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Diego Mendoza

Will EDD approve my claim after being forced to resign due to relocation and commute issues?

I'm in a really tough spot with my EDD claim and could use some advice before my phone interview. Here's what happened: I relocated about 2.5 hours away from my job while pregnant (housing costs were insane in our old area). I've been with the company for over 9 years and requested to work fully remote since several other employees already do this. My manager initially seemed open to it, but HR ultimately denied my request, requiring me to come into the office 3 days weekly. The commute would be nearly 6 hours round-trip some days with traffic, which is impossible with a newborn and toddler at home.\n\nAfter several back-and-forth discussions, my director basically said I had two options: either commit to the office schedule or "voluntarily resign." He actually suggested I resign and apply for unemployment after my maternity leave ended. He made it sound like this was a sure thing and the company wouldn't contest it.\n\nWell, I just filed my claim and EDD scheduled a phone interview to "discuss my claim further." Now I'm panicking! When filing, I selected "quit because employer gave me the option to quit or be fired" since that's essentially what happened. If I hadn't resigned, they would have terminated me for being unable to meet the in-office requirement.\n\nDoes anyone know what I should say during this interview? Should I be upfront about being told to resign? Will EDD see this as a voluntary quit and deny my claim? I'm seriously worried about supporting my family without this benefit.

You need to be extremely careful with how you present this situation to EDD. In California, quitting due to childcare responsibilities or commute distance CAN be considered good cause, but only under specific circumstances. The key is to emphasize that the change in working conditions (requiring in-office work when remote was feasible) made continued employment impossible for you.\n\nDuring your phone interview:\n- Clearly explain that your employer changed your working arrangement after your relocation\n- Emphasize that other employees are permitted to work remotely\n- State that a 5-6 hour daily commute is unreasonable, especially with young children\n- Mention that your supervisor specifically advised you to resign and apply for benefits\n- Have documentation of any emails/texts showing they suggested resignation\n\nAvoid saying you \

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Thank you so much for this detailed advice. I do have text messages where my director suggested I resign and apply for unemployment - should I offer to share these during the interview or wait until they ask for proof? I'm so nervous about saying something wrong and getting denied.

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I went thru something similar last yr but my commute would have been 3hrs each way after my company relocated offices!!! They denied my request to wrk remotely even tho my entire team was allowed to work from home 2x a week. EDD denied my claim initially saying I VOLUNTARILY quit but I appealed and eventually won. The key was proving the commute was \

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It's such a relief to hear you won your appeal! Did you have any documentation that helped your case? I'm trying to gather everything I can before this phone call. And thank you for the tip about not focusing solely on childcare - I'll definitely emphasize the unreasonable commute and the different treatment compared to other employees.

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this happened to my sister too! edd denied her at first but then she won on appeal. just be honest. they can check with ur employer anyway.

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Your situation is a common gray area with unemployment eligibility, but you do have several factors working in your favor. The EDD considers whether a reasonable person would have quit under similar circumstances.\n\nFor your phone interview:\n\n1. Use precise language - don't say you \

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This is incredibly helpful, thank you! I hadn't thought about calculating the exact financial impact of the commute, but that makes perfect sense. Between gas, wear and tear on my car, and potential childcare costs for the extended hours, it would have been financially impossible. I'll definitely prepare all these points before my interview.

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The EDD is going to deny you because you QUIT. Doesn't matter what your employer said, unemployment isn't for people who choose to leave their jobs. You should have just refused to come in and made them fire you if you wanted benefits.

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This isn't accurate. California recognizes numerous \

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Ugh EDD is sooo frustrating! When they call make sure your ready with ALL ur docs and don't let them rush you. They tried to rush me off the phone when I had an interview. And remember its THEIR job to determine if you qualify, not your old company! Your boss isn't the one who decides if you get unemployment no matter what he promised!!

