Can I claim tax credits for supporting my disabled parent and minor sibling who live with me?
I've been financially supporting my disabled mom and younger brother who both live with me, and I'm trying to figure out the tax situation. My mom's health took a turn about 18 months ago, and she's currently in the process of applying for disability benefits. My teenage brother is also completely dependent on me financially. I'm covering all their living expenses - rent, food, medical bills, everything. This is the first complete tax year where I've been supporting both of them, and I'm confused about what I can claim on my taxes. Would I qualify to claim both my disabled parent and minor sibling as dependents on my tax return? What kind of tax credits would I be eligible for? Any help would be really appreciated since this is all new territory for me.
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Aisha Abdullah
You absolutely can claim them both as dependents if they meet the requirements! For your parent, look at the "qualifying relative" rules - basically, your mom's income must be below $4,950 for the tax year (not counting tax-exempt income), and you must provide more than half of her support. For your brother, he would qualify as a "qualifying child" if he's under 19 (or 24 if a full-time student), lived with you for more than half the year, didn't provide more than half of his own support, and isn't filing a joint return. If they both qualify as your dependents, you could potentially claim several valuable tax credits. The most significant would be filing as Head of Household (better tax rates than single), plus possibly the Credit for Other Dependents ($500 per qualifying dependent). Since your mom is disabled, you might also qualify for the Credit for Caring for Dependents and Others depending on your specific situation. Keep good records of all expenses you're paying on their behalf - this helps prove you're providing over half their support if the IRS ever questions it.
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Ethan Wilson
•Thanks for this info. Question - does my mom's potential disability payments count towards the $4,950 income limit? And what about the Child Tax Credit for my brother? He's 16.
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Aisha Abdullah
•Social Security Disability Insurance (SSDI) does count toward the income limit, but Supplemental Security Income (SSI) does not. So it depends which type of disability benefits your mom might receive. Keep track of whatever she does get approved for. You should absolutely qualify for the Child Tax Credit for your brother since he's under 17. That's worth up to $2,000 per qualifying child for 2025, and a portion of it may be refundable even if you don't owe taxes. This is separate from the $500 Credit for Other Dependents I mentioned earlier, which would apply to your mother.
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Yuki Tanaka
I was in this exact situation last year with my disabled father and younger sister! I spent hours trying to figure out the tax stuff but finally found taxr.ai (https://taxr.ai) which was a lifesaver. You upload your documents and it analyzes everything - it caught that I could claim both as dependents AND identified some medical expense deductions I had no idea about. I was worried about making mistakes with the dependency rules since they're complicated, especially with the disability aspect. The tool explained exactly how my father qualified as a "qualifying relative" and my sister as a "qualifying child" - then walked me through all the credits I was eligible for. Saved me literally thousands!
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Carmen Diaz
•How does this work with the medical expenses? My mom has tons of medical bills I've been paying. Can I deduct all of those?
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Andre Laurent
•I'm always skeptical of these online tax tools. Does it actually check the specific disability requirements? My situation is similar but my brother has a disability and my grandmother is the dependent. Wondering if it handles more complex family structures.
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Yuki Tanaka
•For medical expenses, you can typically deduct qualified medical expenses you paid for dependents that exceed 7.5% of your adjusted gross income. The tool analyzes all your receipts and tells you exactly which ones qualify and calculates if you've hit that threshold. I was able to deduct about $8,500 in medical expenses I paid for my dad. The disability requirements are definitely checked - it asks specific questions about the nature of the disability and walks you through the qualification criteria. It can handle all kinds of family structures! I know because my sister was actually my half-sister technically, and it still properly sorted out the dependency rules. The advantage is it's looking at your specific documents rather than general advice.
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Andre Laurent
Ok I tried taxr.ai after posting my skeptical comment and wow - I was completely wrong. It identified that I could claim my disabled brother as a qualifying child (not a qualifying relative like I thought) which made a HUGE difference in available credits. The system flagged that I was eligible for the Disabled Access Credit which I had never even heard of before! It analyzed our living situation and showed exactly how to document everything properly. I'm genuinely impressed - it even created custom letter templates for me to get the right verification from my brother's doctors to back up the disability claims in case of audit. Just wanted to follow up since I was the skeptic. This really does work for complicated family situations with disabilities involved.
