My parents didn't claim me as a dependent, but they technically could have qualified for it

When I was filling out my tax return this year the software I was using asked if I could be claimed as a dependent by someone else. I'm pretty sure my parents *could* claim me as a dependent because I'm a full-time student (21), I lived with them most of the year when not at college, and they paid for more than half of my support (tuition, housing, food, etc). But here's the thing - they already filed their taxes and they didn't claim me as a dependent. They said they wanted me to get more money back on my return or something. The tax software is saying I should mark "yes" that I could be claimed as a dependent if someone qualifies to claim me, regardless of whether they actually do. Now I'm confused what to do. If I say "yes" I could be claimed, I lose out on like $1200 in credits and my refund drops a ton. But if I say "no" when technically the answer is "yes", am I committing tax fraud even though my parents specifically didn't claim me? I really don't want to mess this up.

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Zainab Yusuf

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This is actually a really important distinction in tax filing. The question isn't asking if someone DID claim you, but rather if someone COULD claim you based on the IRS dependency tests. If you meet the criteria to be claimed as a dependent (which it sounds like you do based on the student status, living situation, and support details), then you need to check "yes" that you can be claimed as a dependent - even if your parents chose not to claim you. The IRS rules are designed this way to prevent both you AND your parents from claiming certain credits and deductions. Unfortunately, your parents' good intentions might not work out the way they hoped. When someone qualifies to claim you as a dependent, certain tax benefits are reserved for them, even if they don't use them.

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Zainab Yusuf

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The tax code is designed to assign certain benefits to specific taxpayers, not to ensure everyone gets maximum benefits. If the parents could claim OP as a dependent but chose not to, those credits don't become available to OP - they simply go unused. Yes, the parents could potentially amend their tax return to claim OP as a dependent if they're still within the amendment timeframe (generally within 3 years of filing). This would allow them to receive the tax benefits associated with having a dependent. However, OP would still need to file correctly stating they could be claimed as a dependent.

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Yara Khoury

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Yara Khoury

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Oliver Becker

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Natasha Petrova

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I'm a college student too and had the same issue. My parents could claim me but didn't want to. What I learned is that there's a specific order to follow: 1) First, determine if someone CAN claim you based on the dependency tests 2) If yes, you MUST check that box even if they don't actually claim you 3) Your parents should calculate their taxes both ways (claiming you vs not) to see which is better overall In our case, my parents saved more by not claiming me, but I still had to check the box that I could be claimed. It sucks because I lost out on some credits, but filing correctly is important.

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Natasha Petrova

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Yes, that's actually exactly what my parents did! They calculated that they would save about $800 by claiming me, but I would lose $1200 in credits. So they decided not to claim me and instead gave me $900 as a gift. That way our family as a whole came out ahead, and I still got more than if they had claimed me. The key is that regardless of their decision or any money they give you, you still need to answer the tax form questions honestly. The question isn't asking about what someone else decided to do on their return - it's asking whether you meet the criteria to be claimed as a dependent.

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