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Has anyone used the "qualifying relative" designation rather than "qualifying child" for an adult disabled sibling? I'm in a similar situation but my brother is 42 and permanently disabled from a work accident. Not a veteran but gets SSDI. The IRS publication is so confusing about which category to use.
Yes, you'd use "qualifying relative" for an adult sibling. The "qualifying child" category has an age limit (generally under 19, or under 24 if a student) unless they're permanently and totally disabled. But even with the disability exception, "qualifying child" is primarily for your own children, stepchildren, foster children, siblings, or descendants of any of these. For an adult brother, "qualifying relative" is the right category, and the requirements are: 1) they don't have to be related if they live with you all year, but siblings qualify regardless, 2) their gross taxable income must be less than $4,400 (for 2023), 3) you provide more than half their support, and 4) they're not filing a joint return except to claim a refund.
Isaac, based on your detailed description, you should definitely be able to claim your brother as a qualifying relative dependent. The key points working in your favor: 1) **VA disability and SSDI don't count toward gross income test** - These tax-exempt benefits won't disqualify him from dependency status, regardless of the monthly amount. 2) **Support test calculation** - When calculating the 50% support test, include the fair rental value of his housing in your home, utilities, food, transportation, medical expenses not covered by insurance, and other living costs. Your brother's disability payments only count as "support he provides for himself" if he actually uses them for support expenses. 3) **Your caretaker role strengthens your case** - The fact that the VA officially designated you as his caretaker and recognizes his need for full-time care due to cognitive impairment from TBI supports the dependency relationship. 4) **Potential additional benefits** - As his caretaker, you may qualify for Head of Household filing status (if unmarried) and potentially the Credit for Other Dependents. Given his cognitive impairment and your role as his VA-designated caretaker, this seems like a clear-cut case for claiming him as a dependent. The IRS recognizes that disabled individuals may receive significant non-taxable benefits while still being legitimately dependent on others for support.
This is really helpful information! I'm new to dealing with dependent situations involving disability benefits. One question - you mentioned the Credit for Other Dependents. How does that work exactly? Is it different from the Child Tax Credit, and what's the dollar amount? Also, since Isaac mentioned his brother spends the disability money impulsively due to brain injury, would that actually help with the support test calculation? Like if the brother isn't using those funds for legitimate support expenses, do they still count as "support he provides for himself"?
Has anyone here actually filed a gift tax return (Form 709)? Is it complicated? I'm trying to help my daughter with more than just $18k for her down payment but wondering if dealing with the paperwork is a nightmare.
I filed one last year when I gave my son $40k. It's not as bad as you might think - basically you list the gifts over $18k, calculate the amount that uses up part of your lifetime exemption, but usually don't end up owing any actual tax. Most tax software includes it, though some of the free versions don't. I used TurboTax and it walked me through everything step by step.
This is such helpful information! My husband and I are in a similar situation - our son is looking to buy his first home and we want to help but were worried about tax implications. One thing I'm curious about that I haven't seen mentioned - does the timing of when the gift is actually received matter? Like if I write a check on December 30th but my son doesn't deposit it until January 3rd, which tax year does that count for? I want to make sure we maximize our giving by using both 2025 and 2026 limits but don't want to mess up the timing. Also, has anyone dealt with banks asking questions about large deposits from family gifts? I'm wondering if there's a standard way to document these properly for mortgage purposes.
Great question about the timing! For gift tax purposes, it's generally when the check is written and given, not when it's deposited. So if you write and give the check on December 30th, it counts as a 2025 gift even if your son deposits it in January 2026. The key is that you've made an irrevocable transfer of the funds. Regarding banks and mortgage lenders - they absolutely will ask about large deposits, especially within 60-90 days of your mortgage application. The standard approach is to provide a "gift letter" (most lenders have their own template) stating that the money is a gift with no expectation of repayment. You'll also need to show the paper trail - your bank statements showing the withdrawal and your son's statements showing the deposit. Pro tip: If possible, make the gift well in advance (3+ months before mortgage application) so the money can "season" in your son's account. This makes the mortgage process much smoother since seasoned funds require less documentation.
