Can I claim 0 dependents on W-4 withholding at work but claim 1 dependent when filing taxes?

You're absolutely right about the withholding part! Claiming 0 dependents on your W-4 means more tax will be withheld from each paycheck throughout the year. This typically results in either owing less or getting a larger refund when you file. There's no problem at all with claiming 0 dependents for withholding but then claiming your son as a dependent when you file your taxes. These are completely separate things. Your W-4 withholding is just an estimate to help determine how much tax should be taken from your paychecks, while your actual tax return reflects your true tax situation. Just make sure you and your ex are clear about who claims your son each year. The IRS doesn't like when both parents try to claim the same child! If you have it in writing as part of your custody agreement, that's even better.

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One thing nobody mentioned - make sure you're using the latest W-4 form! They completely redesigned it a few years ago and removed the "allowances" system. The new form asks about dependents differently. This confused me so much when I went back to work after my divorce.

Has anyone else noticed that withholding seems super messed up lately? I claimed 0 dependents like OP but I'm still getting way less taken out than last year. I'm worried I'll owe a ton when I file.

Connor, you're definitely not overthinking this! Your approach is actually really smart - claiming 0 dependents on your W-4 will indeed maximize your withholding throughout the year, which often leads to a larger refund when you file. The key thing to remember is that your W-4 withholding and your actual tax return are two completely separate processes. Your W-4 is just telling your employer how much to withhold from each paycheck as an estimate, while your tax return reflects your actual tax situation for the year. Since you have the legal right to claim your son as a dependent for the 2025 tax year (based on your custody agreement), you can absolutely claim him when you file your return, regardless of what you put on your W-4. This might actually work out perfectly for you - you'll have extra tax withheld all year, then get credit for your dependent when you file, potentially resulting in a nice refund. Just make sure you keep good records of your custody arrangement and that you and your ex are crystal clear about who claims your son each year. Having it documented in your divorce decree is ideal. Good luck with the new job!