I haven't filed taxes in 10+ years and need to fix this situation. What steps should I take now?
Hi everyone, I'm in a pretty overwhelming situation with my taxes. I haven't filed federal or state taxes in over 10 years (probably closer to 15 years if I'm being honest). Back in the day, the IRS and state tax agencies actually came after my bank accounts a few times when I was making better money. Not my proudest moments. For the first 3-4 years of this non-filing period, I was earning a decent income. After that, my earnings dropped to below $25k per year. I was working as an independent consultant for a startup without any formal business registration for most of that time. The startup venture ended a few months ago, and I walked away with nothing to show for it. I've made a ton of mistakes along the way. Because I was worried about my tax situation, I never applied for any of the COVID relief programs - federal or state. I'm guessing those opportunities are long gone now. As for any tax documents I might have received over the years... let's just assume they're all gone. I'm not exactly young anymore and I'm basically starting my life over. I struggle with anxiety and depression, which hasn't helped this situation. Currently job hunting and really want to get this tax mess straightened out. I'm hoping someone here can give me some guidance that will help reduce my anxiety about all this and point me in the right direction. What should my next steps be? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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GalaxyGazer
First, take a deep breath. The good news is that you've decided to address this situation, which is the hardest part. Many people have been in similar positions and successfully resolved their tax issues. Here's what I suggest: 1) Request your tax transcripts from the IRS. You can do this online at irs.gov by creating an account, or by submitting Form 4506-T. This will show what income was reported to the IRS under your SSN for those years, which gives you a starting point. 2) For years where your income was below filing thresholds (around $12,000-$13,000 for single filers in recent years), you might not even be required to file. For years where you did need to file, you'll want to prepare returns for at least the last 6 years as that's typically how far back the IRS requires. 3) Consider applying for an Offer in Compromise if you can't pay the full amount owed, or set up a payment plan. The IRS is generally willing to work with taxpayers who voluntarily come forward. 4) For state taxes, each state has different requirements, but similar steps apply - contact your state tax agency about voluntary disclosure programs. Remember that the IRS is more interested in getting you compliant than punishing you, especially since you're coming forward voluntarily.
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Mateo Sanchez
•What about the statute of limitations? I've heard the IRS can only go back like 7 years or something. Would they really make someone file 15 years of tax returns? And what about the penalties? Aren't they huge after all that time?
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GalaxyGazer
•The statute of limitations for the IRS to assess taxes is generally 3 years from the date you file. However, that statute doesn't start running until you actually file a return. For unfiled returns, the IRS can technically go back indefinitely. That said, the IRS typically only requires filing the last 6 years to get back into compliance under their voluntary disclosure practices. They're mainly concerned with getting you back into the system rather than punishing you for very old returns. Regarding penalties, yes, they can be substantial - typically 5% of unpaid taxes per month up to 25% for failure to file, plus failure to pay penalties and interest. However, the IRS offers penalty abatement for first-time offenders or those with reasonable cause. You can request this once you know what you owe. Also, if you were due refunds for some years, you unfortunately can only claim those going back 3 years.
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Aisha Mahmood
After going through a similar nightmare tax situation, I found this AI tax document analysis tool called taxr.ai that really saved me. My situation wasn't quite 15 years, but I had about 7 years of unfiled returns and limited documentation. I uploaded what little paperwork I had to https://taxr.ai and it helped identify what years I actually needed to file for based on income thresholds and what information was missing. It even helped me understand what deductions I might qualify for retroactively. It was way less stressful than trying to piece everything together myself or paying a tax pro thousands upfront when I was already stressed about money. The transcript analysis feature was incredibly helpful because it showed me exactly what the IRS already knew about my income, which made me feel less anxious about the whole process.
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Ethan Moore
•Does it work for state tax issues too or just federal? I'm in a similar boat but my main concerns are with my state taxes.
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Yuki Kobayashi
•I'm skeptical about using any kind of automated tool for such a complex situation. How does it handle things like self-employment taxes when you were working as an independent contractor? That seems like it would be complicated to figure out without proper documentation.
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Aisha Mahmood
•It does work for state taxes too! It analyzes your federal transcript data and helps determine which state returns you need to file based on that information. It can also analyze state notices if you've received any. For self-employment situations, it's actually really helpful. The tool helps identify what 1099s were reported to the IRS in your name and can help calculate self-employment tax obligations. It also suggests potential business deductions you might qualify for even if you don't have perfect documentation. The system looks at industry standards and helps you understand what's reasonable to claim. Of course, you still need to make final decisions, but it gives you a framework instead of starting from zero.
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Yuki Kobayashi
I was skeptical about using taxr.ai when I first saw it mentioned here, but after sitting on it for a week while my anxiety got worse, I finally gave it a try. No regrets at all. I was 8 years behind on filing and completely overwhelmed. The tool analyzed my transcripts and showed me that for 3 of those years, I was actually under the filing threshold and didn't need to file at all! For the other years, it organized everything the IRS had reported about my income and helped me identify what documentation I was missing. The biggest surprise was discovering I was actually owed refunds for 2 years that I could still claim. That money is helping me pay down what I owe for the other years. Still have a tax debt but it's manageable now, and more importantly, I'm compliant again. The mental relief alone was worth it.