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One additional point to consider: in your situation, the substantial distance of your new residence (2.5 hours away) might actually work against you, as the EDD could argue that your relocation was voluntary and created the hardship. However, you have two strong counterarguments:\n\n1. Your 9-year employment history shows commitment to the company\n\n2. The company's inconsistent remote work policy (allowing some employees but not you) demonstrates potentially unequal treatment\n\nDuring your interview, I recommend emphasizing that you made good faith efforts to continue working despite the relocation, and that your employer's refusal to accommodate remote work (while allowing it for others) left you with no reasonable alternative but to leave. This frames the separation as being initiated by the employer's actions rather than your personal choice.

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This is KEY point!! When i had my interview the EDD rep kept saying

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just wondering - did ur employer give u anything in writing about suggesting u resign and apply for benefits? my friend's company did something similar but then contested her claim anyway! make sure u have proof.

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I have some text messages where my director suggested this route and said the company wouldn't contest it. I also saved emails discussing the remote work denial. Hoping this is enough because I don't have anything formal from HR about it.

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Based on your updates in the comments, it sounds like you have good documentation with those text messages and emails. One final recommendation: prepare a concise, chronological summary of events that you can reference during your call.\n\nInclude:\n1. Date of relocation and reason (housing costs)\n2. Date you requested remote accommodation\n3. Dates of key conversations about work arrangements\n4. Date and specifics of when your director suggested resignation\n5. Official separation date\n\nHaving this timeline ready will help you stay organized during what can be a stressful interview. And remember, if you're initially denied, you have the right to appeal, which many claimants win when they have documentation like yours.

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I'm facing a similar situation right now - my employer is making unreasonable demands after I had to relocate for family reasons. Reading through all these responses gives me hope that there are ways to present these cases effectively to EDD. One thing I'd add based on my research is to make sure you document the exact mileage and time for your commute. The EDD has specific guidelines about what constitutes an "unreasonable" commute, and a 5-6 hour round trip with young children at home definitely falls into that category. Also, the fact that your employer suggested you resign and apply for benefits could actually work in your favor - it shows they recognized the situation was untenable. Keep us updated on how your interview goes! Your case could really help others in similar situations understand how to approach these conversations with EDD.

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@Freya Pedersen Thank you for bringing up the mileage documentation - that s'such a practical tip! I hadn t'thought about the specific EDD guidelines for unreasonable commutes, but you re'absolutely right that 5-6 hours daily is way beyond reasonable limits. I m'definitely going to calculate the exact distance and time before my interview. It s'reassuring to hear from someone else going through something similar. These situations are so stressful because you feel trapped between impossible choices. I hope your case works out well too! I ll'definitely update everyone after my phone interview. If my documentation and approach help me get approved, I want to share exactly what worked so others can benefit. We re'all just trying to support our families while dealing with employers who don t'seem to understand the real-world challenges we face.

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I'm going through something very similar right now and this thread has been incredibly helpful! My employer relocated our office and is refusing remote work accommodations despite it being feasible for my role. One thing I wanted to add based on my research - make sure you emphasize during your interview that you attempted to find reasonable solutions before resigning. The fact that you requested remote work (which was already being granted to other employees) shows you were trying to maintain employment despite the challenging circumstances. Also, document everything about the inconsistency in their remote work policy. If they're allowing some employees to work remotely but denied your request without legitimate business reasons, that could strengthen your case for "good cause" separation. The text messages from your director are gold - definitely mention those during your interview. When an employer suggests resignation and unemployment benefits, it shows they recognized the situation was untenable from their end too. Wishing you the best with your phone interview! Please keep us updated on how it goes.

