Help! My in-laws passed away without filing taxes for years - what can I do now?

You definitely can and should contact the IRS about this. When dealing with unfiled returns for deceased taxpayers, the IRS can provide transcripts that show what income was reported to them under the deceased's Social Security numbers. These transcripts will help you determine what needs to be filed. For estate tax issues specifically, the Form 1041-ES you received is for estimated tax payments for estates and trusts. Since your in-laws were primarily on Social Security and VA benefits, there's a good chance they weren't actually required to file in those years if their income was below certain thresholds. Many seniors on fixed government benefits fall below filing requirements. I'd recommend calling the IRS at the number on the notices (likely the estate and trust department) and requesting account transcripts for both your in-laws for the years in question. Explain the situation honestly - that you're the executor, the estate was thought to be settled, and you have limited records.

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Just to add something important - if your in-laws were primarily living on Social Security and VA benefits, there's a good chance they weren't required to file at all. Many people don't realize this. For example, in 2022, a married couple over 65 only needed to file if their gross income exceeded $28,700. Social Security is often not counted in this calculation unless they had other substantial income. VA benefits are generally tax-free. Before you panic about years of unfiled returns, find out if they were even required to file. This could be much simpler than you think!

One thing nobody's mentioned - you should check if the estate itself needs to file a return. Form 1041-ES is for estimated tax payments for estates and trusts. If the estate generated income after your in-laws passed (like interest on accounts, sale of assets, etc.), the estate might need to file its own return separate from your in-laws' personal returns. Usually this only applies if the estate earned more than $600 in income before assets were distributed to heirs. Did the estate have any income-generating assets that weren't immediately distributed?