Should We File Taxes Jointly or Separately When My Spouse Has a Carpentry Business?
I got married last year in 2024 and we're trying to figure out our tax situation for filing this year. My husband runs a small custom carpentry workshop and when he filed last year as a business owner, he had quite a few itemized deductions. He ended up paying around $1600 in taxes after everything. I have four kids (all under 16) who are my dependents. Nothing complicated with my tax situation and I've always gotten a refund in previous years. We're torn between filing separately or jointly for our first married tax return. I've heard there are some tax credits you can't get if you file as married filing separately. But I'm wondering if there's any advantage to filing separately when one spouse owns a business? Would it protect my refund from potentially being eaten up by his business taxes? Or are we better off combining everything? Any advice from people who've been in similar situations would be really helpful!
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Amina Sy
Tax advisor here! The general rule is that filing jointly is almost always more beneficial for married couples, even when one spouse owns a business. Here's why: When filing jointly, you'll have access to several tax credits that aren't available when filing separately - like the Earned Income Credit, Child and Dependent Care Credit, and education credits. With four children, these could be significant for you. For the business, filing jointly doesn't change how the business income is reported. Your husband will still file a Schedule C for his carpentry business with all the same deductions he would take filing separately. The business profit will flow to your joint return, but you'll also have your income, withholding, and those valuable credits for the children offsetting the tax. The standard deduction for joint filers is exactly twice the amount for those filing separately, so there's no loss there. And you'll likely qualify for a lower tax rate on your combined income when filing jointly.
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Oliver Fischer
•But what about the situation where one spouse has a risky business that might get audited? Wouldn't filing separately protect the other spouse from being dragged into potential audit issues?
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Amina Sy
•The IRS can still examine all relevant financial information regardless of filing status. Filing separately doesn't create a legal barrier protecting one spouse from the other's audit. If there are legitimate concerns about potential business liabilities, those are better addressed through proper business formation (like an LLC or corporation) rather than tax filing status. That separates business liabilities from personal assets legally, while you still get the tax benefits of filing jointly.
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Natasha Ivanova
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NebulaNomad
•How does this compare to just using TurboTax or H&R Block? I've been using those for years but they never really explain if I'm making the right choice between filing options.
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Javier Garcia
•I'm a bit skeptical about these online tools. Did it actually save you money compared to using an accountant? And how did it handle the business deductions that seem to be the main concern here?
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Natasha Ivanova
•The difference is that regular tax software just asks you questions and calculates based on what you input, but doesn't analyze your specific situation to find the best strategy. I tried both ways with TurboTax before finding taxr.ai and it was just "here's your refund" without explaining why one filing status was better than another. As for working with an accountant, we actually did that too the previous year and paid around $350. The taxr.ai analysis matched what our accountant recommended but gave us more detailed explanations about why certain deductions worked the way they did with the business. It handled all the Schedule C business expenses exactly the same way but made it easier to see how they interacted with our other tax benefits when combined on a joint return.
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Javier Garcia
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Emma Taylor
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Malik Robinson
•Wait, how does this actually work? Does it just keep calling the IRS for you until it gets through? I've been trying to reach them about an EIN issue for my side business for weeks.
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Isabella Silva
•Sorry but this sounds like BS. Nobody gets through to the IRS in 15 minutes. I worked in tax preparation for years and even with our professional lines it takes hours or days of trying.
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Emma Taylor
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Isabella Silva
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Ravi Choudhury
Coming back to the original question - we were in an almost identical situation last year. Husband with woodworking business, me with 3 kids. We calculated our taxes both ways (jointly and separately) and filing jointly saved us about $4,200! The biggest factors were: 1. Child Tax Credit - filing jointly let us maximize this based on our combined income 2. Earned Income Credit - not available if filing separately 3. Lower overall tax bracket for some of our income when combined 4. Still got to take all the business deductions The business deductions worked the same either way, but we got more tax benefits overall by filing jointly.
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Paolo Rizzo
•Did filing jointly affect how your husband claimed his business expenses at all? That's one thing I'm worried about - if somehow his carpentry deductions would be limited if we file together.
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Ravi Choudhury
•Not at all! He claimed exactly the same business expenses either way. The Schedule C for his business worked exactly the same whether we filed jointly or separately. All his tools, materials, vehicle expenses, studio rent, insurance - everything was deductible exactly the same way. The only difference was that when we filed jointly, all those business deductions helped offset our combined income, plus we qualified for additional credits that saved us thousands. If we had filed separately, I would have gotten some credits for the kids, but not as much as when we combined everything, and we would have lost some credits entirely.
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CosmosCaptain
Has anyone looked into the Self-Employment tax implications? That's what killed us last year. My husband's carpentry business did well but we got hit with a huge SE tax bill.
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Freya Johansen
•Self-employment tax is calculated the same way regardless of filing status. It's always 15.3% of net business profit (12.4% for Social Security up to the wage limit and 2.9% for Medicare on all profit). Filing jointly doesn't change this amount. What filing jointly DOES help with is the income tax portion, where you get better rates and more credits. So while the SE tax stays the same, your overall tax burden is usually lower when filing jointly because of how everything else is calculated more favorably.
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CosmosCaptain
•Thanks for explaining that! I guess we were confusing the SE tax with regular income tax. Makes sense that the 15.3% stays the same regardless. Good to know the filing status mainly affects the income tax portion.
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