Should I file separately or Jointly with my spouse for better tax return?
Hey everyone, I'm filing as married for the first time this tax season and have some basic questions before I dive in and try both options. 1. If we go with married filing jointly, am I right in thinking that only one of us would handle the whole tax filing process and the other person wouldn't need to do anything? 2. In your experience, do people generally get a better return filing separately or jointly? For some context, I'm working a full-time job bringing in all our household income, while my husband is in law school with basically zero income but has substantial student loans. Just trying to figure out the smartest approach here. Thanks for any advice!
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Lucas Lindsey
Filing jointly is usually better for most couples, especially in your situation where one spouse has no income. To answer your questions: When you file jointly, you'll submit one tax return that includes both of your information, so yes, technically only one person needs to physically prepare and submit it, but both spouses need to sign it (either electronically or on paper). As for which filing status gets a better return, married filing jointly almost always results in a lower tax bill/higher refund than married filing separately, particularly in your case. With you being the only income earner and your husband in school, filing jointly will likely give you access to more tax benefits like a higher standard deduction, certain credits, and potentially lower tax brackets. The few situations where separate filing might benefit couples usually involve significant medical expenses, student loan repayment considerations, or liability concerns.
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Sophie Duck
•What about student loan repayments on income-based plans? I heard filing separately can sometimes be better if one spouse is on an income-based repayment plan because it only considers that person's income rather than joint income?
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Lucas Lindsey
•You raise an excellent point about student loan repayments. If your husband is on (or planning to go on) an income-based repayment plan for federal student loans, filing separately might actually be beneficial because his payments would be calculated based solely on his income (which you mentioned is zero) rather than your combined household income. However, you should calculate the total impact. While filing separately might lower the student loan payments, you could lose valuable tax benefits like education credits, higher standard deduction, and potentially pay more in overall taxes. It's worth running the numbers both ways to see which option saves you more money when considering both tax savings and student loan payment reductions.
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Austin Leonard
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Abigail Spencer
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Logan Chiang
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Ruby Blake
My experience: ALWAYS run the numbers both ways before deciding. My husband and I have been married 7 years and we've filed separately 5 times and jointly twice. It really depends on your specific situation each year. Some specific considerations in your case: - Student loan repayment plans (as others mentioned) - Potential education credits if your spouse has qualified expenses - Higher phase-out thresholds for certain deductions when filing jointly - State tax implications (some states require you to file the same status as federal) Don't just assume one way is always better!
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Micah Franklin
•Do you use special software to calculate both scenarios? Seems like it would be time-consuming to do everything twice.
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Ruby Blake
•I use TurboTax and it has a feature that lets you compare filing jointly vs. separately. Most of the major tax software options have this comparison tool built in. You basically enter all your information once, and then it shows you the difference in refund/amount owed for both filing statuses. It takes maybe an extra 15-20 minutes to review both scenarios, but it's definitely worth it when you discover a difference of several hundred or even thousands of dollars. In our case, we've saved over $12,000 across those 7 years by choosing the optimal filing status each year rather than just defaulting to one option.
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Ella Harper
You mentioned your spouse has substantial student loans - are they federal or private? If federal and they're on an income-based repayment plan (or planning to apply for one), this is HUGELY important in your decision. Filing separately might mean much lower monthly payments since they'd only count your spouse's income (which you said is zero). But there's a tradeoff - you might lose some tax benefits when filing separately like education credits, higher standard deduction, and better tax brackets. Run the numbers both ways!
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PrinceJoe
•This is so important! My wife and I saved over $4k last year by filing separately specifically because of her federal student loans on IBR. The tax hit was about $1800 more filing separately, but her monthly payments dropped by $450 per month which saved us $5400 for the year.
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