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@Amara Okonkwo This is exactly what I needed to hear! You re'so right about emphasizing the solution-seeking aspect. I did try multiple approaches - first requesting full remote work, then asking about a hybrid schedule, and even offering to come in for important meetings. The fact that they shut down every reasonable accommodation while allowing others to work remotely really does feel discriminatory. I m'definitely going to frame it as I "exhausted all possible solutions to continue my employment rather" than just focusing on why I couldn t'commute. That shows I was committed to staying with the company despite the challenges. The inconsistency in their remote work policy is probably my strongest point. I ve'been there 9 years with excellent performance reviews, while some remote employees have been there less than 2 years. There s'really no legitimate business reason why my role couldn t'be done remotely. Thank you for the encouragement about those text messages! I was worried they might not be official "enough," but you re'right - when management suggests this path, it shows they understood the situation was impossible. I hope your case goes smoothly too. It s'frustrating how many of us are dealing with employers who won t'adapt to reasonable life circumstances. I ll'definitely update everyone after my interview!

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I just went through a very similar situation last year and wanted to share what worked for me. My company also denied my remote work request after I relocated, and I was terrified about the EDD interview. Here's what I learned: The key is to present this as a "constructive dismissal" rather than a voluntary quit. When your employer creates impossible working conditions (like a 5-6 hour daily commute with young children) and refuses reasonable accommodations that they grant to others, they're essentially forcing you out. During your interview, lead with these points: - You relocated for valid reasons (housing costs, family needs) - You made good faith efforts to continue employment by requesting accommodations - Your employer treats employees inconsistently (allows remote work for some but not you) - The commute became genuinely impossible with your family situation - Your supervisor explicitly suggested resignation and unemployment benefits That last point is crucial! When I mentioned that my manager suggested I "take this route," it seemed to really resonate with the EDD interviewer. It shows the employer recognized the situation was untenable. I was initially nervous about having those text messages, but they were actually my strongest evidence. Definitely mention them upfront and offer to provide copies. My claim was approved on the first try. The interviewer said the combination of my employer's inconsistent policies and their suggestion to resign showed this was really their decision, not mine. Stay calm during the call and stick to the facts. You've got good documentation and a solid case. Good luck!

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@Ella Lewis This is incredibly reassuring to hear from someone who went through almost the exact same situation! The constructive "dismissal framing" makes so much sense - I hadn t'thought of it that way, but you re'absolutely right that impossible working conditions essentially force you out even if you technically quit. "I" m'definitely going to lead with those points you outlined, especially emphasizing the good faith efforts and inconsistent treatment. It s'encouraging to know that the EDD interviewer recognized your manager s'suggestion as evidence that the employer saw the situation as untenable too. The fact that you were approved on the first try gives me so much hope! I ve'been losing sleep worrying about this interview, but hearing your experience helps me feel more confident about my documentation and approach. One quick question - did you prepare any specific talking points or just speak naturally during the call? I m'torn between having notes ready and not wanting to sound overly rehearsed. Thank you so much for taking the time to share your experience. It really means a lot to know that others have successfully navigated this process with similar circumstances!

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I'm dealing with a similar remote work denial situation right now, and this thread has been incredibly valuable! Your case actually sounds quite strong based on what everyone's shared here. One thing I wanted to add that hasn't been mentioned yet - make sure you're prepared to clearly articulate the timeline of events during your phone interview. EDD interviewers often want to understand the sequence of what happened and when. Having a clear chronology ready (like when you relocated, when you requested accommodations, when they were denied, when your supervisor suggested resignation) can really help your case flow smoothly. Also, I've heard from others that it's worth mentioning the financial impossibility of the commute - not just the time, but the actual cost. With gas prices and vehicle wear-and-tear, a 5-6 hour daily commute could easily cost $50-100+ per day, which might make your job financially unviable even without the childcare considerations. The text messages from your director are definitely your ace in the hole. When management explicitly suggests unemployment benefits, they're essentially acknowledging that continued employment isn't feasible. I'm rooting for you! Please update us after your interview - your experience could really help others in similar situations navigate this process.

