Concerned my tax accountant might be lying about filing extension & penalty abatement request
I'm in a really strange situation and could use some advice. For context, I've been running my small business for about a decade now. Last year after filing my 2022 taxes, I got hit with a massive penalty bill for late payment. I was totally confused since my accountant told me he had filed in April and requested an extension. According to him, the penalty was because I hadn't been paying quarterly taxes for my business, but he said he would file an abatement request to get it removed. Fast forward six months, and I'm still getting increasingly threatening notices from both the IRS and state tax authority about seizing my property if I don't pay up. My accountant kept reassuring me that the abatement was "just taking time to process" and even sent me a copy of the abatement request dated from when he claimed to have submitted it. Today I finally called the IRS directly (should've done this way sooner). They told me: 1) the penalty is for late filing, not quarterly taxes, 2) no extension was EVER filed, and 3) my taxes weren't actually filed until June 6th, not April like my accountant claimed. The biggest bombshell? They have zero record of any abatement request. There have been other red flags too. My accountant left H&R Block two years ago to go independent, and things have been chaotic since. This past April, he completely ghosted me while I was waiting for my return to be filed. Only after sending increasingly panicked emails did he resurface on April 15th and supposedly file on time. He's insisting he did submit both the extension and abatement request, blaming the IRS for being disorganized. He claims he can't prove he filed the abatement (though he sent me a letter dated November), but says he can prove the extension was filed (though hasn't shown me anything). The penalties are over $13,000 combined between state and federal taxes. Is it actually possible the IRS missed both an extension request AND an abatement request? What should I do here? Am I being lied to? Really appreciate any guidance. This whole situation has me extremely stressed out.
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Liam Fitzgerald
I'm a tax professional, and unfortunately what you're describing sounds like your accountant is being dishonest. Here's what you need to know: When a tax professional files an extension, they receive confirmation with a unique code that can be verified. Same goes for abatement requests - there's always a paper trail. If your accountant truly filed these things, he should be able to provide receipt numbers or confirmation codes. The IRS system, while not perfect, does log these submissions reliably. It's extremely unlikely they would miss BOTH an extension AND an abatement request. One mistake? Maybe. Both? Almost impossible. Here's what I recommend: First, ask your accountant for specific proof - confirmation numbers, screenshots of submission confirmations, anything concrete. If he can't provide this, you need to move on quickly. Second, file your own abatement request immediately using Form 843 explaining the situation. You can request penalty abatement based on having a good history of compliance (if that's true for you) through the First Time Penalty Abatement program. Also consider reporting this accountant to your state's board of accountancy if he's a CPA, or to the IRS Office of Professional Responsibility if he's an Enrolled Agent.
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PixelWarrior
•Thanks for this info. What kind of proof should the accountant be able to provide specifically? Is there a standard receipt or document I can ask for by name? Also, if I file my own abatement request now, will that hurt my case since it's been so long since the original penalty?
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Liam Fitzgerald
•For extensions, he should have a confirmation page or email with a Digital Signature and a submission ID number. For e-filed extensions (Form 4868), the IRS sends an acknowledgment with a unique submission ID. For abatement requests, he should have a tracking number if sent by certified mail, or a confirmation number if submitted electronically. Filing your own abatement request now won't hurt your case. The IRS understands that sometimes taxpayers rely on professionals who let them down. Be sure to mention in your explanation that you believed your accountant had already submitted this request. The First Time Penalty Abatement program looks at your compliance history for the three years prior to the penalty year, so that timeline is still relevant regardless of when you submit the request.
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Amara Adebayo
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Giovanni Rossi
•Does this service actually connect to IRS records? How would it know what the IRS has on file versus what your accountant claims? Seems like you'd still need to contact the IRS to verify things.
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Fatima Al-Mansour
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Amara Adebayo
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Dmitry Petrov
You need to fire this accountant immediately. I had something similar happen with an accountant who was going through personal issues that affected his work. Request all your records ASAP before cutting ties - you're legally entitled to them. Also, watch your credit report closely. When the IRS issues liens for unpaid taxes, they show up on your credit report and can absolutely tank your score. In my case, I ended up with a 120-point drop before I got everything sorted out.
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Mei Wong
•Thank you for the warning about credit impacts. Do you have any recommendations for how to properly request all my records? Is there specific language I should use or a formal process to make sure I get everything?
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Dmitry Petrov
•Send a certified letter requesting all tax documents, working papers, and communications related to your accounts for the past three tax years (or however long they've been your accountant). Specifically state: "This constitutes a formal request for all documents as entitled under Treasury Department Circular 230." This circular governs tax professionals, and Section 10.28 specifically requires them to return all documents to you promptly upon request. Make sure to specify a reasonable deadline (like 10 business days) and keep proof of delivery. If they don't comply, you can file a complaint with the IRS Office of Professional Responsibility using Form 14157.
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Ava Williams
There's a simple way to check if an extension was actually filed. Call the IRS at the Practitioner Priority Line (1-866-860-4259) and ask for a "tax account transcript" for the tax year in question. The transcript will show exactly when your return was received and if an extension was filed. This is official IRS data that can't be manipulated by your accountant. You can also request it online through the IRS website if you create an account. The transcript will show every transaction with date stamps. If your accountant really filed an extension, it will appear with code "460" on your account transcript.
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Miguel Castro
•This is true but I'd add that the IRS account transcript uses transaction codes that can be confusing. Code 460 is for extensions, and Code 971 would show up if an abatement request was received. OP should also look for Code 166 which indicates penalties were assessed for late filing. The beauty of the transcript is it's chronological and each entry has an official date stamp that can't be falsified.
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Ava Martinez
I'm really sorry you're going through this - it's such a violation of trust when a professional you rely on isn't honest with you. Based on everything you've described, I agree with the other commenters that your accountant appears to be lying. One thing I haven't seen mentioned yet: you should document everything immediately while it's still fresh. Write down all the dates your accountant told you things were filed, save every email and text message, and keep copies of any documents he provided (even the suspicious ones). This documentation will be crucial if you decide to pursue malpractice claims or file complaints with regulatory bodies. Also, since you mentioned this is affecting both federal and state taxes, make sure you're addressing both separately. State tax authorities often have their own penalty abatement programs, and the process might be different from the federal IRS abatement. The $13,000 in penalties is substantial enough that you might want to consult with a tax attorney who specializes in penalty abatement cases. Many offer free consultations and can quickly assess whether you have grounds for both penalty relief and potential recovery from your accountant's errors or omissions insurance. Don't let this drag on any longer - every day those collection notices get more serious, and your options may become more limited.
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Aisha Abdullah
•This is excellent advice about documenting everything. I'd also suggest taking screenshots of any online portals or software your accountant may have shown you, even if they seemed legitimate at the time. Sometimes dishonest preparers will create fake "submission confirmations" or modify legitimate software interfaces to make it look like filings went through when they didn't. Another red flag I noticed from your original post - the fact that your accountant "completely ghosted" you during tax season and only resurfaced on April 15th is extremely unprofessional. Legitimate tax professionals don't disappear during their busiest time of year, especially when clients are depending on them for timely filings. Given the serious financial impact here, I'd definitely recommend consulting with a tax attorney as Ava suggested. Many states also have victim compensation funds for clients harmed by professional misconduct, and you may be able to recover some of your penalty costs if you can prove negligence or fraud.
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