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Have you checked if there were any math errors on your return? Sometimes that can cause major delays.
I feel your pain! I'm actually going through something similar - been waiting 10 months for my 2023 refund. After reading through all these comments, I'm definitely going to check my tax transcript like Nick suggested. That breakdown of the codes to look for is super helpful. I had no idea about the Taxpayer Advocate Service either - might be worth looking into if this drags on much longer. It's frustrating how inconsistent the whole process seems to be. Some people get their refunds in weeks, others wait over a year. Hang in there, Ryan! š¤
my aunt sends me $500 every month and i just keep screenshots of her text messages that say "sent you gift money for the month" along with my bank statements. my tax guy said thats perfect documentation and not to worry about it. irs has bigger fish to fry than going after small gift money lol
Smart! I'm going to start doing this. Been getting cash from my parents for years and never documented anything. Always made me nervous at tax time.
You're definitely overthinking this! The amounts you're describing ($300-400/month) are well within normal family gift ranges and won't raise any red flags with the IRS. That said, it's smart to think ahead about documentation. Here's what I'd recommend: - Keep a simple log noting the date, amount, and which family member gave each gift - If they're sending checks, that's already perfect documentation - For cash gifts, ask them to send you a quick text like "sent you your monthly gift money" - takes 2 seconds but creates a record - Save these records with your annual tax documents The IRS really isn't looking to hassle people over legitimate family gifts, especially at these amounts. They're more concerned with unreported business income or large unexplained deposits. Your coworker probably heard about the $10K bank reporting requirements, but that's completely different from what you're dealing with. Bottom line: you're not accidentally creating a tax problem, and simple documentation will give you peace of mind!
This is really helpful advice! I'm in a similar situation where my grandparents help me out occasionally, and I've been wondering if I should be doing anything special to document it. The text message idea is brilliant - so simple but creates that paper trail you need. Quick question though - if the IRS did ever ask about these deposits during an audit, would they want to see documentation from the person giving the gift too, or is my record-keeping on the receiving end sufficient? Just want to make sure I'm not putting my family in an awkward position if they need to provide anything on their end.
I'm going through this exact situation right now! Filed my paper return 5 weeks ago and have been checking the USPS tracking obsessively even though it stopped updating after leaving my local post office. Reading through all these responses has been incredibly helpful - I had no idea about the tax transcript option or that paper returns take 6-8 weeks to process. I think I'm going to try the transcript route first since that's free, and if I still don't see anything after 8 weeks I'll consider one of the services mentioned here to help get through to the IRS. The certified mail tip is definitely something I'll remember for next year - $7 would have saved me weeks of anxiety! Thanks everyone for sharing your experiences. It's reassuring to know this happens more often than I thought and that there are actual solutions.
I feel for you! I went through this exact same panic last year when I mailed my return without tracking. The waiting and not knowing is honestly the worst part. One thing that really helped calm my nerves was understanding that the IRS actually receives and processes the vast majority of paper returns just fine - they handle millions of them every year. The postal service, despite its issues, is pretty reliable for regular mail deliveries to government offices. What I learned is that the "tracking stopped updating" issue is super common with USPS. Once mail gets to certain processing facilities, especially large government mail centers, the tracking often goes dark even though the mail is still moving through the system normally. I'd definitely recommend checking your tax transcript online like others mentioned - that was actually how I first found out my return had been received, about 2 weeks before the Where's My Refund tool showed anything. It's free and updates more frequently than the refund tracker. Try to hang in there - 3 weeks is still well within the normal timeframe for paper returns. I know it's easier said than done, but most of these "lost" returns turn out to be just fine, they're just moving through a much slower system than we're used to in the digital age.
Has anyone had experience with hybrid policies? My financial advisor keeps pushing this combo life insurance/LTC policy that supposedly has tax advantages, but I'm having trouble finding clear info on how to report the premiums.
I have a hybrid policy. Only the portion that's specifically designated for LTC coverage can be counted as a medical expense. Your insurance company should provide a breakdown that shows what percentage of your premium is for LTC vs life insurance. In my case, about 65% of my premium qualified as an LTC expense.
Great question about LTC premiums! Just to add to what others have shared - make sure you keep detailed records of your premium payments throughout the year. The IRS may want to see documentation that your policy is indeed qualified LTC insurance if you're audited. Also, don't forget that if either of you becomes self-employed in the future (even part-time consulting), the rules change significantly in your favor. Self-employed individuals can deduct LTC premiums as an above-the-line deduction (on Schedule 1) up to the age-based limits, which means you don't have to meet the 7.5% AGI threshold or itemize to get the benefit. One more tip: if you're planning any major medical expenses this year (dental work, surgery, etc.), it might push you over that 7.5% threshold where your LTC premiums would actually provide a tax benefit. Worth running the numbers to see if timing any elective procedures could help maximize your deductions.
This is really helpful advice about keeping detailed records! I'm new to LTC insurance and hadn't thought about the documentation aspect. Quick question - when you mention "above-the-line deduction" for self-employed individuals, does that apply even if the self-employment income is relatively small? Like if I do some freelance work on the side that only brings in a few thousand dollars a year, would I still qualify for that better treatment of the LTC premiums? Also, your point about timing medical expenses is smart. We've been putting off some dental work, so maybe we should look at our total medical expenses for the year and see if it makes sense to bunch them together.
Val Rossi
sign up for those email alerts they mentioned! thats how i knew exactly when mine was approved last year
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Ruby Blake
I've been through this exact same situation! Filed through Cash App for NY state taxes last year and got the same "processing" message. It's totally normal - that's just their standard first status for all returns. The fact that you can see your tax year (2024) and form type (IT-201) displayed correctly means Cash App transmitted everything properly to NY state. I'd definitely recommend signing up for those email alerts like others mentioned - that's how I found out when mine was approved. NY typically takes 2-3 weeks to process, sometimes longer during busy periods. Cash App is legit for tax filing, so don't worry about that part!
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Amina Toure
ā¢@Ruby Blake thanks for sharing your experience! that s'really reassuring to hear from someone who went through the same thing. definitely gonna sign up for those email alerts now š
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