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I just had twins 6 weeks ago (yay sleep deprivation x2!) and I'm getting ready to apply for baby bonding PFL. My employer's HR dept said I should be filling out separate PFL applications for each baby, but when I started the online application, it only asks for ONE child's information. Now I'm totally confused! Do I submit two separate applications or just one application for twin baby bonding? Has anyone here gone through this with multiples? I'm worried about messing up and delaying my benefits since we're already struggling financially with double everything!
I submitted my baby bonding PFL claim 2 weeks ago and I'm getting really anxious because I've heard nothing back. No approval, no denial, literally zero communication from EDD. The online portal just shows "pending" with no other details. Is this normal?? How long does the approval process typically take before you start getting paid? Also, I'm confused if PFL has the same waiting period as SDI? Do I have to wait 7 days before benefits kick in like with disability? My savings are running low and I really need to know when I might see some money coming in. My employer told me it would be quick but this feels like forever!
This thread has been incredibly helpful! I'm currently dealing with a similar situation - submitted my PFL claim for baby bonding about 12 days ago and seeing nothing but "pending" status. Reading through everyone's experiences, especially @Yara Assad's resolution, has given me so much clarity about what might be going wrong. I'm also transitioning from SDI to PFL and now I'm pretty convinced that's where my claim is stuck too. The advice about using Claimyr and asking specifically about "inter-program transitions" is gold - thank you @Nora Brooks and @Christian Bierman for those insider tips! It's honestly ridiculous that we need to become EDD experts just to access benefits we've already paid for, but this community knowledge sharing is invaluable. I'm going to try calling tomorrow morning right at 8:01 AM with all the magic phrases you've shared. For any other new parents reading this who are feeling stressed about delayed PFL claims - this thread proves that persistence pays off and we're definitely not alone in dealing with EDD's broken system. Thanks everyone for taking the time to share your experiences and solutions!
@Julia Hall I m'so glad this thread has been helpful for you too! I ve'been following along as someone who s'expecting my first baby in a few months, and honestly, this whole conversation has been like a crash course in EDD survival tactics that I never knew I d'need. It s'both comforting and infuriating to see how common these SDI-to-PFL transition issues are - comforting because it shows it s'not just individual mistakes causing delays, but infuriating because this is clearly a systemic problem that EDD should have fixed ages ago. The fact that we all have to become amateur bureaucracy experts just to get benefits we ve'been paying into is absolutely wild. I really hope your call tomorrow morning goes smoothly with those magic phrases! Please update us if you get through - these success stories give the rest of us so much hope when we re'dealing with the EDD maze. Good luck with your little one and getting this sorted out!
This thread has been such a lifesaver! I'm currently 36 weeks pregnant and planning my maternity leave, and honestly I had no idea about any of these SDI-to-PFL transition issues until reading everyone's experiences here. The fact that this is such a widespread problem that EDD apparently knows about but hasn't fixed is just mind-blowing. @Yara Assad thank you so much for sharing your journey and especially for coming back with the update about getting it resolved! And huge thanks to @Nora Brooks for the "inter-program transitions" tip and @Christian Bierman for the advice about exact date matching - I'm definitely going to be extra careful about those details when I submit my claims. I'm bookmarking this entire thread and the Claimyr service info. It's honestly sad that we need to pay third-party services and become EDD experts just to access our own benefits, but this community knowledge sharing makes me feel so much more prepared. For any other expecting parents who find this thread later - save these tips! The real-world advice here is invaluable compared to EDD's vague official information. You all have probably saved me weeks of stress and confusion!
