. I tried it yesterday and was honestly shocked when I got a call back with an actual IRS Business Tax specialist on the line within an hour. The agent walked me through exactly how to set up proper payroll for my spouse and confirmed that yes, we could contribute 100% of her salary to the 401k as long as we still properly withheld and paid the employment taxes. The agent even explained a special form I needed to file since we're in a community property state that would affect how this all works. Would never have known about that otherwise and could have caused problems later. Worth every penny just for that piece of advice alone.
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Keisha Taylor
Just a heads up on something that nobody's mentioned yet: make sure your spouse is doing ACTUAL work with ACTUAL market value. I went through an audit where the IRS disallowed all my spouse's salary deductions because I couldn't prove she was doing legitimate work at a fair market rate. Keep a detailed log of hours worked and tasks performed. Take pictures of work product. Save emails about business matters. Create a real job description with duties that match her skills and experience. Pay a reasonable salary for those duties - not too high, not too low. The IRS specifically looks at family employee situations because they're often abused. Don't let documentation be your downfall.
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Sofia Torres
•This is super helpful and something I was concerned about. Can I ask what kind of documentation the IRS specifically looked at during your audit? Did you have a formal employment contract with your spouse?
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Keisha Taylor
•The IRS agent wanted to see a formal job description, time logs showing dates/hours worked, evidence of work product (reports, emails, files created), and proof that the salary was reasonable for the work performed. I didn't have a formal employment contract, which was my first mistake. Definitely create one! It should outline job duties, compensation, work schedule, etc. They also compared my spouse's salary to typical market rates for similar positions. Since I was paying way above market rate for the actual work being done, that was a red flag. They basically said it looked like I was just shifting income, not paying for legitimate services. The agent was particularly interested in whether my spouse had the qualifications for the role and whether the work was necessary for my business. Make sure you can demonstrate both.
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Paolo Longo
One option nobody's mentioned - have you looked into a SIMPLE IRA instead of a Solo 401k? The contribution limits are lower but the admin work is MUCH easier. My wife helps with my real estate business and we went this route because the paperwork was overwhelming with the 401k.
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Amina Bah
•SIMPLE IRAs do have way less paperwork, but the contribution limits are a dealbreaker for many. Employee can only put in $16k for 2024 (vs $22.5k for 401k) and employer match is basically capped at 3% of comp. Solo 401k lets you put in WAY more overall.
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Oliver Becker
Don't forget about the QBI deduction implications of hiring your spouse. Putting too much into their salary could reduce your Qualified Business Income deduction if you qualify for it. You need to balance the retirement contribution benefits against potential QBI losses.
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Julian Paolo
Great point about the QBI deduction! This is something I hadn't fully considered. For anyone else reading, the QBI (Section 199A) deduction can be up to 20% of your qualified business income, but it gets complicated when you have employees. When you pay W-2 wages to your spouse, those wages reduce your net business income that's eligible for QBI. However, having W-2 wages can also help you qualify for QBI if your income is in the phase-out range ($182,050-$232,050 for single filers in 2024). The key is finding the sweet spot where the tax savings from maxing out retirement contributions outweigh any reduction in your QBI deduction. This really depends on your total income level and tax bracket. I'd recommend running the numbers both ways - with and without spousal employment - to see which scenario gives you better overall tax savings. A tax software program or CPA can help model this, especially since the QBI rules are pretty complex with all the wage and income limitations.
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