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Just a tip from someone who's been audited before on HOH status - make sure you keep records of EVERYTHING. The IRS can be really picky about proof. Save all your Cash App transfers, get a statement from your boyfriend confirming your contributions, keep all grocery receipts, take photos of the household items you buy, etc. Also, consider setting up a more formal arrangement going forward. Even just a simple written agreement between you and your boyfriend about who pays what can help a lot. Doesn't need to be super legal or notarized, just something documenting your arrangement.
Thanks for this advice! Would it help if I started paying a portion of the rent directly to the landlord instead of giving the money to my boyfriend? I'm worried that the Cash App transfers labeled "rent" might not be enough proof since the actual rent receipts are in his name.
That would definitely strengthen your case! If you can arrange to pay even a portion directly to the landlord, that creates a clearer paper trail. Ask the landlord if they can note your payment specifically in their records, even if the lease remains in your boyfriend's name. The Cash App transfers labeled "rent" are still useful evidence, especially if they show a consistent pattern that aligns with rent due dates. But direct payments to the landlord would be more compelling. Also, consider getting a simple written statement from your boyfriend acknowledging that your Cash App transfers are contributions toward household expenses - this adds another layer of documentation.
Has anyone here used TurboTax for a situation like this? I'm in almost the exact same situation and wondering if TurboTax would flag anything or if it walks you through documenting HOH properly?
I used TurboTax last year with a similar HOH situation. It asks you the basic qualifying questions but doesn't really get into documentation issues. It'll let you file HOH if you say you meet the requirements, but doesn't help you prove it or explain the gray areas. You might want to consult with a tax pro if you're uncertain.
Thanks for sharing your experience. Did you have any issues after filing with TurboTax? Like did the IRS question your HOH status afterward or did everything go through okay?
3 Honestly, you should be tracking all income regardless of whether it goes to a business account or not. The IRS doesn't care if your money is separated, they just want their cut of whatever you make. Keep receipts for anything business related so you can deduct expenses. Don't panic about not having a separate account - just start organizing now. Get a spreadsheet going with all your income and expenses categorized. I'd definitely recommend a CPA though - I tried doing my taxes myself the first year of my side hustle and ended up amending them later because I missed so many deductions.
17 Is there a minimum amount you have to make before reporting? I thought there was some threshold where you don't need to bother reporting small side income?
3 Technically, all income is supposed to be reported regardless of amount. However, if you make $400 or more in self-employment income, you're required to file taxes on it because that's the threshold for paying self-employment taxes. Some people talk about a $600 threshold, but that's actually just the limit where payment platforms or clients are required to send you a 1099 form. Even if you don't receive a 1099, you're still supposed to report the income. The IRS has been cracking down on unreported income from online platforms, so better safe than sorry!
11 Don't forget about sales tax! Depending on your state, you might need to collect and remit sales tax on physical items sold. Digital content usually has different rules. I got hit with a surprise sales tax bill because I didn't realize I needed to collect it from customers in my state.
13 Do you know if this applies if you're selling through platforms like Etsy or eBay? I thought they handled the sales tax stuff automatically?
Have you considered filing Form 1116 to claim your FTCs and Form 8606 for a non-deductible traditional IRA contribution, then converting to Roth later (backdoor Roth)? This might solve your Roth contribution concern without giving up your standard deduction.
I hadn't thought about the backdoor Roth approach. Would that still work if my tax liability is already zero? And would I still need to worry about the documentation of foreign expenses if I go that route?
The backdoor Roth works regardless of your tax liability because you're making non-deductible contributions to a traditional IRA first, which doesn't require you to have tax liability. You'd report these non-deductible contributions on Form 8606. No need to worry about foreign expense documentation for this approach. You can take the full standard deduction, apply your FTCs to reduce your tax to zero (carrying forward any excess), and still do the backdoor Roth. The only documentation you need is for the FTCs themselves (foreign tax statements or equivalent), not itemized expenses.
Anyone know if excess FTCs can be carried backward? I'm in a similar situation but wondering if I could amend last year's return instead of carrying forward.
FTCs can only be carried forward, not backward. You can carry them forward for up to 10 years, but you can't apply them to prior year returns unfortunately.
Important point that no one has mentioned yet: make sure to find out your state's specific rules about what constitutes "payment." Some states consider a tax paid when the check is received, others when it's processed, and some only when it's actually deposited. In my state (Illinois), the law specifically says payment is considered made on the date received by the department. So having proof of mailing (certified mail receipt) establishes a presumption of receipt that can help your case. You might want to look up the specific regulations for your state. Also, document EVERYTHING in your communications with the tax department from this point forward. Names, dates, what was discussed, reference numbers. This can be crucial if you need to escalate.
Is there any repository or website where you can look up these specific state rules? Trying to figure out what counts as "payment" in Colorado.
You can usually find these rules in your state's tax code or administrative code, which should be available online through your state's legislative website or department of revenue site. Search for terms like "date of payment" or "timely payment" along with "tax." For Colorado specifically, I believe they follow what's known as the "timely mailed, timely filed" rule, which means the postmark date is considered the payment date if sent by U.S. mail. They also have specific provisions for electronic payments. You can find these details in the Colorado Revised Statutes and the Department of Revenue's tax regulations. Their taxpayer service division can also provide this information if you call them directly.
Just my two cents here, but isn't this why everyone should be paying their taxes electronically now? I haven't mailed a check for taxes in like 10 years. The confirmation codes from electronic payments have saved me multiple times when there were questions about whether I paid.
Electronic payments aren't always an option for everyone though. My small business has to make special estimated payments for a particular industry tax that our state still requires to be submitted by mail with a special voucher form. It's ridiculous but that's how they want it.
That's a fair point. I didn't consider that some specialized tax types might still require physical payments. In those cases, I'd probably still try to use my bank's bill pay service rather than writing personal checks, since the bank creates an electronic record of when the payment was sent out, which gives you an additional layer of documentation. It's frustrating that some tax departments haven't fully modernized their systems yet, especially for business-specific taxes. Hopefully more states move toward comprehensive electronic payment options soon, as it's clearly better for both the taxpayers and the tax departments in terms of record-keeping. Profile: 1
Kaitlyn Otto
For anyone still having issues with Form 8863, here's another possible solution that worked for me: try using a different browser. I was having constant rejections using Chrome, but when I switched to Firefox, my form was accepted without any other changes. Also, make sure you're reporting your 1098-T information the same way your school submitted it to the IRS. If box 1 is filled on your 1098-T but you're trying to use amounts from box 2 on Form 8863, that could cause a mismatch the system will reject.
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Axel Far
ā¢Would this browser trick work with Edge too? I don't have Firefox installed and don't want to download another browser just for this if I don't have to.
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Kaitlyn Otto
ā¢I haven't personally tested Edge, but other users have reported success with it. The key seems to be avoiding Chrome, which has some weird compatibility issues with the Free File system's PDF handling. Edge should work better than Chrome since it uses a different rendering engine. The main thing is that some browsers handle the form submissions differently, especially with checkboxes and special characters. If you're getting the same rejection repeatedly in one browser, it's definitely worth trying a different one before giving up.
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Jasmine Hernandez
Has anyone tried printing out Form 8863, filling it out by hand, and then scanning it back in to attach to your electronic return? I've heard this sometimes works when the electronic form keeps getting rejected.
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Luis Johnson
ā¢I actually tried that method last year with a different form (not 8863) and it failed because the Free File system requires certain forms to be filled electronically so their system can read the data. You can't just attach a scanned form as a PDF - the system needs the actual data in the fields.
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