Filing Taxes After Getting Married and Losing Spouse Same Year - How Do I File?

I'm so sorry for your loss and everything you've been through last year. When it comes to your tax filing status, you actually have some options for the 2024 tax year. Since your husband passed away in 2024, you can file as "Married Filing Jointly" or "Married Filing Separately" for that tax year. Most people find that filing jointly provides better tax benefits. As a surviving spouse, you can still file a joint return for the year of death if you didn't remarry before the end of the year. Even though you initially planned to file separately, you might want to calculate your taxes both ways to see which is more beneficial. With joint filing, you'd include all income, deductions, and credits for both you and your husband up to his date of passing. For filing purposes, you'll sign the return yourself and write "Filing as surviving spouse" in the signature area where your husband would have signed.

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One important thing I learned as a widow who lost my husband mid-tax year: keep an eye on potential medical expense deductions. With both your husband's treatment and your own surgeries, you might qualify to deduct medical expenses that exceed 7.5% of your adjusted gross income when filing jointly. This includes health insurance premiums, prescription costs, hospital stays, transportation to medical care, and lots of other expenses people often don't realize are deductible. Make sure to gather all medical receipts from both of you for the year.

Has anyone mentioned the Qualifying Widow(er) status yet? This wouldn't apply for 2024 (the year your husband passed), but for the next two tax years (2025 and 2026), you might qualify to file as a "Qualifying Widow(er) with Dependent Child" if you have a dependent.