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Have you or your parents kept all the receipts and documentation for these expenses? That's going to be super important regardless of who might be eligible to claim them. My mom tried to claim medical expenses for my sister last year and got audited because she didn't have proper documentation from the treatment facility showing exactly what was paid and when. Make sure whoever claims these expenses has every single piece of paper!
Yes, thankfully my parents are super organized with this stuff. They have every receipt, invoice, and payment confirmation from the treatment center. They even have records of the insurance claims that were denied (which is why they had to pay out of pocket). I guess the bigger question is still whether anyone can actually claim these expenses given that I'm not a dependent. Sounds like I need to look more into that "qualifying relative" test that others mentioned.
That's great that your parents kept everything. Those records will be essential if they end up being able to claim the expenses. Definitely look into the qualifying relative test. The main things they'll need to prove are: 1) that they provided more than half your support for the year, 2) that your gross income was below the threshold (around $4,500 for 2025), 3) that you lived with them all year (though there are exceptions for temporary absences including rehab), and 4) that you're related to them. If you meet all those tests, they might be able to claim both you as a dependent and the medical expenses.
one thing nobody has mentioned is that medical expenses have to be REALLY high to actually be deductible. like they gotta be more than 7.5% of your adjusted gross income AND you have to itemize deductions instead of taking the standard deduction. so if your parents make like $100k, they'd need more than $7,500 in TOTAL medical expenses before they could start deducting anything. and the standard deduction for married filing jointly is like $30,000 for 2025, so their itemized deductions would need to exceed that to be worth it.
One important thing I haven't seen mentioned yet - make sure you file ALL your tax returns, even if you can't pay what you owe! The penalties for not filing are way worse than the penalties for not paying. If you haven't filed those returns for the past 2 years, that should be your first step before worrying about the payment options.
We did file our returns, just haven't been able to pay what we owe. But that's good advice for anyone reading who might be afraid to file! Does anyone know if we should adjust our W-4 withholding for this year to prevent owing more next year?
Yes, absolutely adjust your W-4 forms with both of your employers immediately! If you've been underwithholding for 2 years, you're likely still underwithholding now, which means you're digging a deeper hole. You can use the IRS Tax Withholding Estimator on their website to figure out exactly how to fill out your W-4. Also, when you get on a payment plan for your back taxes, make sure you don't miss any payments and that you stay current on this year's taxes. The IRS will cancel your payment arrangement if you fall behind on current taxes or miss payments on your plan.
Has anyone tried those "tax relief" companies that advertise on the radio? I owe back taxes too and they claim they can settle with the IRS for "pennies on the dollar"...sounds fishy but I'm desperate.
DON'T DO IT!! Those companies charge thousands of dollars for services you can do yourself for free or at low cost. I paid $3,000 to one of those places and all they did was put me on an installment plan I could have set up myself online. Total ripoff!
One big tip for musicians that saved me thousands: track your mileage diligently! I'm a drummer who drives to multiple venues/studios/teaching locations, and I was missing out on a huge deduction. I use a simple app that logs each trip, and last year I was able to deduct over 6,000 miles driven for gigs and sessions. At the 2022 rate of 58.5 cents per mile, that was a $3,500+ deduction on my Schedule C. Remember you can only deduct miles driven for your self-employed work though, not for your W-2 teaching jobs. And keep detailed records! Date, starting location, destination, purpose of trip, and miles driven for each business trip.
Does anyone know if you can deduct mileage when you're carrying passengers (like other band members) to gigs? We usually carpool in my van since I'm the one with all the gear space, but I wasn't sure if having others with me affects the deduction.
Yes, you can absolutely deduct business mileage even when carpooling with band members! The key is that the primary purpose of the trip must be business-related, which going to a paid gig certainly is. Having passengers doesn't reduce or eliminate your deduction. In fact, if you're the designated driver for your band and regularly transport equipment and band members, make sure you're also tracking any parking fees and tolls, as these are deductible in addition to your mileage. Just keep good records of dates, locations, and the business purpose of each trip.
