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Reading through all these responses has been so helpful! I'm currently 6 weeks postpartum and in almost the exact same situation - toxic workplace that I'm dreading returning to after my leave ends. What I'm gathering from everyone's experiences is that the key distinction is between disability (where you're certified unable to work) and PFL baby bonding time (where you can actively job search without issues). @Miguel Alvarez and @Sofia Martinez really clarified this for me. I'm planning to wait until I transition to PFL before starting my job search, but it's reassuring to know that so many others have successfully navigated this transition. The timeline that @Yara Khoury shared sounds ideal - use the PFL period for job searching, give notice a couple weeks before leave ends, and start the new job shortly after. One thing I'm curious about - has anyone here had to deal with their employer trying to "win them back" when they gave notice they weren't returning? My company has a history of making counter-offers or promises about improving conditions when people try to leave. I'm worried they might try to guilt me about taking maternity leave and then not coming back, even though I know legally I'm protected. Also want to echo what others have said about the anxiety of job searching during what should be precious bonding time. It's such a mental load on top of everything else new parents are dealing with! But ultimately creating a better future for our families is worth the temporary stress. Thanks to everyone who shared their stories - it's giving me the confidence to move forward with this plan! πͺ
@Eleanor Foster I m'so glad this thread has been helpful for you too! You re'absolutely right about the key distinction between disability and PFL - that was a major lightbulb moment for me as well. Regarding employers trying to win "you back -" I didn t'experience this personally, but I ve'heard stories! The important thing to remember is that you don t'owe them anything beyond fulfilling your legal obligations. If they were truly committed to improving conditions, they would have done so before you felt the need to leave. Don t'let them guilt you about taking legally protected leave - that s'exactly the kind of toxic behavior that probably contributed to your decision in the first place! If they do make counter-offers, really think about whether the underlying culture and management issues that made the workplace toxic have actually changed, or if they re'just trying to avoid the inconvenience of replacing you. Most of the time, people who accept counter-offers end up leaving within 6 months anyway because the fundamental problems persist. You re'absolutely doing the right thing by prioritizing your family s'long-term wellbeing. A healthier work environment will benefit not just you, but your ability to be present and happy as a parent. The temporary stress of job searching is definitely worth it for a better future! Best of luck with your transition - you ve'got this! π
As someone who just went through this exact situation 6 months ago, I want to reassure you that what you're considering is completely normal and legal! I was also in a toxic work environment and made the decision not to return after my maternity leave. Here's what I learned: You can absolutely job search during your PFL period (the baby bonding portion). The key is waiting until you're no longer on pregnancy disability and have transitioned to PFL. During disability, you're certified as unable to work due to your medical condition. But during PFL, you're taking time to bond with your baby - there's no restriction on looking for future employment opportunities. I started my job search around 10 weeks postpartum when I felt more mentally ready to handle interviews alongside caring for my newborn. I was upfront with potential employers about my availability date and most were very understanding. I ended my PFL claim early when I accepted a position and started my new job about 2 weeks after my leave officially ended. The relief of not having to return to that stressful environment was incredible, and it actually made me a better parent because I wasn't constantly anxious about work. Don't feel guilty about using this time to secure a better future for your family - that's exactly what these benefits are meant to help you do! Make sure to keep good documentation of everything and follow proper procedures for ending your benefits when you start your new position. You've got this! π
@Daniel Price Thank you so much for sharing your experience! It s'incredibly reassuring to hear from someone who successfully navigated this exact situation just 6 months ago. The timeline you described starting (job search around 10 weeks postpartum during PFL sounds) very reasonable and gives me a concrete plan to work with. I really appreciate you mentioning the relief you felt not having to return to that toxic environment - I think I ve'been underestimating how much that workplace stress has been weighing on me, even while I m'on leave. You re'absolutely right that securing a healthier work situation will ultimately make me a better parent because I won t'be carrying that constant anxiety. The point about being upfront with potential employers about availability is something I was wondering about. It s'good to know that most hiring managers are understanding when you explain you re'finishing up maternity leave. I m'definitely going to follow your advice about keeping good documentation and following proper procedures. Did you have any issues with the transition process when you ended your PFL claim early, or was it pretty straightforward with EDD? Thanks again for the encouragement - hearing success stories like yours gives me so much confidence that I can make this work! π
