Can I claim mileage deduction when I drive my 15-year-old referee son to games?
My teenage son (15) recently started working as a soccer referee on weekends and is classified as an independent contractor. He's earning his own money and getting 1099s, but since he obviously can't drive yet, I'm the one taking him to all these games across the county. Some are 30+ miles away from our house! I was doing our tax planning for next year and started wondering about the mileage situation. Since he's technically the independent contractor but I'm providing all the transportation, I'm confused about whether either of us can claim the mileage deduction. He's earning the income, but I'm burning the gas and putting miles on my car. Would my son be able to claim the mileage on his tax return even though he doesn't own or drive the car? Or can I somehow claim it since I'm the one actually doing all the driving? Or is this just a wash and neither of us gets to deduct anything? Any clarity would be super helpful before tax season!
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Ravi Malhotra
This is an interesting situation! The mileage deduction is generally available to the person who is incurring the business expense - in this case, that would be your son since he's the independent contractor. Even though he doesn't drive, your son could technically claim the mileage deduction on his Schedule C since these are legitimate business expenses necessary for him to perform his work. The IRS doesn't require that he personally drive or own the vehicle - just that the transportation is a necessary business expense for him. If he claims the deduction, he should document all trips carefully with dates, locations, mileage, and the business purpose. The standard mileage rate for 2025 can be used (check the IRS website for the current rate).
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Freya Christensen
•Wait, so the teenager can claim mileage even though the parent is driving? Would the son need to "pay" the parent for the rides to make this legit? Or just track the miles?
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Ravi Malhotra
•The son doesn't necessarily need to reimburse the parent for the rides to claim the deduction. What matters is that the transportation is a necessary business expense for the son's independent contractor work. The key is proper documentation - keeping a mileage log showing dates, destinations, purpose, and miles driven. The son should be prepared to show that these expenses were necessary for his business if ever questioned.
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Chloe Robinson
•Did it tell you which person should claim the deduction though? I'm in a similar situation with my son's tutoring business.
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Zara Mirza
We handled this differently - my son is also a referee (17) and I drive him everywhere. Our tax guy actually set it up so my son "hires" me as a contractor providing transportation services to his referee business. My son pays me a rate per mile (less than the standard deduction) from his referee earnings, which I report as self-employment income, and then I take the mileage deduction on my Schedule C. Our accountant said this was cleaner from an audit perspective.
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Luca Russo
•That seems really complicated. Isn't that basically creating two businesses instead of one? Does your son actually write you checks or transfer money to you for the driving? I'm curious how you document this arrangement.
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Zara Mirza
•You're right that it adds some complexity, but we have a simple contract documenting the arrangement. He transfers money to my account monthly based on the mileage log we keep. It's not necessarily creating two businesses - just establishing that I'm providing a service to his business. Our accountant recommended this approach because it more accurately reflects the economic reality - I'm incurring the costs of driving and maintaining the vehicle, not my son. This approach also teaches him about business expenses and properly accounting for costs.
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Nia Harris
Has anyone considered that there might be another option? If your son doesn't have enough income to benefit from taking the deduction (meaning his taxable income would be reduced to zero without using all the mileage deduction), then you might explore whether you qualify for the deduction as part of a "parental employment contract" where you're essentially working for your minor child's business. This gets complex but might be worth exploring with a professional.
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GalaxyGazer
•I've never heard of a "parental employment contract" for tax purposes. Where did you see this? I'd be interested in reading more about it. My daughter makes jewelry and I do all her craft fair transportation.
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Cole Roush
I'm dealing with almost the exact same situation! My 16-year-old just started umpiring baseball games and I'm driving him all over the place. After reading through all these responses, it sounds like the consensus is that the minor should claim the mileage deduction on their Schedule C since they're the independent contractor, even though we parents are doing the actual driving. I really appreciate everyone sharing their experiences - especially the suggestion about keeping detailed mileage logs with dates, destinations, and business purpose. That seems to be the key regardless of which approach you take. One question for those who've been through this: do you track mileage from home to the game location, or do you need to establish a separate "business location" for your kid's contractor work? I'm wondering if driving from our house counts as commuting (which isn't deductible) or if it's considered business travel since the games are at various locations.
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