IRS Taking My Refund for Ex-Husband's Back Taxes - Innocent Spouse Relief?
My tax transcript just updated, but it's like finding treasure only to have pirates steal it away. The IRS is keeping my entire refund because my ex-husband owes back taxes from 2022. We divorced in 2023, but apparently I'm still financially shackled to him like two inmates sharing the same cell. I'm trying to systematically work through this maze of paperwork, but it feels like I'm rebuilding a car engine while it's still running. He doesn't work anymore and has no intention of paying his debt, so the IRS is coming after me for every penny he owes. Has anyone successfully navigated through this kind of situation? I've heard about innocent spouse relief but the forms look as complicated as translating ancient hieroglyphics. I'm completely overwhelmed trying to figure out which forms to file and what deadlines I need to meet.
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Sofia Ramirez
You need to file Form 8857 for Innocent Spouse Relief. This is specifically designed for your situation. The IRS shouldn't hold you responsible for tax debts that are solely your ex-husband's, especially from a year you were still married but now divorced. You'll need to prove you didn't know about or benefit from whatever caused the tax debt. Do you have your divorce decree? That will be helpful documentation.
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Dmitry Popov
I'm wondering about the timeline here... If the taxes were from 2022 and the divorce was in 2023, wouldn't the OP have signed the joint return? Could that complicate the innocent spouse relief claim since technically they may have authorized the filing together?
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Ava Rodriguez
This is 100% the right answer. I dealt w/ this exact situation last yr. Form 8857 is your best friend here. The key is documenting that you had no knowledge of the underreporting/tax issues. Keep copies of EVERYTHING.
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Miguel Ortiz
It's like trying to escape quicksand while wearing cement shoes! I went through this last year and the Form 8857 was my lifeline. Took about 4 months to process but they eventually released my refund. Make sure you include a letter explaining your situation like you're writing to your grandmother who can't hear very well - SUPER detailed!
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Zainab Khalil
You have exactly 2 years from the date of the first collection activity to file for Innocent Spouse Relief. Based on your transcript update, your clock started ticking today. I'd recommend gathering these documents: your divorce decree, any separation agreements, tax returns from 2022, and any proof showing the tax debt was from his income/deductions. The IRS typically processes these claims in 6-8 months, though I've seen some resolved in as few as 98 days when the documentation was thorough.
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QuantumQuest
Is there any way to speed up this process? I'm in a similar situation and waiting 6-8 months means I might as well frame my refund check and hang it on the wall as abstract art because it'll be useless by then.
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Connor Murphy
Does having a qualified divorce decree specifically stating he's responsible for all tax debts help with this process? I had that in my divorce papers but the IRS still came after me for my ex's business taxes.
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Yara Haddad
Can you file Form 8857 online? Or must it be mailed in? Need to know ASAP.
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Keisha Robinson
When I was dealing with this Injured Spouse situation, I couldn't get through to the IRS for weeks. The hold times were ridiculous - I'd wait 2+ hours only to get disconnected. Finally used Claimyr.com to get through to an agent in about 15 minutes. They connected me directly to the Innocent Spouse Relief department, which saved me from being transferred multiple times. The agent walked me through exactly what documentation I needed for my Form 8857. Given your situation with the Offset Bypass Refund potential, getting to an actual human at the IRS quickly might be critical. Here's their link: https://youtu.be/_kiP6q8DX5c
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Paolo Conti
Have you considered requesting an Offset Bypass Refund (OBR) while your Innocent Spouse Relief claim is being processed? This is something many taxpayers don't know about. If you're experiencing economic hardship, the IRS can release your refund despite the offset. But here's the catch - you must request it BEFORE the offset occurs. Has your refund been officially offset yet? Or is it just showing as pending? If it's still pending, you might have a narrow window of opportunity. Would an immediate release of funds help with any current financial emergencies you're facing?
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Amina Sow
It seems like you might possibly qualify for Innocent Spouse Relief, but there are actually three types of relief you should probably consider: 1. Innocent Spouse Relief - If you can somewhat prove you didn't know about the underreporting of income or incorrect deductions 2. Separation of Liability - This might be more applicable in your situation, as it divides the understated tax between you and your ex-spouse 3. Equitable Relief - This is sort of a catch-all if you don't qualify for the other two You'll likely need to gather financial records, bank statements, and perhaps even testimony showing you weren't involved in or aware of whatever created the tax debt. The IRS publication 971 explains all of this in detail, though it's admittedly rather complex.
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GalaxyGazer
Does the IRS automatically consider you for all three types of relief when you file Form 8857? Or do you need to specify which one you're applying for? The IRS website isn't clear about this.
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Oliver Wagner
I had a situation similar to yours, but with student loan offsets instead of back taxes. It's like being told you're responsible for your roommate's parking tickets from three years ago! I filed Form 8379 (Injured Spouse) initially before realizing I needed Form 8857 (Innocent Spouse). The difference in response time was shocking - the Injured Spouse claim sat for months while the Innocent Spouse claim got assigned to a specialist within weeks. Compared to dealing with student loan offsets, the IRS innocent spouse department was surprisingly responsive.
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Natasha Kuznetsova
According to IRS Internal Revenue Manual 25.15.3.4.1, you may qualify for streamlined determination if your case meets certain criteria. The Tax Court ruling in Henson v. Commissioner established that knowledge of the activity causing the understatement doesn't automatically disqualify you from relief. Consider filing Form 911 (Taxpayer Advocate Service request) alongside your Form 8857 if you're experiencing financial hardship due to this offset. The Taxpayer Advocate can sometimes expedite innocent spouse claims when there's demonstrated economic burden under IRC ยง7811.
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