Don't forget to check if your state handles inherited property the same way the IRS does! NY generally follows federal rules, but some states have their own twists on capital gains for inherited property. Just something to double-check.
Good point. I inherited property in California and the rules were slightly different than federal. Had to file special paperwork with the county assessor too. Check with your state tax department to be sure.
This is a great question about Section 121 and inherited property! I went through something similar when I inherited my grandmother's house through intestate succession in Pennsylvania. One thing I learned that might be helpful - you should also consider getting a professional appraisal for the property's value at the date of death if you don't already have one. This establishes your stepped-up basis officially and can be crucial if the IRS ever questions your capital gains calculation. In my case, I had lived in the inherited house for 3 years before selling, so I easily qualified for Section 121. But even if I hadn't, the stepped-up basis meant my actual capital gain was much smaller than it would have been if I had purchased the property myself years ago. Also, make sure to keep detailed records of when you moved in and made it your primary residence. The IRS can be pretty strict about proving the 2-year residency requirement, so having utility bills, voter registration changes, and other documentation showing it was your principal residence will be important if you're ever audited.
This is really helpful advice about getting a professional appraisal! I hadn't thought about that but it makes total sense to have official documentation of the stepped-up basis. Do you know if there's a time limit for getting the appraisal done, or can I get one retroactively? I inherited the property about 2 years ago and didn't think to get an appraisal at the time. Also, did you use a specific type of appraiser or just any licensed real estate appraiser?
I've been reading through all these responses and they're incredibly helpful! I'm in a similar situation - making decent money from day trading but locked out of retirement contributions due to the earned income requirement. The educational content route that several people mentioned is really appealing. I've been keeping detailed trading journals and developing some solid strategies for swing trading tech stocks. It sounds like there's real demand for legitimate trading education, and it would let me generate earned income while sharing knowledge I already have. One question for those who've gone this route: how do you balance the time commitment between creating educational content and your actual trading? I'm worried about it cutting into my market research time, especially during volatile periods when I need to be fully focused on my positions. Also, has anyone run into issues with compliance or regulations when offering trading education? I want to make sure I stay on the right side of SEC rules while building a legitimate business that qualifies for IRA contributions. The trader status election also sounds interesting, but honestly the educational approach seems more straightforward and less likely to raise red flags with the IRS. Thanks everyone for sharing your experiences - this thread has given me more clarity than months of research!
@5496fe84f85f Great questions! I'm new to this community but have been following this discussion closely since I'm in a very similar situation - been trading forex and crypto for the past year and feeling locked out of retirement planning. Regarding the time balance concern, from what I've read in other forums, many traders find that creating educational content actually helps them refine their own strategies. The process of explaining your approach forces you to think more systematically about what you're doing. Some traders even say it makes them better at their own trading. As for compliance, I believe as long as you're providing general education about trading concepts and strategies (not specific investment advice or recommendations), you should be okay. But definitely worth consulting with someone who knows the regulations before getting started. The educational content route really does seem like the most practical solution here. Even generating $5-6k in legitimate earned income would unlock IRA contributions for most of us. And honestly, if you're already successful at trading, there are probably people who would pay to learn from your experience. Has anyone looked into whether offering trading software or tools (like spreadsheet templates for tracking trades) would also count as earned income from a business activity?
I've been following this discussion with great interest as someone who's dealt with this exact frustration. After being locked out of IRA contributions for two years due to only having trading income, I finally found a solution that worked for me. Like many of you mentioned, I went the educational content route and it's been incredibly effective. I started by creating a simple course on risk management for options traders (something I wish I'd learned earlier in my trading journey). What surprised me was how much demand there was for practical, real-world trading education from someone who's actually making consistent profits. The key thing I learned is that you don't need to be a guru or have millions in profits to provide value. People want to learn from traders who are consistently profitable and can explain their strategies clearly. I generated about $9,500 in earned income last year from educational content, which allowed me to max out my IRA contribution for the first time in years. A few practical tips for anyone considering this path: - Start with what you know best. If you're successful with covered calls, teach that. If you've mastered risk management, focus there. - Keep detailed business records from day one. Time spent, expenses, client interactions - all of it matters for establishing this as legitimate earned income. - You don't need fancy production. Some of my best-selling content is just screen recordings of me explaining trades with simple PowerPoint slides. The time commitment is manageable - I probably spend 8-10 hours per week on educational content, and it hasn't hurt my trading performance. If anything, explaining my strategies to others has made me more disciplined in following them myself. Happy to answer any specific questions about getting started with this approach!
