How do I find my mom's missing 2017 car tax statement for unfiled taxes?
I'm in a bit of a stressful situation with my mom's taxes. She has dementia and apparently never filed her 2017 tax return. I'm trying to help get everything straightened out now, and the tax preparer I hired is asking specifically for her car tax information from 2017. I have no idea where to even start looking for this! Would this be something I need to contact the DMV about? Or is there some other department that handles vehicle property taxes? I've been going through her paperwork but can't find anything related to car taxes from that year. Any help would be really appreciated as I'm trying to get her finances in order while managing her care.
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Paolo Marino
The car tax statement (also called vehicle property tax in many states) would typically come from your county tax assessor's office or treasurer, not the DMV. The DMV handles registration, but the property tax on vehicles is usually handled at the county level. You have a few options: First, call your county tax office directly and explain the situation. They should be able to provide a duplicate statement or at least confirm what was paid. Second, check if your county has an online portal where you can look up property tax records - many now allow you to search by name or address. Since this is from 2017, they should still have those records, though you might need to provide proof that you have authority to access your mother's tax information (power of attorney or other documentation showing you're handling her affairs).
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Amina Bah
•Do you think the tax assessor would have those records from that far back? Also, would they mail it to me or would I have to go pick it up in person? I live about an hour away from my mom's county.
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Paolo Marino
•Most counties keep tax records for at least 7-10 years, so 2017 should definitely still be available. They typically can email or mail you a copy of the statement - you won't have to make the drive unless you prefer to handle it in person. You'll likely need to provide some verification that you're authorized to receive your mother's tax information. If you have power of attorney or guardianship paperwork, have that ready. If not, ask what documentation they require - some counties might accept a simple signed authorization letter from your mother if she's able to sign, along with ID.
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Oliver Becker
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Natasha Petrova
•How does that actually work? I thought only government offices could give you official tax statements. Does this service somehow have access to county records or something?
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Javier Hernandez
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Oliver Becker
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Natasha Petrova
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Emma Davis
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LunarLegend
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Malik Jackson
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Emma Davis
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Malik Jackson
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Isabella Oliveira
Don't forget to check if your mom kept old bank statements from 2017! My father used to pay his property taxes through his bank's bill pay service, and when I needed proof for an audit, I was able to find the payment that way. The bank statements showed the payment to "[County Name] Treasurer" which was enough for our tax preparer. Most banks keep records accessible for 7 years.
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StardustSeeker
•That's a great idea! I hadn't thought of checking her bank statements. Do you think the amount would be specifically labeled as "car tax" or would it just show as a payment to the county?
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Isabella Oliveira
•It probably won't say "car tax" specifically. In my dad's case, it just showed as a payment to the county treasurer with a reference number. But if you can match the amount and approximate date (usually due the same time each year), that can be enough. Your tax preparer mainly needs the amount paid for deduction purposes. If your mom paid by check, there might even be a memo line notation, or you could look at the back of the canceled check image to see how it was processed. Sometimes the county puts identifying numbers on those.
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Ravi Patel
Has anyone mentioned checking with the tax preparer who did her taxes in 2016 or 2018? They might have a copy of the 2017 statement if they were handling her taxes regularly before her dementia progressed. My mom's accountant kept copies of everything for like 10 years.
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Freya Andersen
•This is what saved me when dealing with my grandpa's taxes! His accountant had backups of almost everything, including property tax statements going back nearly a decade. Worth a phone call at least.
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StardustSeeker
•I hadn't thought of that either! I'm not sure if she used the same preparer before, but it's definitely worth asking. Thanks for the suggestion!
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