Hey Mei! I'm a new member here but had to jump in because I literally just went through this exact situation 3 months ago! I had pregnancy-induced hypertension starting at 35 weeks, ended up on early disability, then had postpartum complications that extended my disability to 11 weeks total. I was absolutely panicking about losing my PFL time, but everyone here is 100% correct - you get your FULL 8 weeks of baby bonding leave after your disability ends, no matter how long the disability lasts! They're completely separate programs. The thing that stressed me out the most was all the conflicting information I got from different sources. Even some EDD phone reps seemed confused about how it works. But the law is crystal clear - medical recovery time doesn't count against bonding time at all. My biggest advice: start a file folder NOW with copies of everything you submit, and don't be afraid to call EDD multiple times if you get conflicting information. I had to call 3 different times before I found a rep who actually understood the programs correctly! Also, your proactive approach is exactly right. I wish I had researched this stuff early like you're doing instead of scrambling to figure it out while dealing with a newborn. You're going to navigate this beautifully! πͺ
Hi Omar! Welcome to the community and thank you so much for sharing your recent experience! It's incredibly reassuring to hear from someone who literally just went through this 3 months ago. Your story about having 11 weeks of disability followed by full PFL is exactly what I needed to hear! I totally understand the stress about conflicting information - it seems like even some EDD reps don't fully understand how these programs work together, which is so frustrating when you're trying to plan something this important. Your advice about calling multiple times until you find a rep who actually knows what they're talking about is really valuable. I'm definitely going to start that file folder right away! That's such a smart organizational tip, especially since it sounds like having documentation of everything you submit can be really important if any issues come up. Thank you for validating my proactive approach - sometimes I worry I'm overthinking things, but it sounds like doing this research early really does help avoid scrambling later when you're dealing with a newborn. This community has been absolutely amazing and I'm so grateful for everyone sharing their experiences! πͺ
Hi Mei! I just wanted to add my experience to this incredibly helpful thread. I went through almost the exact same situation about 6 months ago - developed gestational hypertension at 36 weeks, went on early disability, then had a c-section with infection complications that extended my total disability time to about 13 weeks. I was absolutely terrified that the extension would somehow eat into my PFL time because my employer's HR person kept making comments about "combined leave limits" (which turned out to be completely wrong!). But I got every single day of my 8 weeks of baby bonding leave after my disability ended! What really helped me was understanding that California specifically designed these programs to be separate so that medical complications wouldn't penalize parents by reducing their bonding time with their babies. It's actually a really parent-friendly system once you understand how it works. One practical tip that saved me stress: I created a simple spreadsheet tracking my disability periods, extension dates, and when to file my PFL claim. Having it all laid out visually made me feel so much more in control during an already overwhelming time. Also, don't let anyone make you feel guilty about taking the full medical time you need. Recovery is recovery, and bonding time is bonding time - they serve completely different purposes and you're entitled to both! You're being so smart to research this ahead of time. Wishing you a smooth rest of your pregnancy and delivery! π
This entire thread has been incredibly helpful! I'm in a very similar situation - took 5 weeks of bonding leave when my son was born in January, returned to work for a major client presentation, and now want to use my remaining 3 weeks before his first birthday. Based on all the success stories shared here, I'm going to call 1-877-238-4373 tomorrow morning at exactly 8:05 AM with my claim number and documents ready. It's so reassuring to hear from multiple people that this actually works without needing to file a new claim. @Victoria Jones @Jacinda Yu @Alejandro Castro your detailed experiences have been invaluable! One thing I'm curious about - for those who successfully reactivated and then took their remaining time in multiple chunks, did you need to call EDD each time you wanted to start a new period of leave, or were you able to set up multiple future periods during your initial reactivation call? I'm hoping to potentially split my remaining 3 weeks into a 2-week period in August and then a 1-week period in October, depending on my work schedule.
@Oliver Becker Great question! From my experience when I reactivated my claim earlier this year, I was able to discuss multiple future periods during my initial reactivation call. The agent was really understanding about splitting the remaining time and actually helped me plan out the dates for both periods I wanted to take. However, they did mention that if I needed to adjust the timing for the second period, I could always call back closer to that date to modify it. So you should definitely be able to set up your August and October periods during tomorrow s'call, but keep in mind you ll'have flexibility to change the October timing if your work situation shifts. The key is just being clear about your overall plan when you first call. Hope this helps and good luck with your call tomorrow morning!
