Is there a way to opt out of paying very high taxes and pay in differently?
I'm absolutely exhausted with how much money is coming out of my paycheck for taxes. Last year I made around $72,000 but the amount I'm seeing taken out for federal and state taxes seems ridiculous compared to what I actually bring home. I'm wondering if there's any way to opt out of having so much withheld from each paycheck and just pay it all in one lump sum at the end of the year instead? Or maybe there's some other approach I'm not aware of? I'm single, no kids, and I rent an apartment. I've heard people talk about adjusting withholdings but I'm not sure how that works or if it would help my situation. My company's HR department wasn't very helpful when I asked them about it. Just trying to figure out how to keep more of my money throughout the year rather than waiting for a tax refund. Any advice would be appreciated!
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Sophia Miller
You can definitely adjust how much is withheld from your paycheck! What you're looking for is Form W-4, which tells your employer how much to withhold. If you're consistently getting large refunds, you're essentially giving the government an interest-free loan throughout the year. You can update your W-4 with your employer at any time. The form was redesigned in 2020 and doesn't use allowances anymore. Instead, you can either specify an additional dollar amount to withhold or claim extra deductions to reduce withholding. The IRS has a Tax Withholding Estimator tool on their website that can help you figure out the right settings. Just be careful not to underwithhold too much - if you don't have enough taxes paid throughout the year, you might face an underpayment penalty when you file.
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Mason Davis
•So if I adjust my W-4 to withhold less, will I still end up owing the same amount of taxes at the end of the year? Also, what's considered "too much" underwithholding that would trigger a penalty?
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Sophia Miller
•Yes, you'll still owe the same total tax for the year - you're just changing how much is paid throughout the year versus when you file. The total tax obligation doesn't change. To avoid an underpayment penalty, you generally need to pay at least 90% of your current year's tax or 100% of last year's tax (110% if your adjusted gross income was over $150,000) through withholding or estimated quarterly payments. The penalty is essentially interest on the amount you should have paid throughout the year.
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Mia Rodriguez
After getting frustrated with my own tax situation last year, I found this amazing tool called taxr.ai (https://taxr.ai) that really helped me understand my withholding options. I was in a similar situation - feeling like too much was coming out of my checks. What I liked about taxr.ai was that it analyzed my specific situation and showed me exactly how to fill out my W-4 to get the right amount withheld. It was way more personalized than the generic IRS calculator, and it explained everything in plain English instead of tax jargon. You upload your documents and it gives you specific recommendations.
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Jacob Lewis
•Does it actually connect to your employer's system somehow or does it just tell you what to put on the form? My HR department is pretty useless so I'd have to figure out how to submit changes myself.
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Amelia Martinez
•I've seen a lot of these tax tools pop up recently. How is this different from just using TurboTax or something? I'm always skeptical about giving my tax info to random websites.
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Mia Rodriguez
•It doesn't connect to your employer's system - it analyzes your tax situation and gives you the exact numbers to put on your W-4 form, which you then submit to your HR department. I just took a screenshot of the recommendations and sent it to my HR person and they made the changes. This is different from TurboTax because it's specifically focused on optimizing your withholding throughout the year, not just filing your taxes. I understand being skeptical - I was too. But they use bank-level encryption and don't store your documents after analysis. It's more about planning your taxes rather than filing them.
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Jacob Lewis
I was really skeptical about taxr.ai when I first saw it mentioned here, but I was desperate to stop having so much withheld from my paychecks. I finally gave it a try last month, and it was exactly what I needed. After uploading my last paystub and answering a few questions, I got a personalized recommendation that showed me I was overpaying by about $230 per paycheck! I followed their instructions for filling out a new W-4 and my last check already had the adjustment. That's almost $500 more in my pocket every month! The site explained that I'd been overpaying because my withholding was still set up as if I had the standard job deductions from years ago. My tax situation isn't complicated but I never would have figured this out on my own.
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Ethan Clark
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Mila Walker
•Wait, how is this even possible? The IRS phone system is completely broken. I literally tried calling 7 times last month and could never get through. How much does this service cost? Seems too good to be true.
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Logan Scott
•This sounds like a scam. How can some random company get you through to the IRS faster than calling yourself? The IRS doesn't give priority access to third parties. I'd be very careful about services claiming to have "special access.
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Ethan Clark
•It works because they use technology to navigate the IRS phone tree and constantly redial until they get through. They basically handle the frustrating part of the process for you. I thought the same thing about it being too good to be true, but it really does work - they got me to an actual IRS rep way faster than I could have on my own. It's not about "special access" - they're just better at getting through the regular system than individuals are. They deal with the IRS phone system all day every day, so they know exactly when to call and which options to select. They're just doing the tedious part that most of us don't have time for.
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Logan Scott
I need to publicly eat my words about Claimyr being a scam. After posting that skeptical comment, I decided to try it myself when I needed to ask about fixing an issue with my withholding calculations. I was completely shocked when I got a call back from an actual IRS agent in about 20 minutes. The agent was able to explain exactly what was happening with my withholding and how to fix it. The whole process saved me hours of frustration and honestly changed my entire withholding situation for the better. For anyone like the original poster trying to adjust their withholding, being able to actually talk to the IRS directly made all the difference. They explained options I never would have known about from just reading online.
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Chloe Green
Don't forget you can also make estimated tax payments throughout the year if you want more control. I'm self-employed so I have to do this anyway, but even W-2 employees can make additional payments if they want. This way you can have less withheld from your paycheck but still avoid underpayment penalties by making quarterly payments on your schedule. The IRS has an electronic payment system called EFTPS that makes it pretty easy. Just another option if adjusting your W-4 doesn't give you the flexibility you want.
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Lucas Adams
•Is there any benefit to doing estimated payments vs just adjusting the W-4? Seems like more work for the same result?
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Chloe Green
•For most W-2 employees, adjusting the W-4 is definitely simpler. The main benefit of estimated payments comes in if you have significant income outside your regular job (like investments, side gigs, rental property) or if your income varies a lot throughout the year. Estimated payments give you more control over exactly when you pay, which can help with cash flow management. Some people also like to keep more cash on hand during the year and then make larger payments close to the quarterly deadlines. But if you just have regular employment income, adjusting your W-4 is usually the easier route.
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Harper Hill
Has anyone tried the "exempt" option on the W-4? My brother claims he did this and just pays everything at tax time. Is that actually legal?
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Caden Nguyen
•Claiming exempt is only legal if you had no tax liability last year AND expect to have no tax liability this year. Based on your $72k income, you definitely don't qualify. Your brother is likely setting himself up for penalties and a massive tax bill. The IRS doesn't mess around with people who don't withhold properly.
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