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@Elliott luviBorBatman You bring up such an important point about the financial impossibility! I hadn t'even calculated the actual dollar amount, but you re'absolutely right - between gas, tolls, parking, and the accelerated wear on my vehicle, that commute would probably cost me $60-80+ per day. When you factor in that I d'be away from home 12+ hours daily including (commute time ,)it would barely be worth working after childcare costs. That timeline preparation tip is gold too. I m'going to write out a clear chronology with specific dates so I don t'stumble over the sequence during the interview. Having it laid out will definitely help me stay organized and confident. It s'amazing how much clearer my case looks after reading everyone s'advice here. What felt like a hopeless situation yesterday now feels like I actually have strong grounds for approval. The combination of documented management suggestions, inconsistent company policies, and genuine impossibility of the working conditions really does paint a picture of constructive dismissal. Thank you for the encouragement and practical tips! I ll'definitely update everyone after my phone interview. This community support has been a lifesaver during such a stressful time.

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I went through something very similar about 18 months ago and want to share what helped me get approved. Like you, I had relocated and my employer refused remote work despite others having that arrangement. The key thing that worked in my favor was framing it exactly as others have mentioned - as constructive dismissal rather than voluntary resignation. During my EDD phone interview, I made sure to emphasize these specific points: - I had been a loyal, long-term employee (sounds like your 9 years definitely helps here) - I made multiple good-faith attempts to find workable solutions before leaving - The employer's policies were applied inconsistently (this was huge for my case) - The working conditions they imposed were genuinely impossible to meet What really sealed the deal for me was having documentation of conversations with management. Your text messages where your director suggested resignation and unemployment benefits are incredibly valuable - that's essentially your employer acknowledging they created an untenable situation. One thing I'd add that helped me stay calm during the interview: remember that the EDD interviewer has probably heard situations like this many times. They're trained to distinguish between someone trying to game the system and someone who was genuinely put in an impossible position by their employer. Your case sounds strong based on everything you've shared. The combination of your employment history, documented attempts to accommodate, inconsistent company policies, and management's own suggestion to pursue benefits really works in your favor. Stay factual, reference your documentation, and don't let nerves make you over-explain. You've got this!

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@Roger Romero Thank you so much for sharing your successful experience! It s'incredibly reassuring to hear from someone who was approved with such similar circumstances. Your point about the EDD interviewer being trained to recognize genuine impossible situations versus people trying to game the system really helps put this in perspective. I m'definitely going to use your framing approach - emphasizing the loyalty 9 (years! ,)multiple good-faith attempts, inconsistent policies, and genuinely impossible conditions. That structure makes so much more sense than just explaining why I couldn t'make the commute work. Your reminder about staying factual and not over-explaining is exactly what I needed to hear. I tend to ramble when I m'nervous, but you re'right that the documentation speaks for itself. Those text messages really are my strongest piece of evidence since my director literally told me to take this route. It gives me so much confidence knowing that others with similar situations have been approved. I was starting to panic that quitting would automatically disqualify me, but clearly EDD does recognize when employers create impossible working conditions. Thank you for taking the time to encourage someone going through this stressful process. I ll'definitely update everyone after my interview with how it goes!

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I'm currently going through a very similar situation and this thread has been absolutely invaluable! My company also denied my remote work request after I had to relocate for family reasons, and I've been terrified about the upcoming EDD interview. Reading through everyone's experiences and advice, I'm realizing that documentation is absolutely crucial. Like several others mentioned, I also have text messages from my supervisor discussing the situation, but I wasn't sure if they'd be taken seriously. It's so reassuring to hear that these informal communications can actually be your strongest evidence. One thing I wanted to add based on my research - I found out that California specifically recognizes "substantial change in working conditions" as good cause for separation. When your employer refuses reasonable accommodations (especially ones they grant to other employees) and creates impossible working conditions, that can qualify as constructive dismissal. @Diego Mendoza - your situation with the 9-year employment history and documented management suggestions really does sound like a strong case. The fact that your director explicitly told you to resign and apply for benefits is huge. That's basically your employer admitting they put you in an impossible position. I'm going to follow the advice everyone's given here about preparing a timeline, calculating the financial impact of the commute, and emphasizing the inconsistent remote work policies. This community support has been amazing during such a stressful time. Please keep us updated on how your interview goes - your experience could really help others navigate similar situations!

