Should my husband and I file married jointly or separately for tax benefits?
Hey tax folks! My husband and I just got married last June and we're trying to figure out if we should file jointly or separately for this upcoming tax season. I make about $62,000 as a nurse and he makes around $48,000 working in construction. Neither of us has filed married before so we're totally lost! We bought our first house in August and have about $14,000 in student loans between us (mostly mine from nursing school). I also do some occasional weekend shifts that I get paid as a 1099 (about $5,500 last year). We both have pretty standard deductions otherwise, nothing too complicated. I've heard filing jointly usually saves money, but then someone at work told me we might be better off filing separately because of my side income? Any advice on what typically works better for couples in our situation? Thanks so much!
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Yuki Ito
In most cases, married filing jointly will provide more tax benefits than filing separately. This is especially true since the Tax Cuts and Jobs Act increased the standard deduction for joint filers to exactly double the single filer amount. With your situation, filing jointly would likely benefit you because: - You'll get a higher standard deduction ($27,700 for 2023 joint filers vs $13,850 if filing separately) - You'll have access to certain tax credits that are reduced or eliminated for separate filers (like education credits for those student loans) - Your combined income puts you in a favorable tax bracket together Your 1099 income doesn't necessarily make filing separately better. However, you should be making quarterly estimated tax payments on that 1099 income to avoid underpayment penalties. The mortgage interest deduction for your new home can be claimed whether filing jointly or separately, but the benefit is typically better when combined.
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Carmen Lopez
•What about if one spouse has income-based student loan payments? I heard filing separately sometimes helps keep those payments lower?
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Yuki Ito
•Income-based repayment plans for federal student loans are one of the few situations where filing separately might be beneficial. If one spouse has significantly higher student loan debt and is on an income-based repayment plan, filing separately might result in lower monthly payments since only that person's income would be considered for the calculation. However, you need to run the numbers both ways. The tax savings from filing jointly often outweigh the student loan payment savings. Plus, some income-based plans like REPAYE will consider both spouses' incomes regardless of filing status.
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AstroAdventurer
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GalacticGuru
Just wanted to add that my husband and I were in almost the exact same boat last year! We ended up filing jointly and saved about $1,300 compared to filing separately. One thing to consider - if either of you has any past tax debts or is behind on child support payments, filing separately might protect the other spouse from having their refund offset. Otherwise, joint is usually the way to go!
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Ethan Taylor
•Thanks for sharing your experience! Neither of us has any tax debts or child support, so it sounds like joint is probably the way to go for us. Did you use any particular tax software that was helpful for comparing the two options?
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GalacticGuru
•We used H&R Block's online software which made it pretty easy to compare. We entered all our info for a joint return first, noted the refund amount, then created a new return and selected married filing separately to see the difference. TaxAct also has a good comparison feature that's a bit more straightforward - it can show you both scenarios side by side after you enter all your information once.
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Amara Nnamani
has anyone actually looked at the tax bracket cutoffs? sometimes if both spouses make similar incomes filing separately can be better because it keeps both of you in a lower bracket. my wife and i saved like $700 last year filing separately.
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Giovanni Mancini
•That's actually a common misconception. The married filing separately brackets aren't the same as single brackets - they're exactly half of the married filing jointly brackets. So there's usually no tax bracket advantage to filing separately if both spouses have similar incomes. The only exception is if one spouse has significant itemized deductions that would be limited by the other spouse's income. But with the higher standard deduction now, that's rare for most people.
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