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This whole thread has been a lifesaver! I'm dealing with the exact same situation - took 4 weeks of bonding leave when my daughter was born in April, had to go back for a product launch, and now I want to use my remaining 4 weeks before her first birthday. Reading everyone's detailed experiences gives me so much confidence that I can actually make this work. I'm definitely going to call 1-877-238-4373 tomorrow at 8:05 AM with my claim number and all my documents organized. @Victoria Jones @Jacinda Yu @Alejandro Castro thank you all for sharing such specific details about your calls - it's incredibly helpful to know this process actually works! One quick question for anyone who's done this - when you reactivated your claim, did the agent ask for any additional documentation beyond your claim number and basic verification info, or was it pretty straightforward once they had your original claim details? I want to make sure I have absolutely everything ready before I call tomorrow morning!
@Monique Byrd From my experience when I called to reactivate my claim a few months ago, it was pretty straightforward once they had my claim number! The agent just verified my basic info name, (SSN, address and) asked me to confirm details about my original claim like my daughter s'birth date and when I first started my bonding leave. They didn t'ask for any additional documentation during the call itself - having your claim number ready was really the key thing. The whole verification process took maybe 2-3 minutes before they moved on to reactivating and discussing dates. You sound super prepared already! The 8:05 AM timing really does seem to make a difference in getting through quickly. Good luck tomorrow!
This thread has been absolutely incredible - thank you everyone for sharing such detailed experiences! I'm in almost the identical situation: took 6 weeks of PFL bonding leave when my son was born in February, had to return early for a critical project, and now I want to use my remaining 2 weeks before his first birthday. Based on all the success stories here, I'm definitely calling 1-877-238-4373 tomorrow morning at exactly 8:05 AM with my claim number ready. @Victoria Jones @Jacinda Yu @Alejandro Castro your step-by-step experiences have given me so much confidence this will actually work! Quick question - I found my claim number in my EDD account under "Claim History" like @Alejandro Castro mentioned, but I'm seeing both a "Claim Number" and a "Confirmation Number" - which one should I have ready for the call? Also, for anyone who's done this recently, are you finding the 8:05 AM timing is still working well for getting through, or have wait times gotten longer? I really want to make sure I get this sorted out at least 3-4 weeks before I plan to take my remaining time off!
@Miguel Herrera You ll'want to have the Claim "Number ready," not the confirmation number - that s'the main identifier they use to look up your case. I just called last week using the same 8:05 AM strategy and it s'still working great! Got through after about 35 minutes on hold, which seems pretty consistent with what others have reported. The agent was super helpful and had my claim reactivated in under 10 minutes. One tip - when you call, mention right away that you want to reactivate "an existing PFL bonding claim for the same child so" they route you to the right department immediately. Having 3-4 weeks buffer time is smart - my reactivation showed up in my online account within 2 business days. Good luck tomorrow morning!
I'm 21 weeks pregnant and just discovered this amazing thread while searching for help with my own workplace situation! Reading through everyone's stories has been incredibly validating - I thought I was going crazy dealing with my manager's subtle comments about my "changing priorities" and the way they've been gradually shifting my responsibilities to other team members "to reduce my stress." I've been experiencing terrible anxiety, frequent headaches, and my blood pressure readings have been concerning at recent appointments. Like so many of you mentioned, I kept thinking this was just normal pregnancy stress, but seeing all these similar experiences makes me realize this is actual workplace discrimination causing real health complications. What's given me the most hope from this thread is understanding that SDI and PFL are insurance programs we've paid into - not handouts we're asking for. I had no idea that benefits could be based on medical necessity regardless of whether you quit voluntarily. This completely changes how I'm thinking about my options! I'm scheduling an appointment with my OB this week to discuss how workplace stress is manifesting in my physical symptoms and to get proper documentation. Based on everyone's advice, I'm going to be very specific about when these symptoms started and their connection to the discrimination I've been experiencing. Thank you all for sharing your journeys so openly - you've shown me that I don't have to endure months more of this toxicity just because I'm pregnant. This community is proof that we have more power and options than we realize when we support each other with knowledge and solidarity! 💪
@Amina Toure Welcome to this incredible community! Your situation sounds so familiar - the changing "priorities comments" and gradual responsibility shifts are textbook pregnancy discrimination tactics. You re'absolutely not going crazy, and those physical symptoms anxiety, (headaches, elevated BP are) serious medical concerns that deserve attention. I m'relatively new here too, but this thread has been life-changing for understanding our rights and options. What really struck me from everyone s'experiences is how important it is to be very specific with your OB about the timeline - when symptoms started, how they ve'worsened since the workplace discrimination began, and the connection between stress and your physical health. The realization that we ve'EARNED these SDI/PFL benefits through our paycheck contributions has been so empowering for me too. It s'not about asking for help - it s'about claiming insurance we ve'already paid for when we have legitimate medical needs. When you meet with your OB, definitely mention those concerning blood pressure readings and ask them to document everything in your medical records. Several people here have successfully gotten early pregnancy disability when workplace stress was causing documented health complications, which could be an option if your symptoms continue. You re'so right that this community shows we have more power than we realize! It s'amazing how much clarity comes from knowing we re'not alone and that there are real pathways to protect both our health and financial security. Keep us posted on how your appointment goes - we re'all rooting for you! 💕
I'm 26 weeks pregnant and just found this thread - what an incredible resource! I've been dealing with a manager who keeps making "concerned" comments about whether I can handle my workload and has been mysteriously reassigning my major projects to colleagues while giving me mindless data entry tasks. The stress has been causing me to have panic attacks and my doctor noted elevated blood pressure at my last two visits. Reading everyone's experiences has been so eye-opening - I had no idea that workplace pregnancy discrimination was this common or that we had these options through SDI and PFL! I always thought if you quit voluntarily, you lost all benefit eligibility, but learning that medical necessity is what matters for disability benefits changes everything. I'm scheduling an emergency appointment with my OB this week to discuss how the workplace stress is affecting my pregnancy and to get proper medical documentation. Based on all the advice here, I'm going to be very specific about the panic attacks, elevated BP, and sleep issues that started after the discriminatory treatment began. Thank you all for sharing your stories so bravely - this thread has shown me that I don't have to sacrifice my baby's health for a toxic job. It's incredible how this community has transformed what felt like an impossible situation into one where I actually understand my rights and have real options. You've all given me the courage to prioritize what really matters! 🙏
Protip: If you can, try calling right when they open. I got through pretty quick that way. Also, be super nice to the person who answers - they deal with angry people all day and being kind can go a long way!
