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Your son might have filled out the W-4 incorrectly. I'm a summer camp counselor and the first year I worked, I didn't understand what "exemption from withholding" meant, so I accidentally checked that box. No federal taxes were taken all summer and I had to pay it all at tax time. Make sure your son didn't check any exemption boxes on his W-4!
That's a good point! I'll have him check with HR to see exactly what he put on his W-4. He said they just handed him a bunch of forms to fill out on his first day and he wasn't really sure what some of them meant. Better to catch any mistakes now rather than at tax time!
Great advice from everyone here! Just to add another perspective - this exact situation happened with my nephew last year. The no federal withholding was correct initially, but what caught us off guard was when he picked up extra shifts during Christmas break. His earnings jumped significantly in December and suddenly he was going to owe federal taxes. What we learned is that it's worth having a conversation with your son about tracking his total earnings throughout the year. Maybe set up a simple spreadsheet or even just a note on his phone where he logs his paychecks. That way if he's approaching that $15,000 threshold, you can proactively have him submit a new W-4 to start withholding before he gets too far over the limit. Also, even if no federal taxes are being withheld, he should still file a tax return to get back any overpaid Social Security/Medicare taxes if his total earnings end up being very low. A lot of teenagers don't realize they might be owed a refund!
This is such helpful advice about tracking earnings! I never thought about having my son keep a running total. The spreadsheet idea is perfect - I'm definitely going to help him set that up this weekend. One question though - you mentioned he might be owed a refund on Social Security/Medicare taxes if his earnings are very low. I thought those were always required regardless of income level? When would someone get those back?
I'm going through the exact same thing right now! Filed my 1040 about 12 days ago through H&R Block online, got the acceptance confirmation immediately, but have been stuck on "still being processed" ever since. My return is super straightforward too - just one W-2, standard deduction, no dependents or credits. Reading all these responses is honestly such a relief. I was starting to think something was wrong with my return, but it sounds like this is just the reality of tax season 2024. The 21-day timeline from acceptance seems to be the real benchmark to watch, not the "7-10 days" I was hoping for in my head. What's really helpful is learning that the "Where's My Refund" tool is basically useless this year. I've been checking it obsessively every morning, but based on everyone's experiences here, I should probably just be monitoring my bank account instead since refunds seem to show up randomly without any warning or status updates. @3889e6ce151f I hope your refund comes through soon, especially with the car repair situation adding pressure. At least we're all in this waiting game together and it's clearly a widespread issue rather than something specific to our individual returns!
I'm in the same exact boat! Filed about 8 days ago and have been refreshing that "Where's My Refund" page like it's going to magically change. It's so reassuring to see that literally everyone is dealing with this same "still being processed" limbo right now. The fact that so many people with simple returns (just W-2s, standard deduction) are all experiencing the same delays really drives home that this is just how things are working this season, not something wrong with our specific filings. I was getting worried that maybe I made some mistake or forgot to include something important. @2f0c71de36d6 You're so right about the "Where's My Refund" tool being useless - I'm definitely going to stop obsessively checking it and just keep an eye on my bank account instead. Based on all these stories, it sounds like the money just appears randomly one day regardless of what their website says. Thanks to everyone for sharing their experiences and timelines. This thread has been way more helpful than any official IRS guidance I've found online!
I can definitely relate to this anxiety! I filed my 1040 about 16 days ago and have been in the exact same "still being processed" status with no updates. Like many others here, I have a straightforward return - just W-2 income from my job and standard deduction, nothing complicated that should trigger extra scrutiny. What's really helping me stay calm is reading everyone's experiences in this thread. It's clear that the 21-day processing window is much more realistic than what we might hope for, and the fact that so many people with simple returns are experiencing identical delays shows this is just how the system is working this season. The most valuable insight I'm taking away is to stop obsessively checking the "Where's My Refund" tool and instead monitor my bank account directly. Based on multiple stories here, it sounds like refunds are appearing randomly in people's accounts days before the IRS website even updates to reflect the status change. I know the waiting is especially stressful when you have specific plans for that money, but it seems like patience is really the only option right now. The IRS is clearly dealing with processing backlogs and system issues that are affecting pretty much everyone who filed in the past few weeks. Hang in there everyone - sounds like we're all in this together and the money will eventually show up, even if the timing is unpredictable!
This entire thread has been such a lifesaver for my anxiety! I filed my return 9 days ago and have been stuck in the same "still being processed" status. Reading everyone's experiences really puts things in perspective - it's clearly a system-wide issue rather than something wrong with any of our individual returns. I'm definitely taking the advice about checking my bank account instead of obsessing over the IRS tracking tool. It's wild how many people have reported their refunds appearing randomly without any warning or status updates on the official website. @bc2679de8fd7 You're absolutely right that patience seems to be the only option here. I was getting really worked up thinking 9 days was way too long, but now I understand that the 21-day window is much more realistic. Thanks for helping normalize this frustrating but apparently very common experience!
