Has anyone used TurboTax for this situation? Do they ask the right questions to figure out if you qualify for HOH even if your kid isnt a dependent?

I'm so sorry for your loss, Kaitlyn. Going through tax complications while dealing with grief is really tough. Based on what you've described, it sounds like Head of Household would be your best option and could save you quite a bit compared to filing as Single. The key thing to understand is that your daughter can still be your "qualifying person" for HOH purposes even though she's not your dependent due to her income. As long as she's your child, lived with you for more than half the year, and you paid more than half the household costs (which it sounds like you did), you should qualify for HOH status. Just make sure to keep good records of your household expenses in case you need to prove you covered more than 50% of the costs. The HOH filing status typically provides better tax rates and a higher standard deduction than filing as Single, so it's definitely worth pursuing if you qualify. You might also want to look into education credits for your daughter's college expenses - even though you can't claim her as a dependent, you might still be eligible for the American Opportunity Tax Credit if you paid her tuition and she meets the other requirements.

Hey Nadia! Military family here too, so I totally get the PCS stress. 🪖 I've been through this exact situation with VA twice now. The paper check usually takes 10-14 business days from when they process the DD portion. Since your DD was processed on 2/9, I'd expect the check sometime around 2/25-3/3. Pro tip: If you're really tight on timing for your PCS move, you can call the VA Tax Department and ask them to expedite the explanation letter via email while the check is still in transit. That way you'll at least know what the offset was for and can start working on resolving it if needed. The number is on their website under "Refund Inquiries." Good luck with your move! 🚛

I went through this exact same situation with VA last year! The check took about 12 business days to arrive after my DD portion hit. In my case, they had offset for an old DMV fee I completely forgot about from when I moved between counties. One thing that really helped me was creating an account on the Virginia Tax website - you can actually track the status of your refund there and sometimes it will show basic info about why part was withheld before the letter arrives. Just search "Where's My Refund" on their site. Since you mentioned PCS season, definitely keep all your documentation from this. If you're moving out of state, you'll want records showing any debts were resolved in case they try to follow you to your new duty station. Military moves can sometimes trigger old municipal debts to surface, so better to get ahead of it now. Hope your check arrives quickly and your PCS goes smoothly! 🇺🇸

I received exactly 3 verification letters over the past 5 years. In 2020, it delayed my refund by 42 days. In 2022, only 16 days. This year, I verified my identity online and received my refund in exactly 9 days. The IRS has definitely improved their verification processing times by approximately 78.6% since 2020. If you receive a letter, I suggest responding within 24 hours for fastest processing. Just be cautious about verifying through unofficial websites - always go directly through IRS.gov links.

If you're concerned about receiving a verification letter, you might consider filing a Form 8821 (Tax Information Authorization) which allows a tax professional to speak to the IRS on your behalf should issues arise. This can sometimes help resolve verification issues more quickly, especially if you're not familiar with the US tax system. I've seen this approach work well for several clients who were new to filing in the US.

I always keep a record of my hours and pay when working jobs like this exactly because of situations like yours. Even a simple notes app on your phone can save you so much hassle later. Hope you get this sorted out!

Don't panic - this is definitely fixable! I went through something very similar when a small restaurant I worked at closed abruptly. Here's what I learned: First, definitely don't skip reporting the income. $14,500 is substantial enough that it could cause real problems later if the IRS discovers it through other means (bank deposits, business expense deductions by your former employer, etc.). You'll want to use Form 4852 (Substitute for Form W-2) to report this income. Gather whatever documentation you can - bank statements showing deposits, any text messages about pay, even photos of cash if you took any. The IRS understands that sometimes documentation is limited in these situations. Since you were likely paid under the table with no withholdings, you'll probably owe both income tax and self-employment tax on this amount. It's not fun, but it's better to get compliant now than deal with penalties and interest later. Also consider whether you were actually an employee or independent contractor - this affects how much you'll owe in taxes. If you had set hours, used their equipment, and they controlled how you did your work, you were probably an employee, which could save you some money on the self-employment tax portion. Document your attempts to contact the former employer (disconnected phone, bounced emails) - the IRS likes to see you made a good faith effort to get proper documentation.

Can somone explain why the government allows businesses to deduct losses but not individual gamblers? If I start an LLC for my sports betting, could I then deduct the losses?

I've been following this discussion and wanted to add something important that hasn't been mentioned yet - the timing of when you report gambling winnings and losses. If you're planning to make that $3,800 bet next month, remember that any winnings or losses will be reportable on your 2025 tax return (due April 2026), not your current 2024 return. This might affect your tax planning strategy. Also, if you do win and receive a Form W-2G from the sportsbook (which you typically get for winnings over $600 that are at least 300 times your wager), the IRS already knows about your winnings. Make sure you report them even if you don't receive a tax form - the threshold for reporting gambling income to the IRS is actually lower than what triggers a W-2G. One more thing - if you're in a state where sports betting winnings are subject to state taxes, remember that the rules for deducting gambling losses at the state level can be completely different from federal rules. Some states don't allow gambling loss deductions at all, even if you itemize federally.