This whole thread has been a lifesaver! I'm dealing with the exact same situation - took 4 weeks of bonding leave when my daughter was born in April, had to go back for a product launch, and now I want to use my remaining 4 weeks before her first birthday. Reading everyone's detailed experiences gives me so much confidence that I can actually make this work. I'm definitely going to call 1-877-238-4373 tomorrow at 8:05 AM with my claim number and all my documents organized. @Victoria Jones @Jacinda Yu @Alejandro Castro thank you all for sharing such specific details about your calls - it's incredibly helpful to know this process actually works! One quick question for anyone who's done this - when you reactivated your claim, did the agent ask for any additional documentation beyond your claim number and basic verification info, or was it pretty straightforward once they had your original claim details? I want to make sure I have absolutely everything ready before I call tomorrow morning!
I'm going through this exact same situation right now and feeling so relieved to find this thread! I was on pregnancy disability from August through October 2024, then PFL for baby bonding from November through January 2025. Like everyone else, I had no clue about the tax withholding option when applying - I was just trying to survive pregnancy complications and then adjusting to life with a newborn. The advice here has been incredibly helpful, especially understanding that the two 1099-G forms need to be reported separately and that both benefits are federally taxable but CA exempt. I'm definitely dreading the tax bill since I didn't elect withholding, but at least now I know what to expect based on everyone's experiences with owing around 12-15%. One thing I'm curious about - for those who used TurboTax, did it automatically categorize the EDD benefits correctly or did you have to manually select specific categories? I want to make sure I don't accidentally mark something wrong and create problems later. Also really encouraging to hear about the potential credits with having a new baby and lower income from leave. Every little bit helps when you're facing an unexpected tax bill! Thank you to everyone who shared their experiences - this community is such a lifesaver when EDD provides zero guidance on any of this stuff.
I just went through this exact process with TurboTax last month! When you enter the 1099-G forms, TurboTax will ask you what type of state benefits they are. For the pregnancy disability one, you'll select "State Disability Insurance" and for the PFL one, you'll select "Paid Family Leave" or "State Family Leave" (the exact wording might vary slightly). The software is pretty good at guiding you through it step by step. The key thing is that after you enter each form, it will ask if the benefits are subject to state taxes - make sure you select "No" for California since both SDI and PFL are exempt from CA state taxes. I was paranoid about messing this up too, but TurboTax made it pretty straightforward. And yes, definitely take advantage of those credits - I ended up qualifying for more than I expected which really helped offset the federal taxes owed on the benefits!
I'm going through this exact same situation and this thread has been such a lifesaver! I was on pregnancy disability from July through September 2024, then transitioned to PFL for baby bonding through December. Like so many others here, I had no idea about the tax withholding option when I applied - I was just focused on getting through the application while dealing with morning sickness and then recovery. Reading everyone's experiences has really helped me understand that I need to report my two 1099-G forms separately and that both benefits are federally taxable but CA state exempt. The 12-15% federal tax estimates people are sharing are actually really helpful for planning, even though it's scary to think about owing that much when we're already adjusting our budget for a new baby. I'm planning to use TurboTax based on all the positive feedback here about how it handles EDD benefits correctly. And I'm definitely going to look into those tax credits everyone mentioned - it's encouraging to know that having lower income from leave and a new baby might actually help us qualify for credits that could offset some of the tax liability. Thank you to everyone who shared their experiences! It's so frustrating that EDD doesn't provide any guidance on the tax implications when you're applying, especially when you're already overwhelmed with everything else that comes with having a baby.
I'm so glad this thread has been helpful for you too! I'm actually in almost the exact same boat - was on pregnancy disability earlier in 2024 and then PFL for baby bonding, with no tax withholding because nobody explained that option clearly. It's honestly ridiculous that EDD doesn't provide better guidance about the tax implications when you're already dealing with so much stress. Your plan to use TurboTax sounds solid based on what everyone's shared here. One thing that's given me some peace of mind is knowing that even though we'll owe federal taxes on the benefits, the combination of lower income from leave plus the new baby means we'll likely qualify for credits we wouldn't normally get. It definitely helps offset some of that tax bill! Wishing you smooth filing - sounds like you're well prepared now with all the great advice from this community!
