Is the IRS really demanding birth certificates, SSN cards, and utility bills for dependents now? My tax preparer says it's required
I just had the strangest experience at my tax guy's office yesterday. I've been using him for about 8 years and he's always been straightforward. But this time he told me something that raised major red flags - he said the IRS is now requiring him to collect and keep copies of my kid's birth certificate, his school report cards, all our social security cards, plus copies of my utility bills for proof of residence. This immediately felt wrong to me. I've never had to provide this much personal documentation before, especially not copies they would keep on file. I tried searching online when I got home but couldn't find anything about the IRS requiring tax preparers to collect and store all these documents. Has anyone else's tax preparer asked for this? Is this actually a new IRS requirement or is my preparer trying to pull something sketchy? He's never given me reasons to doubt him before, but this request seems excessive and potentially dangerous from an identity theft perspective. I'm seriously considering finding someone new if this isn't legit.
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Savannah Weiner
Tax professional here. What your preparer told you is NOT accurate. The IRS does not require tax preparers to collect and store copies of birth certificates, report cards, or utility bills for general tax filing purposes. What's likely happening is your preparer is confusing due diligence requirements for certain tax credits (like the Earned Income Tax Credit or Child Tax Credit) with mandatory document collection. Tax preparers are required to ask certain questions and document that they've verified eligibility, but they don't need to keep physical copies of your personal documents. At most, they might need to see (not keep) a social security card to verify the correct SSN for a dependent. For EITC claims, they need to complete a due diligence checklist, but this doesn't involve storing your personal documents in their files. I'd suggest having a conversation with your preparer to clarify why they believe this is necessary. If they insist, request the specific IRS publication or requirement they're referencing.
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Levi Parker
•Thanks for clarifying! I'm curious - what's the actual documentation that tax preparers ARE required to keep for tax filings with dependents? My preparer asked to see my kids' SSN cards but didn't ask to keep copies.
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Savannah Weiner
•Tax preparers generally just need to document that they've verified the information you provide is accurate. For dependents, they should verify their name, SSN, and relationship, but typically just by seeing documentation, not keeping copies. For due diligence with credits like the EITC, Child Tax Credit, or American Opportunity Credit, preparers need to complete Form 8867 (Paid Preparer's Due Diligence Checklist) and keep this with their records. They should also keep notes about what questions they asked and your responses regarding eligibility. This protects both you and them.
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Brandon Parker
I'm a tax preparer myself and I think I know what's happening with your preparer. The IRS has been cracking down on fraudulent dependent claims and EITC/CTC claims, so many preparers are getting nervous about penalties. Due diligence requirements HAVE increased, but your preparer is taking it way too far. We need to verify information and keep records of our verification process, but we absolutely don't need to keep copies of your birth certificates and utility bills. That's excessive and creates unnecessary security risks. If this is someone you've worked with for years, maybe gently educate them rather than immediately finding someone new? Share what you've learned about the actual requirements.
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Giovanni Martello
•Thanks for this perspective. I was wondering if maybe he was just being extra cautious because of some new crackdown. Would you mind sharing what documentation is actually reasonable for him to request to see (not keep) for dependent verification? I want to approach this conversation informed.
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Brandon Parker
•For verification purposes, it's reasonable for him to ask to see (but not keep copies of) social security cards to verify SSNs for you and your dependents. If you're claiming head of household, he might want to verify your living situation and that you provide over half the support for your dependent. For the actual verification process, best practices involve seeing proof of identity, relationship, and residency. This could mean seeing a child's birth certificate or school records (to verify relationship and residency), but again, we don't keep copies - we just document that we've reviewed them. Some preparers use a checklist where they note which documents they've seen and verified.
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Adriana Cohn
This happened to me too! My preparer said it was for "audit protection" but when I pressed him, he admitted their firm had implemented this policy on their own and it wasn't actually an IRS requirement. They were keeping copies to "defend" any potential audit. I ended up switching to a different preparer who had a more reasonable approach to documentation. They simply asked to see my kids' social security cards and made a note they had verified them - no copies kept.
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Jace Caspullo
•That's exactly what a good preparer should do! Mine asks to see the documents, makes notes in her system that she verified them, and that's it. She said keeping physical copies of sensitive documents creates a liability for her business and isn't necessary.
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Diego Mendoza
This is really concerning and I'm glad you're questioning it. I work in financial services and deal with privacy regulations regularly - what your preparer is asking for creates huge liability issues for both of you. Tax preparers keeping copies of birth certificates, SSN cards, and utility bills on file is a recipe for identity theft disaster. These documents contain everything someone would need to steal your identity, and most small tax prep offices don't have the security infrastructure to properly protect this sensitive information. The IRS has specific guidelines about what preparers need to verify versus what they need to keep. They're required to exercise due diligence in verifying information, but this typically means seeing documents to confirm accuracy, not storing copies permanently. I'd strongly recommend having a direct conversation with your preparer about why they believe this is necessary and asking them to cite the specific IRS requirement. If they can't provide a legitimate source, you should definitely consider finding a new preparer. Your instincts about this being excessive are absolutely correct.
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Nathaniel Mikhaylov
•This is exactly what I was worried about! The security risk aspect really bothers me. My tax preparer's office is just a small strip mall location - I doubt they have enterprise-level document security. If someone broke in or hacked their systems, they'd have a treasure trove of personal information from dozens of families. It seems like asking for copies creates way more risk than just verifying the information and moving on.
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Teresa Boyd
Your instincts are absolutely right to be suspicious about this. I've been filing taxes for over 15 years and have never had a preparer ask to keep copies of birth certificates, report cards, or utility bills. This is definitely NOT a standard IRS requirement. What's particularly concerning is that your preparer of 8 years is suddenly implementing this policy without a clear explanation. If this were truly a new IRS mandate, it would be widely publicized and you'd be seeing news about it everywhere. The IRS Publication 4134 (Due Diligence Requirements) outlines what tax preparers actually need to do for verification - it involves asking specific questions and completing checklists, not hoarding your personal documents. Most legitimate preparers will ask to SEE documents like SSN cards to verify numbers are correct, but keeping copies is excessive and creates unnecessary security risks. I'd suggest asking your preparer to provide the specific IRS publication or notice that requires this document collection. If they can't produce it, or if they give you vague answers about "new rules," that's a major red flag. Trust your gut on this one - it sounds like either your preparer is misinformed about requirements or is implementing their own overly cautious policy without properly explaining it to clients.
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