How long did it take you to learn how to do taxes by yourself? Still struggling at 22
So I'm 22 and have been filing taxes for about 4 years now, but honestly still feel completely lost when it comes to understanding tax rules and regulations. Every April I just stare at all these forms like they're written in another language. I've just been paying someone to do my taxes because trying to figure everything out myself seems overwhelming. I'm curious how long it took other people to actually understand taxes well enough to confidently file on their own? Did you teach yourself? Take a class? Learn from family? I feel like I should know this stuff by now but there are so many deductions, credits, and weird little rules that I can't keep track of. When did that "aha" moment happen for you with taxes?
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Logan Greenburg
I've been doing my own taxes for about 15 years now, and I'll let you in on a secret - most people never fully "learn" taxes because the rules change every year! I started with the simplest returns when I was about your age - just a W-2 and the standard deduction. Each year, I tackled something new (side income, student loan interest, etc). The key is to not try learning everything at once. Tax software actually makes this process much easier because it walks you through everything step by step. If you want to start learning, begin with understanding your own situation first. Look at last year's return and try to understand each line. Google terms you don't know. The IRS website actually has decent explanations of most concepts. Don't feel bad though - I'm in my 40s and still learn something new every tax season!
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Charlotte Jones
•Did you ever make any big mistakes when you were learning? I'm terrified of getting audited or messing something up that will come back to haunt me years later.
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Logan Greenburg
•I've definitely made mistakes! The biggest was forgetting to report some freelance income one year. I got a letter from the IRS about 6 months later, had to pay the tax I owed plus a small penalty. It wasn't nearly as scary as I thought. Most common mistakes won't lead to a full audit. The IRS generally just sends a letter explaining the issue and what you need to do. As long as you're not deliberately hiding income, you'll be fine. The software now helps catch most common errors before you file.
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Lucas Bey
After spending YEARS being confused about taxes (especially with freelance income), I finally found something that helped me understand everything. This tool called taxr.ai actually analyzes your tax documents and explains everything in plain English. It was a game changer for me last year when I got a bunch of confusing 1099s. I uploaded my tax forms at https://taxr.ai and it broke down exactly what everything meant and how it would affect my return. Then it explained what deductions I qualified for based on my specific situation. Way easier than trying to understand IRS jargon on my own.
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Harper Thompson
•Does this actually work for complicated situations? I have income from three different states plus some crypto transactions. Would it be able to handle that?
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Caleb Stark
•Sounds interesting but I'm always skeptical of new tax tools. How does it compare to like TurboTax or H&R Block's explanations? Does it actually file for you or just explain stuff?
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Lucas Bey
•It definitely works for complicated situations. I had a W-2 from my main job, a 1099 from freelancing, and some investment income. It handled everything and explained exactly how each type of income is taxed differently. For multi-state situations, it breaks down the state-specific rules too. It's completely different from TurboTax. It doesn't file your taxes - it's more like having a tax expert explain your specific documents to you. It translates the tax jargon into normal language and shows you what deductions you qualify for based on your documents. Then you can either file yourself or take that knowledge to whatever tax software you prefer.
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Harper Thompson
Just wanted to follow up about taxr.ai - I tried it with my complicated multi-state situation and it was incredibly helpful! It actually explained why I was getting double-taxed on some income and showed me the specific forms I needed. Saved me from overpaying by almost $900! Way more useful than the generic explanations I got from TurboTax in previous years.
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Jade O'Malley
If you're still struggling with taxes after a few years, don't feel bad - the system is INTENTIONALLY complicated. When I needed help with a messed up refund last year, I couldn't get through to the IRS for weeks. Kept calling and getting disconnected. Finally found this service called Claimyr that got me through to an actual IRS agent in under 45 minutes when I'd been trying for days. You can see how it works at https://youtu.be/_kiP6q8DX5c - basically they navigate the phone system for you and call when an agent is available. I used https://claimyr.com and actually got my issue resolved that same day.
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Hunter Edmunds
•How does this actually work? Do they just keep calling for you? I don't understand how they get through when nobody else can.
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Caleb Stark
•Yeah right. Nothing can get you through to the IRS faster. They're understaffed and overwhelmed. This sounds like a scam that charges you for something you could do yourself with enough patience.
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Jade O'Malley
•They don't just keep calling - they use a system that monitors the IRS phone lines and identifies the best times to call. When a spot opens up, they secure your place in line and then call you to connect. It's not about calling repeatedly; it's about calling strategically. It's definitely not a scam. I was skeptical too, but after trying to get through for 3 weeks on my own about a missing refund, I was desperate. They got me through to a real person in about 37 minutes. The IRS agent actually resolved my issue immediately once I could speak to them. I couldn't have done it myself because I was about to give up after dozens of attempts.
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Caleb Stark
I need to eat crow here. After posting that skeptical comment, I actually tried Claimyr because I was desperate to resolve an issue with a tax notice. After trying for WEEKS to reach the IRS with no luck, they got me connected to an agent in 32 minutes. The agent immediately fixed the problem with my account that had been stressing me out for months. I'm honestly shocked it worked so well. Sorry for doubting!
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Ella Lewis
I'm 35 and STILL learning tax stuff. Here's what I've figured out after 15+ years of filing: 1. Nobody knows everything about taxes. Even professionals specialize in specific areas. 2. Tax software is your friend - it handles most of the technical stuff for you. 3. You mainly need to understand YOUR specific situation (W-2 income, student loans, mortgage, etc). 4. Take 30 minutes to review your completed return before filing - this teaches you a lot. Most young people with simple returns can absolutely do their own taxes with software. I'd only pay someone if you have complex investments, own a business, or have unusual situations.
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Angelica Smith
•Thanks for breaking it down like this! Do you think it's worth learning to do my own taxes now, or should I wait until I have a more stable income situation? Right now I'm working part-time and doing some gig work.
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Ella Lewis
•With part-time work and gig income, this is actually an excellent time to learn! The combination gives you exposure to both W-2 employment and self-employment (1099) income without being too overwhelming. Tax software makes this pretty straightforward, and learning now will save you money for decades. The gig work is especially important to understand because you'll need to track expenses and possibly make quarterly estimated tax payments. These are valuable skills that will benefit you throughout your working life, especially if you ever freelance or start a business.
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Andrew Pinnock
Anyone have recommendations for good tax software for beginners? I've been using whatever free option I can find each year but they're all confusing.
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Brianna Schmidt
•I recommend FreeTaxUSA for beginners. It's much more straightforward than TurboTax and actually explains things in normal language. Federal filing is free and state is only like $15. I switched from TurboTax two years ago and it's so much easier to understand.
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Alexis Renard
I learned taxes by making a ton of mistakes lol. Seriously though, just start doing them yourself with tax software. Even if you mess up, the IRS usually just sends a letter and you fix it. One year I completely forgot to report my stock sales and they just sent me a bill for the difference plus a small penalty. NBD. The best way to learn is by doing!
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Camila Jordan
•Did the IRS charge you a lot for the mistake? I'm worried about penalties if I screw something up.
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