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Hey Malik! Congratulations on your upcoming arrival! π I just went through this exact situation with my husband who's also a 1099 contractor. He successfully got his 8 weeks of PFL for baby bonding last year. Since your husband has been paying into SDI for 2 years, he should definitely qualify! A few things that made our process smoother: **Application timing**: File the claim as soon as possible after your baby is born, but within 41 days of when he starts his first week of leave. Don't wait! **Income documentation**: Have him pull together his last 4-6 quarters of income records now - 1099s, bank statements, invoices. EDD will want to see a clear picture of his earnings pattern. **The "completely offline" rule**: This was the hardest part for my husband! During his PFL weeks, he couldn't do ANY work - no emails, calls, nothing that generates income. We learned this the hard way when EDD questioned some client communication during his first claimed week. **Weekly benefit amount**: It'll be roughly 60-70% of his average weekly wage from his highest-earning quarter in the past 18 months, capped at the state maximum. One last tip: if he's planning to split the 8 weeks, map out those specific dates now and give clients plenty of advance notice. We found 8-10 weeks heads up worked well for maintaining good relationships. Feel free to ask if you have other questions - happy to help a fellow parent navigate this maze! The benefits are absolutely worth the paperwork hassle.
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Kiara Fisherman
β’Thank you so much for the congratulations and all this detailed advice! It's so reassuring to hear from someone who just went through this exact process. The 41-day filing deadline is really important to know - we'll definitely file right away after the baby arrives. I'm glad you mentioned the "completely offline" rule because that's something we hadn't fully grasped. It sounds like EDD really scrutinizes any work activity during claimed weeks, especially for self-employed people. Did your husband end up having to provide additional documentation to prove he wasn't working during his PFL weeks? The 8-10 weeks advance notice for clients sounds like a good timeline. We're thinking of having him send out initial heads-up emails around the new year, and then more specific scheduling details closer to the due date. Thanks again for offering to answer questions - it's so helpful to have guidance from someone who's actually made it through this process successfully!
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Kevin Bell
Hey Malik! Congrats on your upcoming baby! πΌ I went through this same situation as a 1099 contractor last year and wanted to share a few additional tips that really helped us: **Pre-baby checklist**: Start gathering documents NOW - not just tax forms, but also quarterly estimated tax payment records showing your husband's SDI contributions. EDD sometimes wants to see proof he was actually paying in consistently. **Client transition strategy**: Beyond just giving advance notice, consider creating simple handoff documents for each major client - contact info for backup resources, project status summaries, etc. This made my clients feel much more comfortable and actually strengthened relationships. **EDD portal setup**: Have your husband create his EDD online account before the baby arrives. The website can be glitchy when you're sleep-deprived and stressed, so getting familiar with it beforehand is super helpful. **Payment timing**: First payments usually take 2-3 weeks after filing, so budget accordingly. We were glad we planned for that gap financially. Your husband should definitely qualify for the full 8 weeks of PFL since he's been paying in for 2 years. The intermittent approach works great for maintaining client relationships - just make sure each chunk is at least a full week and all documentation is crystal clear about work vs. non-work periods. You're smart to plan ahead! Feel free to ask if you have specific questions about the application process.
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Rebecca Johnston
β’Thank you so much Kevin! This is all incredibly helpful advice. The pre-baby checklist is perfect - we'll definitely start gathering those quarterly tax payment records showing SDI contributions now. I hadn't thought about EDD potentially wanting to verify that he was paying consistently rather than just sporadically. The client transition strategy with handoff documents is such a professional touch. That's a great way to turn what could be a stressful situation for clients into something that actually demonstrates how organized and thoughtful he is about his business relationships. Setting up the EDD portal beforehand is brilliant too - you're absolutely right that trying to figure out a new website while sleep-deprived with a newborn sounds like a recipe for frustration! And thanks for the heads up about the 2-3 week payment timing. We'll make sure to budget for that gap so we're not stressing about finances during what should be bonding time. It sounds like the intermittent approach really is the way to go for maintaining client relationships. Thanks for offering to answer more questions - this community has been so incredibly helpful!
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