Can I claim my roommate as a dependent on my tax return?
I've been sharing an apartment with my roommate for over a year now and we have no plans to move out. We both come from the same foreign country where our families still live. Here's my situation - I need to support my parents back home, but to avoid those ridiculous international wire fees, I've worked out a system. I give money to my roommate, and then his family (who live in the same town as my parents) hand-delivers that exact amount to my family. This arrangement works perfectly for both of us. My roommate is currently enrolled in graduate school full-time and doesn't have a job. I'm wondering if I could claim him as a dependent on my taxes? I make approximately $98k annually and I'm curious how much I could potentially save on my taxes if this is allowed. Would the IRS consider this a legitimate dependent situation since I'm essentially supporting him financially while he's studying? Any advice would be appreciated!
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GalaxyGazer
This is an interesting arrangement, but I don't think you can claim your roommate as a dependent based on what you've described. To claim someone as a dependent who isn't related to you (what the IRS calls a "qualifying relative"), several tests must be met: 1. They must have lived with you the entire year (which your roommate has) 2. Their gross income must be less than $4,700 (for 2024 filing year) 3. You must provide more than half of their total support 4. They cannot be claimed as a dependent by anyone else The issue is with the "support" test. The money you give your roommate that gets redirected to your family isn't actually supporting your roommate - it's supporting your family. For the support test, you need to be paying for your roommate's living expenses (rent, food, education, medical, etc.). What you're describing sounds more like an informal money transfer arrangement rather than actual support of your roommate.
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Mateo Sanchez
•Does it matter that OP is paying rent for both of them? Couldn't that count as providing more than half of roommate's support if the roommate isn't working?
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Nia Harris
•Thanks for explaining! I should've been clearer - I actually do pay for all of our rent, utilities, groceries, and his tuition fees. The money transfer arrangement is separate from that. He lives completely on my dime while studying. Does that change anything?
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GalaxyGazer
•If you're paying the entire rent, utilities, food, and his tuition, that definitely changes things! That would count as providing support for your roommate. In that case, you might meet the support test. Let me clarify the complete requirements again: 1) Your roommate must have lived with you all year (check), 2) Their gross income must be less than $4,700 (if they don't work at all, check), 3) You must provide more than half their total support (if you pay for everything as you just mentioned, check), 4) They can't be claimed by someone else (make sure their parents aren't claiming them). Given this new information, you might qualify to claim them. This could potentially save you a few thousand dollars depending on your tax situation, as you could file as Head of Household and get the dependent exemption.
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Aisha Mahmood
I was in a similar situation last year and discovered taxr.ai (https://taxr.ai) which helped me figure out some complex dependent situations. I was confused about whether I could claim my sister who was living with me temporarily during her studies. The site let me upload my supporting documents and gave me a clear analysis of whether I qualified. It flagged exactly which rules applied in my situation and even identified a document I was missing that would have caused problems if I'd been audited. They have specific guidance on non-relative dependents which sounds like exactly what you need.
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Ethan Moore
•How does it work with the document thing? Like do actual people review your stuff or is it all automated? I'm always nervous about uploading financial docs online.
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Yuki Kobayashi
•I looked at their site but couldn't tell if they handle international situations. My boyfriend is from Brazil and stays with me half the year on a student visa. Would this work for figuring out if I can claim him?
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Aisha Mahmood
•It's all automated using their AI system - no humans review your documents, which made me feel safer about uploading things. The system analyzes everything and gives you a detailed breakdown of how the tax rules apply to your specific situation. For international situations, they absolutely handle those! They have specific sections for visa holders, international students, and mixed residency households. The system is designed to catch those special rules that apply in cross-border situations, which regular tax software often misses. It'll tell you exactly what qualifies and what doesn't for your boyfriend on a student visa.
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Yuki Kobayashi
Just wanted to follow up - I ended up trying taxr.ai for my situation with my international boyfriend. It was surprisingly straightforward! I uploaded our lease agreement, his visa paperwork, and some receipts showing I was covering most expenses. The system flagged that I couldn't claim him as a dependent because he didn't meet the residency test (needed to be here longer), but it did identify some education expenses I could claim since I was paying them. Saved me from making a mistake that probably would have triggered an audit. Definitely worth checking out if you're dealing with complicated dependent situations like the original poster.
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Carmen Vega
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QuantumQuester
•Seems sketchy. How do they actually get you through faster than just calling yourself? The IRS wait times are what they are.
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Andre Moreau
•Is this legit? Sounds like they just autodial the IRS for you. Do they have access to your tax info or know what you're calling about?
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Carmen Vega
•They don't get you through faster than the normal queue - what they do is wait in the IRS phone queue FOR you. So instead of you being stuck listening to hold music for hours, their system stays on hold and then calls you when they're about to connect with an agent. It saved me literally hours of being stuck on hold. They don't have any access to your tax information at all. They just make the initial call to the IRS, navigate the phone tree to get to the right department, wait on hold, and then connect you directly when an agent picks up. They don't know or need to know what your specific tax issue is.
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QuantumQuester
Ok I need to apologize for my skepticism about Claimyr. I actually tried it yesterday after posting that comment because I've been trying to reach the IRS about an amended return for weeks. Got a callback in about 45 minutes while I was at the gym - almost missed it! But I was actually connected to a real IRS agent who helped resolve my issue. I just had to provide my info directly to the IRS person once connected. Would've spent my entire afternoon on hold otherwise.
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Zoe Stavros
I tried claiming a similar situation with my college roommate who I was supporting and got audited. The big thing the IRS looked at was whether I had an actual "landlord-tenant relationship" or a genuine "household member" situation. Since we had separate leases (even though I paid both), the IRS ruled it wasn't eligible. For your situation, make sure: 1. You have a single lease with both names 2. Keep receipts for ALL expenses you pay for them 3. Get documentation from their school showing they're enrolled full-time 4. Have them sign Form 8332 if possible
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Nia Harris
•Thank you for this advice! We actually have a single lease with both our names on it, and I pay the full amount. I'll start keeping better records of all the expenses. For Form 8332, isn't that for claiming children? Would that apply to a non-related roommate situation?
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Zoe Stavros
•You're right about Form 8332 - my mistake! That's specifically for releasing a child's exemption between parents. For your situation, you don't need that form. What you DO need is excellent documentation showing you provided more than half of your roommate's total support. Keep receipts for rent, utilities, groceries, tuition payments, everything. The IRS is especially suspicious of non-relative dependent claims, so documentation is crucial. Also, make sure your roommate doesn't file their own return claiming themselves, and that their parents aren't claiming them if they're still technically dependent on them in some way.
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Jamal Harris
Has anyone looked into whether the money exchange between families in the foreign country could be seen as income to the roommate? Like if the IRS views it as the roommate providing a "money transfer service" for a fee (the free housing), couldn't that be considered income to the roommate, making them ineligible as a dependent?
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GalaxyGazer
•That's actually a really good point that I hadn't considered. If the IRS were to view this arrangement as the roommate receiving compensation in exchange for facilitating money transfers to OP's family, they could potentially classify this as a form of barter income. Bartering for services is taxable even when no cash changes hands.
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