@Oliver Becker I m'so glad you found this thread helpful for your planning! As someone who s'relatively new to this community but has been lurking and learning from everyone s'experiences, I can t'believe how much valuable information is packed into this conversation. The fact that expecting parents have to do this much research just to navigate basic state benefits is honestly shocking. I m'also bookmarking everything here - especially the Claimyr service and all those specific phrases like inter-program "transitions that" seem to be the magic keys to actually getting help from EDD. It s'amazing how this community has basically created an unofficial user manual for surviving the EDD system! Thanks to @Yara Assad and everyone else for being so generous with sharing their experiences and solutions. This is exactly the kind of real-world knowledge that makes all the difference when you re trying'to focus on your new baby instead of battling bureaucracy.
I swear I've spent half my maternity leave just trying to get through to a human at EDD! I submitted my baby bonding claim 3 weeks ago and haven't heard anything, so I'm trying to check on the status. I've been calling the main PFL number (1-877-238-4373) every day this week at different times but keep getting the 'high call volume' message and disconnected. Does anyone know if there's a better time of day to call? Or maybe a different number that actually gets you to a real person? I'm getting desperate - bills are piling up and I need this claim processed ASAP. TIA!
I'm new to this community but unfortunately not new to the EDD phone nightmare! I just went through this exact same struggle with my PFL claim for caring for my newborn - took me almost a month to get through. What finally worked for me was a combination of the strategies mentioned here: I called at exactly 8:00am on a Wednesday (had to redial about 15 times because it kept saying high call volume), and when I finally got into the queue, I waited on hold for 2 hours and 20 minutes. But I got through! The rep was actually really helpful once I reached her - turns out there was a simple documentation issue that was holding up my claim, and she processed my payments right there on the call. For anyone still struggling, don't give up! The system is absolutely broken and designed to make us quit, but persistence does eventually pay off. Also seconding the advice about keeping detailed notes of your call attempts - I had a whole spreadsheet by the end of it! Hang in there everyone, we shouldn't have to work this hard for benefits we've already paid for, but at least we're not alone in this fight.
@Sasha Ivanov Your success story gives me so much hope! I m'also new to this community and have been dealing with my first PFL claim for bonding with my newborn for about 2 weeks now. The phone system has been absolutely impossible to navigate. Your detailed breakdown is incredibly valuable - knowing it took 15 redials at 8am just to get into the system really puts things in perspective about how broken this whole process is. I m'definitely going to try the Wednesday 8am strategy based on your experience, and the spreadsheet tracking idea is brilliant! It s'completely absurd that we have to become phone system strategists just to access benefits we ve'already paid for through our paychecks, especially while caring for newborns. But hearing that over 2 hours of waiting actually led to resolution gives me the motivation to keep pushing. Thank you for taking the time to share what worked - this community has been such a lifeline during this frustrating process!
@Sasha Ivanov This is exactly what I needed to hear! I m'brand new to this community and have been struggling with my PFL claim for caring for my sick parent for about 3 weeks now. The EDD phone system has been completely impossible - I ve'probably made 80+ calls with zero success getting through to a human. Your detailed success story is so encouraging, especially knowing the specific steps that worked: Wednesday at 8am, 15 redials to get in the queue, then the long hold time. It s'absolutely infuriating that we have to treat this like a strategic mission just to access benefits we ve'literally earned, but your persistence paying off gives me hope! I m'definitely going to try the Wednesday 8am approach and start keeping a detailed spreadsheet like you did. Thank you for taking the time to share your experience and remind us not to give up - this community has been such a sanity saver during this nightmare process!
I'm also new to this community and currently dealing with my first PFL claim nightmare! I submitted my bonding claim for my newborn about 2.5 weeks ago and have been completely unable to get through to EDD despite calling every single day, sometimes multiple times. Reading through this entire thread has been both incredibly validating and absolutely infuriating - it's clear this broken phone system is failing so many new parents when we need support most. The variety of strategies shared here gives me hope though! I'm definitely going to start with the 8am sharp approach that several people have had success with, and @Sasha Ivanov's detailed breakdown of the Wednesday morning persistence strategy is incredibly helpful. The Claimyr service that worked for @Ethan Clark is also on my backup list, and @Alexander Zeus's Friday afternoon tip is something I hadn't considered at all. What really gets to me is that we're all forced to become phone system experts and develop military-level strategic plans just to access benefits we've literally already paid for through our own paychecks - while we're sleep-deprived, recovering from childbirth, and trying to bond with our newborns. It's beyond cruel and clearly designed to make us give up. But finding this supportive community has been such a lifeline. Thank you everyone for sharing your experiences and keeping each other motivated through this broken system!
