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Ayla Kumar

My mom owes $6500 in back taxes and hasn't filed since 2022. Need urgent help!

I'm in a really difficult situation with my mom's taxes and could use any advice. My stepdad used to handle all the finances in their household until he passed away in 2018. Since then, my mom has been completely overwhelmed trying to manage everything herself. I just discovered she owes approximately $6,500 in taxes for 2019-2021 AND hasn't filed her returns for 2022 and 2023 at all. Her wages are already being garnished, which is how I finally found out about the situation. She's been hiding this from everyone because she feels embarrassed and didn't know what to do. What makes this urgent is the filing deadline is literally in 5 days! My current plan is to help her file her 2022 and 2023 taxes immediately, even if I have to pay the filing fees myself. Then maybe look into some kind of tax relief agency to help with the back taxes. She's already drowning in debt, and while I want to help, I'm barely making ends meet myself with my own family to support. I try to assist her whenever possible, but I can't jeopardize my own financial stability. We're located in southern California if that matters for any specific resources. Does anyone have recommendations on the best approach or agencies that might be able to help her situation? Any advice would be so appreciated right now!

Your mom qualifies for several relief options, but you need to act fast with that deadline approaching. First and most important - file those 2022 and 2023 returns ASAP, even if you can't pay what's owed yet. Filing stops the failure-to-file penalties which are much worse than the failure-to-pay penalties. For the existing $6,500 debt, the IRS has payment plans that can stop the wage garnishment. Your mom likely qualifies for an Installment Agreement with affordable monthly payments. There's also the Offer in Compromise program if she truly can't afford to pay the full amount. Since your mom's situation started after losing her spouse, she might also qualify for additional hardship considerations. The IRS has options for people in financial hardship including Currently Not Collectible status which would pause collections completely.

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Thank you for this information! Do you think we should try to tackle everything at once or just focus on the unfiled years first? And is there a specific order we should approach this - like dealing with the garnishment first or getting the returns filed?

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Focus on filing the unfiled returns first since that deadline is most pressing. This stops additional penalties from accumulating. After that, address the garnishment by calling the IRS and requesting a payment plan - that usually stops wage garnishment within 30-60 days once approved. For the older tax debt, take your time to explore all options including Offer in Compromise if your mom truly can't afford to pay. The most important thing is getting current with filings, then addressing the collection actions, and finally working on resolving the older debt.

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Has your mom looked into the Taxpayer Advocate Service? It's a free service within the IRS specifically designed to help taxpayers in difficult situations, especially those facing financial hardship. They can sometimes step in and help when regular IRS channels aren't working. Also, check if there's a Low Income Taxpayer Clinic (LITC) in Southern California - they provide free or low-cost representation to people who can't afford professional tax help. They're particularly good at handling garnishment issues and setting up affordable payment plans.

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Thanks for mentioning these! Do you know how long the Taxpayer Advocate typically takes to respond? With the filing deadline so close, I'm worried about waiting too long to get help.

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The Taxpayer Advocate can take 1-2 weeks for initial contact, so it's not ideal for your immediate filing deadline. Focus on getting those returns filed first, even if they're not perfect - you can always amend later. For the LITC, call first thing tomorrow as they often can see emergency cases quickly. Keep in mind the Taxpayer Advocate is best for the garnishment issue rather than the filing deadline. They're excellent at stopping or modifying collection actions when there's financial hardship. For your immediate deadline needs, focus on filing something, even if it requires getting a filing extension.

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Whatever you do, don't ignore the unfiled returns!! My mom did that and her $4000 tax debt ballooned to over $15k with penalties and interest. The IRS has a "Fresh Start" program that might help your mom, but you can't qualify until all returns are filed. Check if your mom qualifies for free tax prep services too - VITA and TCE programs help seniors and low-income folks file for free. They might have extended hours with the deadline coming up.

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VITA services are usually closed by now this close to the deadline. I volunteer there and most sites shut down a week before Tax Day because they get so swamped. Your best bet this late is to file for an extension (Form 4868) which gives until October to file (but doesn't extend time to pay).

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I'm so sorry your mom is going through this - losing a spouse and then dealing with tax issues alone is incredibly overwhelming. The good news is there are definitely solutions, but you're right to act urgently. Since you only have 5 days, here's what I'd prioritize: First, file Form 4868 (extension) for both 2022 and 2023 returns RIGHT NOW. This buys you until October to file the actual returns and stops the failure-to-file penalties from getting worse. You can file extensions online for free through the IRS website. For the wage garnishment, call the IRS at 1-800-829-1040 first thing Monday morning and ask about setting up an installment agreement. Mention your mom's widowed status and financial hardship - they often have more flexibility for people in her situation. Also look into filing Form 911 (Request for Taxpayer Advocate Service) if you can't get through to the IRS or if they're not helpful. The Taxpayer Advocate is specifically for situations like this where normal IRS processes aren't working. Don't let her feel embarrassed about this - you're being an amazing daughter by stepping in to help. Many people struggle with taxes after losing a spouse, and the IRS has programs specifically designed to help people in financial hardship.

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