International Bank Transfers from Husband to Wife - Tax Implications
I'm a foreign citizen (not American) looking to send money to my American wife who lives in the US. I'm planning to transfer around 25K USD total to her US bank account, probably in 3 separate transfers of about 8K each. My wife is concerned that these transfers might raise questions from her bank or that she'll need to deal with additional tax filing requirements because of the money coming in. From what I've researched online, it seems like this should be a straightforward process without any special tax implications, but I wanted to check with people who might have experience with this situation. Does my wife need to report these transfers on her taxes? Will this create any issues for her? Thanks for any advice you can provide!
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Mia Alvarez
This is actually fairly straightforward! Transfers between spouses are generally considered gifts and not taxable income to your wife. The important things to know: 1) For US citizens receiving gifts from foreign spouses, there's an annual exclusion amount ($185,000 for 2025) - your $25K is well under this limit, so no gift tax return needed. 2) Be careful about structuring your payments to avoid the $10K reporting threshold. Banks are required to report cash transactions over $10K, and intentionally making smaller transfers to avoid this looks suspicious and is called "structuring" which is actually illegal. Just send the amounts you need to naturally. 3) Your wife may see a Currency Transaction Report filed by her bank for transfers over $10K, but this is just routine reporting - not something that triggers taxes. 4) If your wife has foreign financial accounts with signature authority exceeding $10K at any point, she would need to file an FBAR, but that doesn't apply to money you're sending directly to her US account. Hope this helps clarify things!
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Carter Holmes
•Thanks for explaining! I'm in a similar situation but I'm actually the American wife in this scenario. My husband (who's British) wants to send about $40K to help with our house downpayment. Do I need to document this anywhere since it's over $10K? And does it matter if he sends it all at once vs spreading it out?
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Mia Alvarez
•For your specific situation with a $40K gift from your British husband, you still don't need to pay taxes on this amount since it's well under the annual foreign spouse gift exclusion of $185,000. As for documentation, it's actually better to send it all at once rather than breaking it up. Breaking larger amounts into smaller transfers specifically to avoid reporting requirements can appear as structuring, which banks watch for. Your bank will likely file a Currency Transaction Report for transfers over $10K, but this is just standard procedure and doesn't create any tax obligation for you. Just keep basic records of the transfer for your own documentation.
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Caleb Stark
Don't overthink this situation. My Filipino husband sends me money regularly from overseas, and we've never had any tax issues. The key things to know: 1) Money between spouses is not taxable income 2) You don't need to file gift tax forms unless the amount is huge (way over what you're talking about) 3) Banks are required to report large transfers, but that's for anti-money laundering purposes, not tax reasons Just make sure your wife keeps basic records of where the money came from in case questions ever come up. We've been doing this for 5+ years with no problems.
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Jade O'Malley
•But what about the FBAR filing? I heard you need to report if you have foreign accounts with more than $10K. Does receiving wire transfers from abroad trigger that requirement too?
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Caleb Stark
•The FBAR requirement only applies if you have an actual financial account in a foreign country with over $10K in it. It's about having accounts abroad, not receiving money from abroad. If your wife is just receiving wire transfers directly into her US bank account, that doesn't trigger FBAR filing. She'd only need to file an FBAR if she has signature authority on foreign financial accounts (like a joint account with you in your country) that exceed $10K at any point during the year. Receiving money into her US account from you doesn't create an FBAR obligation by itself.
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Hunter Edmunds
One thing nobody has mentioned yet - your wife should check with her bank about their specific policies on international wire transfers. Some banks charge ridiculous fees (my bank takes $45 per incoming international wire), and some may have additional documentation requirements. My husband is Canadian and when he first started sending me money, my bank froze the first transfer for 5 days while they "verified" it, which was super annoying. Might be worth her calling her bank in advance just to understand their specific process.
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Ella Lewis
•This is so true! My credit union only charges $15 for international wires while my previous bank was charging $50+. Shopping around can save you a lot if these will be regular transfers.
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Ben Cooper
Just to add another perspective - I'm a US citizen married to a German citizen, and we've been dealing with these international transfers for years. One thing I learned is that your wife should keep documentation not just of the transfers themselves, but also proof of your marriage relationship. We keep copies of our marriage certificate and my husband's ID readily available because banks sometimes ask for this during larger transfers to verify the spousal relationship. Also, if your wife uses online banking, she should expect to see the transfers show up with codes like "OBI" (Originator Beneficiary Information) that might look confusing but are just standard international wire identifiers. The most important thing is that this really is routine - international spousal transfers happen thousands of times daily and the banks are well equipped to handle them properly.
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Malik Johnson
•This is really helpful advice about keeping marriage documentation handy! I'm just starting to research this topic since my husband (who's from Australia) and I are planning our first large transfer for a down payment. Quick question - when you mention banks asking for marriage certificate and ID, do they typically ask for this upfront when setting up to receive international wires, or do they usually only ask after a transfer triggers some kind of review? I'm trying to figure out if we should proactively provide this documentation to her bank or just wait until they ask for it.
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