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One thing that hasn't been mentioned - make sure you're charging each other a reasonable interest rate! If it's too low (below the Applicable Federal Rate), the IRS can recharacterize part of the loan as a gift and create tax headaches. But if it's too high, your parents might face usury law issues depending on your state. When my parents loaned me money for my house, we set the rate at exactly the mid-term AFR for the month we signed the paperwork, which was around 2.5% at the time. The IRS publishes these rates monthly, so it's easy to find the appropriate rate.
How do you find these AFR rates? Is there a specific website? And do you have to use the exact rate or can it be higher?
You can find the AFR rates on the IRS website by searching for "Applicable Federal Rates" or "AFR" - they publish them monthly in the IRS Bulletin. The rates are divided into short-term (loans up to 3 years), mid-term (3-9 years), and long-term (over 9 years). Your rate can definitely be higher than the AFR - the AFR is just the minimum rate to avoid the imputed interest rules. Many family loans use AFR + 0.5% or something similar to make it beneficial for both parties - still lower than commercial rates but providing a decent return for the parents. Just be careful not to exceed your state's maximum legal interest rate (usury laws), which varies by state but is typically around 10-18%.
Has anyone mentioned that you need to actually record the mortgage or deed of trust with your county for this to work? My wife and I did a similar loan with her parents and we skipped that step thinking the promissory note was enough. BIG mistake - we got audited and lost the entire mortgage interest deduction for that year!
One thing no one has mentioned - the IRS matching system might have already flagged this if your wife's Social Security number shows as married on other documents but single HOH on tax returns. You might want to check if she's received any notices from the IRS in the past that she ignored.
Thanks for mentioning this. I asked her and surprisingly, she says she's never received any notices from the IRS questioning her filing status. Which seems weird to me? Wouldn't they automatically catch that we're married but filing differently?
The IRS system isn't as automated and efficient as people think. They have matching programs that flag obvious discrepancies like reported income not matching W-2s, but filing status verification is more complex and often requires human review. The IRS is severely understaffed and underfunded, so many issues that should be caught slip through. This doesn't mean you're in the clear though - they can still discover it during a random audit or if another issue triggers a review of her returns. The fact that she hasn't received notices yet is actually pretty common, but doesn't mean it won't become a problem later.
Has your wife been claiming dependents too? Because that's what makes this potentially more serious. HOH status requires having a qualifying dependent, and there are strict rules about who can claim children when parents are married.
6 Don't forget to check with your local zoning laws before building! I claimed all these deductions then found out my home addition violated local ordinances for home businesses, which created a whole separate headache. Some municipalities have specific restrictions on commercial modifications to residential properties.
6 Don't forget to check with your local zoning laws before building! I claimed all these deductions then found out my home addition violated local ordinances for home businesses, which created a whole separate headache. Some municipalities have specific restrictions on commercial modifications to residential properties
Just a different perspective - I quit mid-season last year and it was the best decision I ever made. Yes, it burned some bridges, but my mental health improved instantly. Found a bookkeeping job that pays almost the same but with normal 40-hour weeks and no screaming clients. Sometimes it's just not worth it. Just make sure u have something else lined up first! The job market isn't great right now.
Did you give notice or just walk out? I'm worried about how to handle it professionally if I do decide to leave. Also, were you able to use the tax experience on your resume effectively even though you didn't finish the season?
I gave one week's notice, which was less than they wanted but all I could handle mentally. I was honest but professional - just said the hours and stress were more than I anticipated and affecting my health. My direct supervisor was actually understanding even if upper management wasn't thrilled. I absolutely still list the experience on my resume! I just write the months I worked there (Jan-March) without drawing attention to the fact I left before April 15. During interviews, if asked directly, I'm honest that the 70+ hour weeks were not sustainable with my health, but I emphasize what I learned. Most interviewers seem to respect the honesty rather than seeing it as a red flag.
Has anyone tried using tax prep software to make the job easier? I been using ProSeries and it helped me speed up a lot of the basic returns. Can use the time saved on the easy ones to focus on the complicated clients.
Most tax prep places already require using their specific software. The software itself isn't usually the problem - it's the volume of clients, unrealistic appointment scheduling, and dealing with people who are stressed about money and taking it out on you.
Zoe Gonzalez
Something nobody's mentioned yet - check if Sweater Ventures offers any tax guidance documents to their investors. Most reputable investment firms will provide some basic tax info specifically about their products. You might not need to figure everything out from scratch.
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Amelia Martinez
β’That's a really good point. Do they usually send these out at tax time or should I ask for something now before investing?
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Zoe Gonzalez
β’Most firms will provide some basic tax information when you first invest that explains the general tax implications. Then toward tax season (usually January-March), they'll send out more specific guidance along with any required tax forms. I'd recommend asking them for any tax overview documents before you invest, since that might help ease your concerns. They should be able to explain what forms you'll receive, approximate timing, and the general tax treatment of their specific investment products.
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Ashley Adams
Newbie investor advice: Keep a separate savings account with about 20-30% of any gains you make for potential taxes. I learned this the hard way my first year investing when I had some lucky gains but spent all the money and then got hit with a big tax bill I wasnt prepared for.
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Alexis Robinson
β’This is solid advice! I'd also add that you should keep really good records of when you invested and how much. Makes tax time way less stressful.
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