@5405fa7ab1d2 This is exactly what I needed to hear! Your success story gives me so much confidence that this approach can actually work. The fact that you generated $9,500 from educational content while maintaining your trading performance is really encouraging. I love your point about not needing to be a guru - I think a lot of us get intimidated thinking we need to be some kind of trading celebrity to teach others. But you're absolutely right that people want to learn from consistently profitable traders who can explain things clearly, not necessarily the biggest names. Your tip about starting with what you know best really resonates. I've developed a pretty solid approach to risk management in my options trading that's kept me profitable even during volatile periods. Maybe that's where I should focus my first educational content. Quick question: when you say you generated $9,500, was that mostly from one-time course sales or ongoing consulting/coaching? I'm trying to figure out the best model to start with. Also, did you set up an LLC for this or just report it as Schedule C income? The 8-10 hours per week time commitment sounds very manageable, especially if it's actually making me a better trader too. I'm definitely going to start planning out my first course. Thanks for sharing such detailed, practical advice!
Matthew Sanchez
Don't forget to check with your dental insurance first! Some plans cover Invisalign partially if it's medically necessary. Mine covered about 25% of the cost because my dentist documented that I had TMJ issues. That reduced the amount I needed to try claiming on taxes.
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Ella Thompson
ā¢Wait, dental insurance actually covered Invisalign?? Mine told me flat out they don't cover any "cosmetic orthodontics" no matter what. Did you have to do anything special to get them to approve it?
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James Martinez
Great question! I went through this exact situation last year with my Invisalign treatment. The key is getting proper documentation from your orthodontist that clearly states the treatment is for medical necessity - jaw pain, bite correction, TMJ issues, etc. A few important points to consider: 1. **Medical expense deduction threshold**: You'll need total medical expenses exceeding 7.5% of your AGI to itemize and deduct. This includes ALL medical costs - insurance premiums, prescriptions, doctor visits, etc. 2. **HSA/FSA route**: This is often better than the tax deduction route since you use pre-tax dollars without meeting any threshold. Most FSA administrators will approve orthodontic work if you have documentation of medical necessity. 3. **Documentation is key**: Ask your orthodontist for a letter specifically stating that the Invisalign is being prescribed to treat your bite and alignment issues causing jaw pain. Most orthodontists are very familiar with providing this type of documentation. 4. **Track everything**: Keep receipts for the treatment cost, travel to appointments, and any related expenses. Given your situation with documented jaw pain and bite issues, you should definitely qualify for either the medical expense deduction (if you meet the threshold) or FSA reimbursement if your employer offers one. The medical necessity aspect is clearly established in your case.
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Keisha Taylor
ā¢This is really helpful advice! I'm in a similar situation where I need Invisalign for bite issues but wasn't sure about the tax implications. One question - if I use an FSA for part of the cost but still have out-of-pocket expenses remaining, can I still claim those leftover costs as a medical deduction on my taxes? Or does using FSA funds disqualify me from also claiming the tax deduction for the same treatment?
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Cass Green
ā¢Great question! You can absolutely claim the remaining out-of-pocket costs as a medical deduction even after using FSA funds. The IRS only prohibits "double-dipping" - meaning you can't deduct the same dollar that was already paid with pre-tax FSA money. So if your total Invisalign cost is $5,800 and you use $2,750 from your FSA, you can potentially deduct the remaining $3,050 (assuming you meet that 7.5% AGI threshold and have enough total medical expenses). Just make sure to keep clear records showing which portion was paid with FSA versus out-of-pocket. This actually works out well since many people can't fit their entire orthodontic treatment cost into their annual FSA contribution limit anyway. You get the best of both worlds - immediate tax savings on the FSA portion and potential deduction on the remainder.
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