How to file taxes after getting divorced - married only 4 months in 2024
Hey tax gurus, I'm in a weird spot and need some advice. I got married back in July 2024 but things went downhill fast and we filed for divorce in November. The divorce wasn't finalized until February 2025 though. I've always done my own taxes but now I'm confused about my filing status. Do I have to file as married for the 2024 tax year even though we were only actually married for like 4 months of the year? It feels weird to file jointly with someone I'm not even with anymore. Or can I still file as single since we were single most of the year? Just trying to figure this out before I start gathering all my documents. I really don't want to have to coordinate with my ex if I don't have to. Any help would be super appreciated!
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Miguel Alvarez
Your filing status is determined by your marital status on December 31st of the tax year. Since your divorce wasn't finalized until February 2025, you were still legally married on December 31, 2024. This means for the 2024 tax year, you need to file either as "Married Filing Jointly" or "Married Filing Separately." Many people in your situation choose Married Filing Separately to avoid having to coordinate too much with their ex. However, be aware that this filing status often results in higher tax rates and disqualifies you from certain credits and deductions. If you and your ex are on decent terms, filing jointly might save you both money in taxes.
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Zainab Yusuf
•If we choose married filing separately, do we each report only our own income or do we still need to know what the other person made? And does it matter that we lived together only until October when I moved out?
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Miguel Alvarez
•With Married Filing Separately, you only report your own income, wages, deductions, and credits on your individual return. You don't need to know your ex's specific income amounts, which is one of the main advantages in situations like yours. Living arrangements don't affect your filing status. The IRS only looks at your legal marital status as of December 31st. Even though you moved out in October, you were still legally married at the end of the year, so you must file as married (either jointly or separately).
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Connor O'Reilly
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Yara Khoury
•Does it actually give you legal advice about how to file? I'm getting mixed info from different tax sites about my separation situation.
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Keisha Taylor
•I'm curious - does this work if you have complicated situations like self-employment income or rental properties? My divorce involved all that plus splitting investment accounts midyear.
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Oliver Becker
I'm a tax preparer and see this situation all the time. Quick tip on top of what others have said: if you do file Married Filing Separately, remember that if one spouse itemizes deductions, the other MUST also itemize even if taking the standard deduction would be better. This catches many divorced/divorcing couples by surprise and can significantly impact your refund.
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CyberSiren
•Thanks for bringing this up! I had no idea about the itemizing rule. Does this mean we need to coordinate our filing strategies even if we're doing separate returns? That seems frustrating.
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Oliver Becker
•Yes, you do need to coordinate at least on this one aspect. If your ex decides to itemize their deductions, you'll be forced to itemize as well, even if your itemized deductions are less than the standard deduction. This can result in you paying more tax than if you both took the standard deduction. It's one of the downsides of the Married Filing Separately status. That's why it's worth having a brief conversation with your ex about whether either of you plans to itemize, just so you're not caught off guard.
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Natasha Petrova
Random question - I heard there's a "head of household" filing status that's better than single or married filing separately. Can the OP use that since they're getting divorced?
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Javier Hernandez
•No, you can't claim Head of Household if you're married as of December 31st. You would need to be "considered unmarried" which means either legally separated under a decree or legally divorced. Plus you need a qualifying dependent and to have paid more than half the cost of keeping up your home.
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