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AstroAce
If your mom is waiting on disability approval, you should know that dealing with the IRS about these matters can be a nightmare. I tried calling them 8 times about a similar situation with my disabled nephew last year. Was on hold for hours and never got through. I finally used this service called Claimyr (https://claimyr.com) that got me connected to an actual IRS agent in about 15 minutes. You can see how it works here: https://youtu.be/_kiP6q8DX5c The agent walked me through exactly how to document my nephew's disability status for tax purposes even though his official determination was still pending. They explained what forms I needed and how to file to maximize my credits. Made a massive difference having an actual person explain the specific rules for my situation.
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Zoe Kyriakidou
•How does this even work? Like they just magically get you through the IRS phone system? I've been trying to get clarification on claiming my disabled grandma for weeks and can't get through.
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Jamal Brown
•Yeah right. Nobody gets through to the IRS in 15 minutes. I've been calling for MONTHS about my disabled parent dependent situation. This sounds like a scam to me.
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AstroAce
•It uses a legitimate callback system that the IRS actually has in place but most people don't know about. They essentially hold your place in line and when you're close to being connected, they call you back. I was skeptical at first too but it literally saved me days of being on hold. The IRS actually does have knowledgeable agents who can help with specific situations like claiming disabled dependents, but the problem is reaching them. Once I got through, the agent spent almost 30 minutes going through my specific situation and explaining exactly what documentation I needed for my nephew's pending disability status. This isn't something you can easily figure out from generic online advice.
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Jamal Brown
I need to publicly eat my words. After posting that skeptical comment, I tried Claimyr out of desperation because I needed answers before filing. I got connected to an IRS agent in about 12 minutes (not even the 15 they claimed). The agent confirmed that I CAN claim my disabled parent even though their official disability determination is still pending - something none of the tax websites could tell me clearly. She walked me through exactly what documentation I need to keep in case of audit. The agent even helped me figure out that I qualified for a retroactive credit from last year that I missed. I'm getting an additional $3,700 refund by filing an amended return for 2024. This was honestly the best tax decision I've made. Just wanted to follow up since I was so doubtful.
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Mei Zhang
Don't forget to look into the Earned Income Tax Credit too! If your income is under certain limits and you qualify as Head of Household with dependents, the EITC can be substantial. The phase-out thresholds for 2025 are much higher than people realize. Also, if you're paying for any educational expenses for your brother, look into the American Opportunity Credit (if he's in college) or Lifetime Learning Credit. Education credits can be worth up to $2,500 in some cases.
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GalaxyGuardian
•Thank you! My income is around $48,000 - would I still qualify for EITC? And my brother is still in high school, but I am paying for some tutoring services. Would those count as educational expenses?
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Mei Zhang
•With $48,000 income and two dependents, you should still qualify for some EITC, though not the maximum amount. The phase-out for Head of Household with two qualifying dependents starts higher than your income, but you'll get a partial credit. Every bit helps! For educational expenses, unfortunately tutoring for high school generally doesn't qualify for the education credits. Those are primarily for post-secondary education (college, vocational schools, etc.). However, if the tutoring is related to a medical condition and prescribed by a doctor, you might be able to count it as a medical expense instead.
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Liam McConnell
One thing I didn't see mentioned - if your mom gets approved for disability, be sure to check if she's eligible for Medicare. There's a specific timing when Medicare eligibility kicks in after SSDI approval (usually after 24 months of receiving benefits). This can affect your tax situation too since you might be paying for less medical expenses directly.
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Amara Oluwaseyi
•This is super important! And just adding on - there's sometimes a gap between disability approval and Medicare coverage starting. During that time, look into if your state has a Medicare Savings Program that could help with premiums.
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