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Carmen Vega
After trying to call the IRS for weeks with no luck, I used a service called Claimyr that got me through to an actual IRS representative in about 20 minutes. I'd been trying to resolve a multi-year non-filing situation similar to yours, and couldn't get answers about my options. The service basically holds your place in line with the IRS and calls you when an agent is available. I was super skeptical but I was desperate after spending hours listening to "due to high call volume" messages. You can check out how it works at https://claimyr.com or see a demo at https://youtu.be/_kiP6q8DX5c. The IRS agent I spoke with walked me through my transcript, told me exactly which years I needed to focus on first, and helped me understand my payment options. Honestly saved me months of stress and guesswork.
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QuantumQuester
•How does that even work? So they just call the IRS for you? Sounds like something I could do myself if I was just patient enough.
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Andre Moreau
•This sounds like a total scam. Why would anyone pay for something to call the IRS? The IRS is free to call. I'm calling BS on this. If it was that easy to get through everyone would be doing it.
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Carmen Vega
•They don't actually call for you - they use an automated system that navigates the IRS phone tree and waits on hold for you. When they reach a human representative, they connect you to the call. You're the one who actually speaks with the IRS, so all your information stays private. I thought the same thing about patience, but after spending literal hours across multiple days trying to get through, I realized my time was worth something too. The IRS phone lines are notoriously overloaded, with success rates for getting through reported at less than 10% some days.
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Andre Moreau
Ok I need to eat my words about Claimyr. After my skeptical comment I decided to try it myself because I was desperate to talk to someone at the IRS about my own multi-year non-filing situation. I'd been trying to call for WEEKS with no success - always getting the "call back later" message. Used the service yesterday and got connected to an IRS agent in about 35 minutes. The agent confirmed which years I need to file (just the last 6 not all 12 of my unfiled years), and helped me start a payment plan for what I expect to owe. I was 100% wrong and shouldn't have been so quick to call it a scam. For anyone in a similar situation, being able to actually speak with the IRS and get clear guidance makes a HUGE difference for your stress levels. Worth every penny for the mental relief alone.
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Zoe Stavros
One thing to consider that nobody's mentioned yet - you might want to look into the IRS Fresh Start program. It's specifically designed for people who've fallen behind on taxes and offers several options: - Extended installment agreements up to 6 years - Some penalty relief - More flexible Offer in Compromise terms Also, definitely file your most recent tax year first (2023) to show good faith effort to get compliant going forward. Then work backwards on the older years.
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Nia Harris
•What documentation would I need for the Fresh Start program? I'm worried because I have almost no records from previous years. Also, would this help with state taxes too or just federal?
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Zoe Stavros
•For the Fresh Start program, you'll still need to file the required tax returns, but the documentation requirements aren't any different than normal filing. If you don't have records, the IRS transcripts that others mentioned will be your primary source of information. This shows what was reported to the IRS by employers, clients, banks, etc. The Fresh Start program is federal only, but many states have similar programs. Once you get your federal situation handled, contact your state tax agency and ask about their voluntary disclosure or compliance programs. Most states understand that if you're fixing your federal taxes, you want to fix your state taxes too, and they often have procedures to help with that.
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Jamal Harris
Whatever you do, don't go to one of those "tax relief" places you see advertised on TV! My brother was in a similar situation (8 years unfiled) and paid one of those companies $4,000 upfront. They literally did NOTHING for months then said he "didn't qualify" for their program. You're better off getting your transcripts and working with a local CPA or EA (Enrolled Agent) who specializes in back taxes. They typically charge by the return rather than some huge upfront fee.
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Mei Chen
•So true! I worked for one of those companies briefly (quit after 3 months) and it was basically a sales operation. They would charge $3-7k upfront and then do the bare minimum. Most clients could have resolved their issues themselves or with a reasonably priced CPA for a fraction of the cost.
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Carmen Ruiz
Hey Nia, I was in a very similar situation about 3 years ago - hadn't filed for about 12 years and was completely paralyzed by anxiety about it. I understand that overwhelming feeling. Here's what worked for me: I started by getting my wage and income transcripts from the IRS website first (before trying to call them). This showed me exactly what income was reported under my SSN for each year, which was actually less scary than I thought it would be. Then I focused on just the last 6 years like others mentioned. For the years when I made under the filing threshold, I didn't need to file at all. For the others, I found that some years I was actually owed refunds! The key thing that helped my anxiety was breaking it down into small steps instead of trying to solve everything at once. Week 1: get transcripts. Week 2: figure out which years actually required filing. Week 3: tackle the most recent year first. Also, once I finally got compliant, the mental relief was incredible. I could apply for jobs without worrying about background checks, I could get a mortgage, I could sleep better. You're taking the right first step by addressing this now. The IRS really does want to work with people who voluntarily come forward. You've got this!
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