I went through this exact process about 6 months ago! Here's what worked for me: call first thing in the morning (around 8:05 AM), have your social security number and original claim details ready, and don't hang up even if you get that "high call volume" message. Also, if your situation hasn't changed much from your original claim, mention that upfront - it seemed to speed things up for me. The whole process took about 10 days once I got through to someone. You got this! 💪
This is super helpful, thank you! @Dmitry Popov Quick follow-up question - when you say original "claim details, what" specific info should I have ready? Just want to make sure I m'not missing anything important when I call.
Anyone else feel like we need to start a petition or something to get the government to fix this mess? It's not fair that we have to jump through so many hoops just to get the benefits we're entitled to.
Wow, this whole thread is so relatable! I'm currently on week 4 of trying to get my PFL claim processed and it's been absolutely exhausting. The fact that we have to resort to paying third-party services just to talk to someone at our own state agency is honestly insane. I've been hesitant about using those calling services because I wasn't sure if they were legit, but hearing multiple people confirm they work is really helpful. At this point, $20 seems like a small price to pay for my sanity. Thanks for sharing your experience @Jungleboo - gives me hope that there's actually a light at the end of this tunnel! 🤞
@Anastasia I totally feel you! Week 4 sounds absolutely brutal. I'm just starting my journey with PFL and honestly reading all these experiences has me both terrified and grateful for the heads up. It's wild that in 2024 we're still dealing with systems this broken. Have you tried the early morning calling strategy that @Peyton mentioned? I'm thinking of giving that a shot before considering the paid services. Sending you all the good vibes that your claim gets sorted soon! 💪
Fatima Al-Qasimi
I'm new to this community but wanted to share my experience since I literally just went through this exact situation! I was terminated while on disability for postpartum complications, and I was absolutely panicking about whether I'd still be able to get my baby bonding benefits. The great news is YES - you can absolutely get baby bonding PFL after termination! Your eligibility is based on your work history during the base period (5-18 months before your claim), not your current employment status. I just successfully transitioned from disability to PFL last week without any issues. Here's what worked for me: I filed my DE2508 form online about 2 weeks before my disability was scheduled to end. The most important thing was making sure my doctor put a very specific end date on the final medical certification - EDD needs that clear date to process the transition smoothly. I also made sure to specify that I wanted my PFL to start the day after my disability ended, which prevented any gaps in payments. One tip I learned the hard way - take screenshots of your entire EDD account before starting the transition! Some of my payment history temporarily disappeared during the switch, and having those screenshots saved me when I needed to reference past information. Don't let your employer intimidate you about your benefits. You've paid into this system through your paychecks - these are YOUR earned benefits, regardless of your employment status when you file. I know how scary this feels when you're recovering and caring for a newborn, but the system does work. You're being so smart by planning ahead and asking these questions. Sending you support during this challenging time! 💕
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Arjun Kurti
I'm a new member here and just wanted to say how incredible this community is! Reading through all these responses has been so educational - I had no idea about many of these details regarding PFL eligibility after termination. As someone who might face a similar situation in the future (I'm currently pregnant and work for a small company), I'm taking notes on all the practical tips shared here, especially about timing the DE2508 form submission, getting specific end dates from doctors, and taking screenshots of EDD accounts before transitions. The consistent message that you've EARNED these benefits through your payroll deductions is so important for people to understand. It's awful that employers sometimes try to make employees feel like they're not entitled to benefits they've literally paid for. @Elijah Knight - I hope your transition goes smoothly! It sounds like you have a solid plan now based on all the excellent advice here. Wishing you and your little one all the best during this challenging time. You've got this! 💪
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