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Aidan Hudson

Unfiled taxes since 2018 - freaking out about owing $130k+ to the IRS

I'm in a really tough spot and could use some advice from anyone who's been through something similar. For the past several years I haven't filed my taxes (since 2018). It wasn't intentional - life just kept throwing curveballs at me. First there was a brutal divorce that drained my finances and energy, then the pandemic hit, and honestly I went through a pretty severe depression that made basic functioning difficult. I actually tried to fix this back in 2022 - paid about $4,000 to a tax preparation firm that claimed they specialized in unfiled returns. They took all my documentation and then basically vanished. Never completed the work and stopped responding to calls and emails. Fast forward to now, and I'm getting increasingly threatening letters from the IRS. According to their calculations, I owe somewhere around $175,000 including penalties and interest. I do earn a good income (around $220K annually), but I don't have that kind of cash sitting around. Between my mortgage, car payments, and still paying off some divorce-related debt, I'm stretched pretty thin. What are my options here? Can I negotiate a payment plan with the IRS for unfiled taxes? Is there any chance they might reduce the amount I owe? I'm willing to pay what I legitimately owe in taxes, but these penalties are killing me. I'm completely freaking out and don't know where to turn.

Zoe Wang

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This is definitely a stressful situation, but it's more manageable than you might think. The IRS has procedures in place for exactly these types of scenarios. First, you absolutely need to file those missing returns ASAP. The IRS is more willing to work with taxpayers who voluntarily come forward, even if late. You might want to consider using a licensed tax professional who specializes in back taxes and IRS representation - specifically an Enrolled Agent, CPA, or tax attorney. Yes, the IRS offers several payment options. The most common is an Installment Agreement, which allows you to pay your tax debt over time. For larger amounts like yours, they'll look at your income and expenses to determine a monthly payment you can afford. There's also something called an Offer in Compromise where the IRS might accept less than the full amount if you can prove you cannot pay the full debt. The penalties and interest are significant, but you can request penalty abatement based on reasonable cause. Your mental health issues and the situation with the tax firm that took your money could potentially qualify. Documentation will be important here. The worst thing you can do is nothing. The IRS has extensive collection powers including liens, levies, and wage garnishments. But they generally prefer to work out payment arrangements rather than taking these more drastic measures.

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Aidan Hudson

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Thank you for the detailed response. Is there a time limit on requesting the penalty abatement? And if I hire a new tax professional, how do I verify they're legitimate after getting burned by the last one?

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Zoe Wang

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There's generally a 3-year timeframe for requesting penalty abatement after the penalties are assessed, but in cases of non-filing, the timeline can be more flexible when you're voluntarily coming into compliance. To verify a tax professional's legitimacy, check their credentials through official channels - you can verify Enrolled Agents through the IRS website, CPAs through your state board of accountancy, and attorneys through your state bar association. Also, look for professionals who have been established for several years, ask for references, and be wary of anyone promising specific outcomes or who requires large upfront payments. Consider meeting with multiple professionals before deciding, and trust your instincts if something feels off.

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Grace Durand

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Did they actually help reduce the amount you owed or just help with filing? I'm in a similar situation (though not quite as much owed) and wondering if this is better than going straight to a CPA?

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Aidan Hudson

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One thing to consider that hasn't been mentioned - look into whether you qualify for Currently Not Collectible status. If your necessary living expenses leave you with no ability to pay, the IRS can temporarily classify your account as CNC. This doesn't eliminate the debt, but it puts collections on hold. In my case, I owed about $85K and documented that after essential living expenses (mortgage, utilities, food, medical costs), I couldn't make payments. They put me in CNC status for 18 months while I got back on my feet. Interest still accrues, but it stopped the threatening letters and gave me breathing room to improve my financial situation. Worth exploring along with payment plans and Offer in Compromise options.

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Aidan Hudson

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That's really helpful to know. How strict are they about what counts as "necessary living expenses"? Do they allow for things like car payments or just absolute bare minimum expenses?

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They use standard allowances for many expenses based on your location and family size, but they're fairly reasonable. They do allow for vehicle payments (with some limits), housing, utilities, food, medical expenses, and certain other necessary costs. For housing and vehicle expenses, they use standards based on your local area, so they recognize that costs vary by location. They may question luxury vehicles or very high mortgage payments, but normal car payments are typically accepted. They also allow for things like health insurance, childcare necessary for work, court-ordered payments like child support, and certain education costs. Be prepared to document everything with bank statements, bills, etc. The key is being thorough and honest in your financial disclosure form (usually Form 433-A).

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Benjamin Kim

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Has anyone here successfully negotiated an Offer in Compromise? I've heard the IRS settles for "pennies on the dollar" but don't know if that's just marketing hype from tax resolution companies.

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Zoe Wang

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The "pennies on the dollar" marketing is mostly hype, but Offers in Compromise are legitimate. The IRS accepts about 40% of OICs submitted, but they use a very specific formula: they look at your assets, income, and future earning potential to determine what they call your "reasonable collection potential." It's not about what percentage of the debt you're offering, but whether your offer matches what the IRS calculates they could reasonably collect from you over the remaining collection statute (usually 10 years from assessment). Some people qualify for significant reductions, while others might not qualify at all if they have substantial equity in assets or high income. The key to success is having the OIC properly prepared with thorough documentation of your financial situation. The application (Form 656) requires detailed financial disclosure, and the IRS verifies everything.

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Hey OP, just sharing my experience - 4 years unfiled, owed $112K. The BIGGEST mistake I made was trying to handle it myself at first. If I could go back, I would have immediately hired a tax attorney (not just any tax preparer). The attorney was able to: 1) Stop immediate collection actions 2) File my returns strategically to minimize penalties 3) Negotiate penalty abatement (got about 40% removed) 4) Set up a manageable payment plan Cost me about $3,500 for the attorney but saved me at least $25K overall. In your situation with $175K owed, the savings could be much more significant. Just make sure to check credentials after your previous experience!

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