@Ellie Simpson Welcome to the community! I m'also brand new here and going through my first PFL experience for bonding with my newborn - submitted about 2 weeks ago and hitting the same impossible phone system wall as everyone else. This thread has been such a discovery for me too! It s'both comforting and maddening to see how systemic this problem really is. I m'taking notes on all the strategies shared here - @Sasha Ivanov s Wednesday'8am persistence method sounds promising, and the Claimyr service that saved @Ethan Clark is definitely going on my backup list. It s absolutely ridiculous'that we have to become phone system strategists while we re already exhausted'new parents, but at least we re not alone'in this fight! The collective wisdom here gives me hope that one of these approaches will eventually break through. Hang in there - we shouldn t have to'work this hard for benefits we ve earned! '
Applied for PFL after having my baby 2 weeks ago and got the confirmation email saying EDD received my application. But I haven't heard anything since then! When I log into my account, I can only see that I submitted the application - there's literally nowhere that shows if they're processing it or what's happening. I thought there'd be some kind of status bar or progress indicator? Is there a different place I'm supposed to check? Getting worried because our savings are running thin and I need to know when to expect payment. Any help appreciated!
I'm going through this exact same frustrating experience right now! Applied for PFL 6 days ago after my baby was born and the complete lack of status updates is driving me crazy. It's 2025 and we literally have better tracking for pizza deliveries than for our own government benefits! Reading through everyone's experiences here has been incredibly helpful though - sounds like 2-3 weeks is unfortunately the norm, and there are actually some workarounds to get through to EDD. I'm definitely going to try that Claimyr service if I don't hear anything by next week, and I just set up the text alerts that someone mentioned (had no idea that was even an option). It's so reassuring to know I'm not the only one dealing with EDD's stone-age system, but also infuriating that new parents have to go through this stress when we're already exhausted and worried about finances. Thanks everyone for sharing your experiences and solutions - this thread is going to save my sanity over the next week or two!
I totally feel your frustration! I'm actually in a very similar boat - applied for PFL about a week ago and have been refreshing that useless portal constantly hoping for any kind of update. It's wild that we can track a $5 package from across the country in real-time but can't get basic info about our own benefits! Thanks for mentioning the text alerts - I had no idea that was even a feature and just set it up. Reading through everyone's experiences here has been such a lifesaver. It's good to know that 2-3 weeks seems to be the standard timeline, even though it feels like forever when you're waiting. I'm bookmarking that Claimyr service too in case I need to use it next week. Hang in there - sounds like we just have to ride out EDD's outdated system!
I'm dealing with this exact same issue right now! Applied for PFL 5 days ago after my daughter was born and the waiting is already making me anxious. It's so frustrating that there's literally no way to track what's happening with your application - like others have said, we get better tracking info for food deliveries! Reading through everyone's experiences here has been super helpful though. Sounds like 2-3 weeks is unfortunately normal, which is longer than I was hoping but at least now I know what to expect. I'm definitely going to set up those text alerts that were mentioned and try the Claimyr service if I don't hear anything by the end of next week. It's crazy that new parents have to deal with this kind of stress and uncertainty on top of everything else, but at least there seem to be some workarounds that actually work. Thanks everyone for sharing your experiences - this thread is going to help me stay sane while I wait for EDD to get their act together!
