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Should I file MARRIED FILING SEPARATELY OR TOGETHER with a new business owner spouse?

Hey everyone, I'm looking for some tax advice regarding what filing status would be most beneficial for my situation. My wife and I have been married for about 4 years now and have always filed jointly. But our situation has changed a bit, and I'm wondering if we should reconsider our filing status. I work a regular job where I get W2s (I'm paid hourly), while my wife recently started her own business that's just under her social security number, not an LLC or anything formal yet. We also just welcomed our daughter in late December 2024, so this will be our first time filing with a dependent. For context, our household income last year was around $152K, with my job accounting for most of that. We live in Washington state, so no state income tax to worry about at least. I've heard mixed things about whether married filing jointly or separately would be better when one spouse has a business. With the new baby and everything, I want to make sure we're making the smartest choice for our first tax filing as parents. Any input would be super appreciated! Let me know if you need more details about our situation.

Filing jointly is almost always more beneficial than filing separately, especially in your situation. With a new baby, you'll qualify for tax credits like the Child Tax Credit that are more advantageous when filing jointly. When one spouse has a business, filing separately doesn't protect the W2 spouse from tax liability associated with the business. In fact, filing separately often results in higher overall tax rates and disqualifies you from certain deductions and credits. The main reasons people choose married filing separately are usually for very specific situations - like income-based student loan repayments, separation situations, or when one spouse has significant medical expenses or tax problems. For your specific situation with a new business and a new baby, I'd strongly recommend filing jointly unless there's a specific reason you haven't mentioned. You'll likely qualify for more credits, including dependent care credits if you have childcare expenses.

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Ella Thompson

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What about the self-employment taxes for his wife's business? Doesn't filing separately protect him from those? And would they lose any business deductions if they file jointly?

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Self-employment taxes are only assessed on the individual with the self-employment income, regardless of filing status. So the husband won't be liable for the wife's self-employment taxes (Medicare and Social Security) whether they file jointly or separately. Filing jointly doesn't impact business deductions at all. The wife can still take all legitimate business expenses on Schedule C to reduce the net business income, regardless of filing status. In fact, if the business operates at a loss, filing jointly could allow that loss to offset some of the W2 income, potentially reducing their overall tax burden.

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Rachel Clark

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One thing nobody's mentioned yet - if your wife's business is still fairly new, it might be operating at a loss. If that's the case, filing jointly is almost definitely better because those business losses can offset your W2 income, potentially putting you in a lower tax bracket. Also, with a December baby, make sure you claim the Child Tax Credit - that's up to $2,000 for 2024 taxes. You qualify for the full amount with your income level.

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Admin_Masters

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Thanks so much for mentioning this! My wife's business is actually still in the investment phase and will probably show a small loss for 2024. I didn't even think about how that might offset my W2 income if we file jointly. Do you know if there are any limits to how much business loss can offset regular income? And yes, we'll definitely claim the Child Tax Credit!

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Rachel Clark

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There are some limits, but they probably won't affect you. The business loss can generally offset your other income, but if the loss is very large (over $270,000 for married filing jointly in 2024), it might be subject to the excess business loss limitation. For most small businesses with moderate losses, you can use the full amount of the loss to offset your W2 income. This is a huge advantage of filing jointly - if you filed separately, your wife's business loss could only offset her income, not yours.

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Don't forget about self-employment taxes too! Your wife will need to pay those on her business profits (15.3% for Social Security and Medicare). That's on top of regular income tax. If her business isn't making much profit yet, the tax hit won't be bad. But once she starts making good money, you might want to look into forming an S-Corp instead of sole proprietorship to save on some of those SE taxes.

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Mia Alvarez

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Yeah but S-Corps come with their own headaches. You have to run payroll, file more complicated returns, etc. I wouldn't recommend it until the business is making at least $40k in profit.

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