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@Nia Johnson I m'so glad this thread has been helpful for your situation too! It s'unfortunate how many of us are dealing with employers who won t'provide reasonable accommodations, but at least we can support each other through the process. You re'absolutely right about the substantial "change in working conditions aspect" - I hadn t'realized California had specific provisions for this, but it makes perfect sense. When you think about it, requiring someone to commute 5-6 hours daily when they previously had more flexibility or (when others are allowed remote work really) is a fundamental change to the job conditions. The documentation point can t'be stressed enough. I was initially worried that text messages weren t'official "enough," but reading everyone s'success stories here shows that EDD takes these informal communications seriously, especially when they show management acknowledging the impossible situation. One thing that s'really struck me from all these responses is how important it is to frame this as the employer s'decision rather than our choice. We didn t'want to leave - we were put in positions where continuing employment became genuinely impossible despite our best efforts to find solutions. I m'feeling much more confident about my upcoming interview after reading everyone s'experiences. The timeline preparation, financial impact calculations, and emphasis on inconsistent policies all seem like crucial elements for a strong case. Thank you for the encouragement, and I hope your situation works out well too! I ll'definitely update everyone after my phone call. We re'all just trying to support our families while dealing with unreasonable employment situations.

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I'm going through a remarkably similar situation right now and wanted to add some encouragement based on what I've learned from researching California unemployment law. Your case actually has several strong factors working in your favor that you should definitely emphasize during your phone interview. The fact that your director explicitly suggested you resign and apply for unemployment benefits is incredibly significant - this essentially shows that management recognized the working conditions they were imposing were unreasonable and unsustainable. Make sure to mention those text messages right away during your interview. What really strengthens your case is the inconsistency in your employer's remote work policy. You've been there 9 years with presumably good performance, yet they're denying you the same accommodation they grant to other employees. This could be seen as discriminatory treatment, especially when combined with your documented attempts to find reasonable solutions. A few additional points that might help: - Calculate the exact financial impact of that commute (gas, vehicle wear, potential childcare for extended hours) - it might actually make working financially impossible - Emphasize that you made multiple good-faith efforts to continue employment before being forced to leave - Frame this as "constructive dismissal" - your employer created impossible working conditions that left you no reasonable choice The 2.5 hour distance might initially seem like it works against you, but when combined with your employer's refusal to accommodate remote work (while allowing it for others) and their own suggestion to resign, it actually supports your case for good cause separation. Stay calm during your interview, stick to the facts, and remember that EDD has seen these situations before. Your documentation and the circumstances really do suggest this was your employer's decision, not yours. Best of luck!

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@Sara Unger This is such comprehensive and encouraging advice! Your point about calculating the exact financial impact is brilliant - I hadn t'fully considered that the commute costs alone might make the job financially unviable. Between gas, tolls, vehicle maintenance, and the need for extended childcare, I m'probably looking at $70-100+ per day just to work. The constructive "dismissal framing" really resonates with me too. When you put it that way, it s'clear that my employer created conditions they knew I couldn t'meet, especially after 9 years of successful employment. The fact that they suggested resignation themselves really does show they understood the situation was impossible. I m'definitely going to lead with those text messages during my interview. Reading everyone s'experiences here, it seems like that documentation of management s'suggestion is often the turning point in these cases. It transforms the narrative from employee "chose to quit to" employer "acknowledged untenable situation. Your" reminder about staying calm and sticking to facts is exactly what I needed to hear. I tend to get flustered and over-explain when stressed, but the evidence speaks for itself. The combination of my employment history, documented accommodation attempts, inconsistent company policies, and management s'own guidance really does paint a clear picture. Thank you for taking the time to share such detailed and encouraging advice. This community support has been incredible during what felt like a hopeless situation. I ll'definitely update everyone after my phone interview!

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