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Lourdes Fox

Is it normal to owe taxes when married filing jointly but get refunds filing separately?

I'm a bit shocked at our tax situation this year. My husband and I filed jointly like we always do, but we somehow ended up owing the IRS money. Out of curiosity, I ran the numbers as if we were filing separately, and weirdly enough, we'd BOTH get refunds that way! This makes absolutely no sense to me. I always thought filing jointly was supposed to be better for most couples? We didn't have any major life changes this year - same jobs, no kids, no house purchase. Our combined income is around $115,000. Is this normal to owe when filing jointly but get refunds if we had filed separately? Should we amend our return or is there something I'm missing? I'm really confused about how this could happen.

Bruno Simmons

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This can definitely happen in certain situations, though it's not the most common outcome. Usually filing jointly provides better tax benefits, but there are exceptions. The most likely explanation is that your withholding wasn't quite right for your combined income. When your incomes are combined, you might get pushed into a higher tax bracket than either of you would be in separately. If your withholdings were calculated as if you were single taxpayers, they might not account for the higher joint tax rate. Another possibility is that you have deductions or credits that phase out at higher income levels. Some benefits decrease or disappear entirely once your combined income crosses certain thresholds. Filing separately might keep you below those thresholds.

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Lourdes Fox

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Thanks for explaining! I didn't realize the withholding could be the issue. We both just checked the "married" box on our W-4s. Should we have done something different with our withholding?

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Bruno Simmons

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Yes, the withholding is likely the main factor here. When you check "married" on your W-4, the withholding tables assume you're the only income earner or the primary earner in the household. This often doesn't withhold enough when both spouses work. For dual-income marriages, you should either check the box for "married but withhold at higher single rate" on your W-4s or use the IRS's Tax Withholding Estimator to figure the right amount to withhold. The 2025 filing season will use the revised W-4 form which has a specific section for two-income households that helps address this issue.

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Lia Quinn

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The same thing happened to me and my wife! We owed $3,200 filing jointly but would've gotten about $900 each filing separately. We talked to our accountant and she said it was because: 1) Our withholding wasn't enough for our combined income 2) We both had selected "married" on our W-4s which assumes one main income 3) We had some investment income that pushed us into a higher bracket She suggested we adjust our withholding using the IRS calculator and possibly make quarterly estimated tax payments to avoid the same issue next year.

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Haley Stokes

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Can you actually switch from MFJ to MFS after you've already filed? I'm in the same boat and wondering if I should amend.

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Lia Quinn

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Yes, you can switch from married filing jointly to married filing separately by filing an amended return (Form 1040-X), but only until the filing deadline for that tax year. After the deadline passes, you can't switch from joint to separate. However, my accountant actually advised against switching in our case. While it looked like we'd get refunds filing separately based on a simple calculation, we would have lost several valuable credits and deductions that are only available to joint filers. The separate filing calculation also has some special limitations that aren't obvious when you just run a basic comparison. Make sure you're looking at the complete picture before making that decision.

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Asher Levin

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The software you used to calculate your taxes separately might not be showing you the full picture. When filing separately, there are several disadvantages: - You can't claim Earned Income Credit - You can't claim education credits like the American Opportunity or Lifetime Learning Credits - You can't exclude interest from savings bonds used for education - If one spouse itemizes, both must itemize even if the standard deduction would be better for one - IRA contribution deductions might be reduced or eliminated - Child and dependent care credit is usually reduced Try running the full calculation with these limitations and see if separate filing still looks better. Software sometimes doesn't apply all these restrictions when you're just exploring options.

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Serene Snow

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Is this still true with the new tax law? I thought they changed some of this stuff.

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