Have you checked your bank account for deposits? If they paid you by direct deposit or you deposited checks, you should be able to see exactly how much you made there.
This is actually a really important point. Your bank statements are valid supporting documentation for income. I've used them before when I lost a W-2. Just add up all the deposits from that employer.
If they paid you cash and you're trying to reconstruct the exact amount, another approach is to look at your work schedule if you kept any record of it. Even something as simple as text messages to friends about your work shifts or calendar entries can help you calculate the total. Since you mentioned working "about three weekends" as a hostess, try to remember your hourly rate and approximate hours per shift. Most hostess positions pay minimum wage plus tips. If you can recall your hourly wage, multiply that by your estimated hours worked to get your base pay, then add any tips you remember receiving. The IRS cares more about you making a good faith effort to report all income accurately than having perfect documentation, especially in situations like this where the employer is no longer available to provide proper forms.
Has anyone run into limits on how much you can send through these services? I tried to send $12,000 through Remitly last year and got flagged for additional verification that took forever.
Wise definitely has higher limits than Remitly in my experience. I regularly send $5-8k to family in Europe without issues. They did require me to verify my identity with ID and proof of funds the first time, but after that it's been smooth.
I've been using Wise for sending money to Italy for the past two years and can definitely recommend it over Remitly for your situation. For a $3,200 transfer, you're looking at around $25-35 in total fees with Wise, compared to what could be $80-120+ with your bank's wire transfer. The key advantage with Wise is transparency - they show you exactly what you'll pay upfront and use the real exchange rate. I've sent similar amounts to family in Naples and Rome, and the money typically arrives within 1-2 business days. Make sure your cousin has their IBAN ready, as Italian banks are pretty strict about having the correct details. One tip: if this is your first large transfer with Wise, they might ask for additional verification (source of funds, etc.), so factor in an extra day or two for that process. But once you're verified, future transfers are much smoother. Definitely beats PayPal's highway robbery rates!
This is really helpful! I'm actually in a similar situation - need to send about $2,800 to my brother in Milan for his wedding expenses. The verification process you mentioned is interesting - do you remember what kind of documentation they asked for? I want to make sure I have everything ready to avoid delays since the wedding is coming up soon. Also, did you notice any difference in fees between sending to different Italian cities, or is it the same rate regardless of where in Italy you're sending?
Nora Bennett
Just wanted to chime in as someone who went through this exact situation last year! I inherited $15,000 from my grandfather and was absolutely panicking about taxes. After doing a lot of research and even consulting with a tax professional, I can confirm what others have said - you do NOT need to pay federal income tax on that $13,500 inheritance, and you don't even need to report it on your tax return. The key thing to remember is that inheritance tax and income tax are completely different. Your grandmother's estate may have been responsible for estate taxes (though unlikely given the high federal exemption), but that's separate from your personal income tax situation. One piece of advice - keep good documentation of the inheritance (like the estate paperwork or bank transfer records) just in case you ever need to prove the source of those funds to the IRS in the future. But you can definitely stop worrying about owing taxes on the inheritance itself!
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Ruby Knight
β’This is such a relief to read! I'm in almost the exact same boat - inherited $12,800 from my great aunt and have been losing sleep over whether I'd owe taxes on it. Your point about keeping documentation is really smart too. I have all the paperwork from the estate lawyer but wasn't sure if I'd need it. Thanks for sharing your experience - it's so helpful to hear from someone who actually went through this process!
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Astrid BergstrΓΆm
I went through something very similar when I inherited $16,000 from my aunt two years ago. The anxiety about potential tax obligations was overwhelming! After consulting with a CPA and doing extensive research, I can confirm what others have shared - you're in the clear federally. Here's what I learned that might help ease your mind: The $13,500 you inherited is not considered taxable income under federal law. You don't report it on your Form 1040, and you don't owe any federal income tax on it. The estate tax exemption is so high ($12.92 million for 2023) that your grandmother's estate almost certainly didn't owe any federal estate taxes either. The confusion you're experiencing is totally normal - the terminology around "estate tax," "inheritance tax," and "death tax" gets thrown around interchangeably online, but they're actually different things. What matters for you is that as a beneficiary receiving an inheritance, you have no federal tax liability on that money. My advice: Keep all the documentation from the estate (bank records, attorney letters, etc.) for your records, but you can stop worrying about setting aside money for taxes on this inheritance. Use that $13,500 however you planned - it's yours free and clear!
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