Has anyone here depreciated expensive instruments? I bought a $12,300 saxophone last year that I use for both teaching and performances, and I'm not sure whether to depreciate it or take a Section 179 deduction for the portion used in my self-employed work.
I've done this with my $9000 cello. My accountant recommended depreciation rather than Section 179 since I use it for both W-2 and 1099 work. We calculated that I use it about 65% for self-employed gigs and teaching, so I'm depreciating that portion over 7 years. Makes my tax situation more stable than taking one huge deduction in a single year.
Your tax guy is probably right, but there's a middle ground option you might consider. You can set up an installment agreement with a very small monthly payment (like $25) while your tax pro continues to resolve the actual issue. This typically stops collection activities including levies, gives you a formal agreement with the IRS, but doesn't require you to pay the full incorrect amount. If your accountant resolves it in your favor, you can get refunded for whatever small payments you made. I went through almost exactly this same situation when my employer issued a corrected W2 but the IRS assessment was based on the original incorrect one. My accountant was working on it, but I couldn't sleep at night worrying about levies, so the small installment payment was my compromise solution.
That's an interesting approach I hadn't thought of. Wouldn't setting up a payment plan be seen as accepting that I owe the amount though? I'm concerned it might complicate things if we're simultaneously arguing that we don't actually owe this money.
Setting up the installment agreement doesn't mean you're agreeing the amount is correct. The IRS allows you to dispute the underlying tax while still having a payment arrangement in place. You can specifically request that your agreement be processed with "pending audit reconsideration" or "disputed liability" noted on your account. When the dispute is resolved, if it turns out you owe less or nothing, the IRS will refund any excess payments automatically. I made about four $25 payments before my situation was resolved, and I received those payments back with my refund. The peace of mind was worth the temporary $100 out of pocket.
One important thing nobody has mentioned: the CP504 notice isn't the final step before levy! There's still the Final Notice of Intent to Levy (usually Letter 1058 or LT11), which gives you 30 days' notice AND appeal rights before any actual levy happens. The CP504 is definitely designed to scare you, but you still have time and options. Your tax professional is likely aware of this timeline, which might explain why he's not panicking.
This is correct. Having worked at the IRS for 12 years, I can tell you there's a specific sequence of notices, and CP504 is not the final step. You'll get at least one more notice with appeal rights before any levy action.
Dana Doyle
I think the issue might be that your HR system is applying the wrong withholding table to your bonus. Bonuses should be withheld at the supplemental wage rate (usually 22% federal), not added to your regular income and then calculated. When they combine them, it makes the system think you make WAY more than you actually do annually. Ask your payroll department specifically if they're using the "aggregate method" or the "flat rate method" for supplemental wages. The flat rate method is usually better for most people because it doesn't cause this weird overwithholding issue you're experiencing.
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Payton Black
ā¢Thanks for this explanation - I had no idea there were different methods for withholding on bonuses. Do you know if I can specify which method I want them to use, or is that entirely up to my employer?
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Dana Doyle
ā¢It's technically up to your employer which method they use, but many payroll departments will accommodate your preference if you ask nicely. The flat rate method is actually easier for them to administer anyway. If they won't change their method, your other option is to adjust your W-4 withholding around the time you know you'll receive a bonus. You could increase your allowances temporarily for that pay period to offset the overwithholding. Just remember to change it back afterward!
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Liam Duke
Has anyone ever tried to calculate their "blended tax rate" manually to check if payroll is doing it right? I tried following some online calculator but got totally confused between marginal vs effective rates.
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Harold Oh
ā¢The blended or "effective" tax rate is just your total tax paid divided by your total income. So if you made $100,000 and paid $18,000 in federal income tax, your effective federal rate would be 18%. What confuses most people is that we have marginal tax brackets - different rates that apply to different portions of your income. Your first ~$12,950 is tax-free (standard deduction), then 10% on the next chunk, 12% on the next chunk, etc. Your highest marginal rate (the rate on your last dollar earned) might be 24%, but your overall effective rate will be much lower.
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