I'm right there with you! Just applied for PFL 3 days ago after my son was born and I'm already feeling that anxiety creep in. It's so reassuring to read everyone's experiences here - I had no idea this was such a common issue with EDD's system. The fact that we get zero visibility into what's happening is honestly unacceptable in 2025! I just set up the text alerts after reading about them here (seriously had no clue that was even an option). Planning to bookmark that Claimyr service too since it sounds like actually getting through to a human is the only way to get real answers. Thanks for starting this conversation - knowing we're all in the same boat definitely helps with the stress!
Has anyone else been waiting forever for their PFL claim to update? I've already waited the full 14 days they told me to wait, but nothing's changed on my account. Starting to get worried... Any advice on what to do next?
Pro tip: if you can, try faxing your documents. Sometimes that gets processed faster than online submissions. Weird, I know, but it worked for me!
I'm dealing with the exact same issue! Been 16 days now and my claim status hasn't budged. I tried calling multiple times but can never get through - the line is always busy or I get disconnected after waiting on hold for hours. It's so frustrating when you're already stressed about taking time off and then you have to worry about whether you'll actually get paid. Has anyone had luck with contacting their local assembly member's office? I heard they can sometimes help escalate these cases.
Ryder Greene
Welcome to the twin parent club! ๐ I went through this exact same confusion with my twins in 2023. Your HR department definitely mixed something up - it's ONE application for PFL baby bonding regardless of how many babies you're bonding with. I made the mistake of initially trying to submit two applications and the second one got rejected with a note saying I already had an active claim. The way I think about it: you're taking time off work to bond with your new family additions, not separate time off for each individual baby. The 8 weeks covers your bonding period with both twins together. One tip: when you fill out the application, just use one baby's info but maybe mention in any comments section that you have twins. Some people also attach both birth certificates when they submit documentation, though I'm not sure if that's required. Good luck and congratulations again!
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Toot-n-Mighty
I went through this same situation with my twins last year! Your HR department is definitely giving you incorrect information. You only need to submit ONE PFL application for baby bonding, even with multiples. The benefit is based on YOUR leave from work to bond with your new family, not per child. I was also confused initially and called EDD to confirm - they told me that whether you have 1 baby or 5 babies, you still get the same 8 weeks of PFL for bonding. When filling out the DE2508 form online, just enter one of your twins' information and maybe add a note in the additional comments section mentioning that you have twins. Make sure you have both birth certificates ready in case EDD requests additional documentation during processing. And don't worry about the timing - since you're at 6 weeks postpartum, you're right on track to apply for PFL if your disability benefits are ending soon. Hang in there - the newborn twin phase is brutal but it does get easier! The financial stress is real with double everything, so getting your PFL sorted will definitely help. Congratulations on your babies! ๐
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Alice Fleming
@Lydia Santiago Great questions! You can apply for PFL while you re'still on SDI, but the PFL benefits won t'start until your disability period officially ends. I recommend applying about 2 weeks before your SDI is set to end to avoid any gaps in benefits. EDD doesn t'automatically transition you - you have to submit a separate PFL application. The timing coordination with your employer is mainly about making sure they know you re'extending your leave for bonding time after your recovery period. Some people run into issues if they don t'communicate this clearly with HR. The good news is that since you re'expecting twins, you already know what to expect with the application process thanks to this thread! Just remember - one application for both babies when the time comes. Good luck with your delivery!
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Fatima Al-Qasimi
@Lydia Santiago Great questions! Yes, you can transition directly from SDI pregnancy (disability to) PFL baby bonding without any gap - that s'actually the ideal way to do it. You should apply for PFL about 2-3 weeks before your SDI ends so there s'no interruption in benefits. The timing can be tricky though - I recommend calling EDD or using one of those callback services mentioned earlier to make sure you get the transition right. Your employer doesn t'handle the transition, it s'all through EDD, but you should definitely keep HR informed about your leave dates. Also start gathering your documents now birth (certificates, etc. because) once those babies arrive you ll'be too exhausted to deal with paperwork! Feel free to ask if you have more questions - this community has been super helpful for navigating all the California benefits stuff.
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