FAFSA filed through me but ex claims daughter on taxes - do scholarships affect my tax filing?
So confused about this tax/FAFSA situation with my daughter! My ex-husband claims our daughter (19, sophomore) as a dependent on his taxes because our divorce agreement says he gets to claim her in even years. But I'm the one who filled out her FAFSA as the custodial parent since she lives with me most of the year. She got about $8,400 in scholarships and $3,200 in Pell Grants this year. Do I need to report any of this on MY taxes? I don't want to mess up her financial aid for next year or get in trouble with the IRS. My ex says I don't need to do anything since he claims her, but I'm the one who signed all the FAFSA paperwork! Help!!
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A Man D Mortal
This is a common situation for divorced parents. The good news is that scholarships and grants generally don't need to be reported on YOUR tax return, regardless of who claims your daughter as a dependent. Scholarships used for qualified education expenses (tuition, fees, books) are tax-free. Only if scholarships exceed qualified expenses would they potentially be taxable income - and that would be on your DAUGHTER'S tax return, not yours or your ex's. The FAFSA and taxes are separate systems that unfortunately don't always align well for divorced families. As the custodial parent for FAFSA purposes, you were correct to complete the FAFSA, even though your ex claims her on taxes.
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Zadie Patel
AuthorThank you so much! That's a relief. So just to be 100% clear - even though I'm the parent on the FAFSA, I don't need to report her scholarships or grants on my taxes at all? And it sounds like my daughter might need to report some of it on hers if the scholarship amount exceeds her tuition costs?
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Declan Ramirez
when my son got scholarhips we didnt put anything on our taxes at all, the school sends the 1098-T form to the STUDENT not the parents anyway
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Zadie Patel
AuthorOh that's good to know about the 1098-T! I'll ask my daughter if she received that form from her school.
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Emma Morales
I've been through this exact situation with my daughter. Here's what you need to know: 1. Scholarships and grants that exceed qualified educational expenses (tuition, fees, required books) are considered taxable income TO YOUR DAUGHTER, not to either parent 2. Your daughter will receive a 1098-T from her college showing the scholarship/grant amounts and qualified expenses 3. Your role as the FAFSA parent has no impact on tax reporting requirements 4. Your ex claiming her as a dependent doesn't change these rules either The most important thing is making sure your daughter reports any taxable portion of scholarships on HER return. The financial aid office at her school can help explain which portions might be taxable (usually room and board covered by scholarships).
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Zadie Patel
AuthorThis is super helpful, thank you! I'll definitely make sure she understands what she needs to report. The scholarship was mostly for tuition but I think a small portion went to her meal plan.
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Katherine Hunter
When I got my pell grant in college my dad claimed me on taxes and Nothing happened, your fine
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Lucas Parker
The whole system is SO FRUSTRATING!!! I went through this with both my kids and spent HOURS on the phone with the IRS and FSA trying to get straight answers. Every time I called I got different information from different agents. The left hand doesn't know what the right is doing!!! Finally got through to someone who actually knew what they were talking about and they confirmed what others said - scholarships only matter for your DAUGHTER'S taxes, not yours. But honestly the most helpful thing I did was pay for an hour with an accountant who specializes in college financial aid. Worth every penny!!
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Declan Ramirez
omg yes!! called FSA 3 times got 3 different answers!! so annoying
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Donna Cline
I had the same issue calling the FSA for a similar situation with my stepson. Spent over 2 hours on hold and then got disconnected twice. Finally used Claimyr (claimyr.com) to get through to an agent in about 15 minutes. They have a good video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/TbC8dZQWYNQ The agent confirmed that you don't need to report your daughter's scholarships on your taxes at all. The only reporting required is if scholarships exceed qualified education expenses, and that would be on your daughter's return. Hope this helps!
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Zadie Patel
AuthorThanks for the tip! I'll check out that service if I need to call FSA in the future. Those hold times are brutal!
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Katherine Hunter
Saw someone else recommend this too does it actually work?? hate waiting on hold forever
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Harper Collins
your ex is right u dont need to do anything. my daughter got scholerships and we never reported it anywhere, its not income for u
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Emma Morales
One additional thing to consider - make sure you and your ex are handling this consistently each tax year. If you're listed as the custodial parent on the FAFSA, that should align with where your daughter physically lives most of the year. The IRS and FAFSA have different rules, but you want to be consistent in how you represent the living situation. Also, the FAFSA is changing for 2025-2026 with the FAFSA Simplification Act, and some of the rules regarding divorced parents are changing as well. You'll want to review the new requirements when you complete the application next year.
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Zadie Patel
AuthorThank you! I didn't even know about the changes coming. I'll definitely look into that for next year. She does live with me most of the time (over 280 days/year) so I'm definitely the custodial parent, but our divorce agreement lets him claim her on taxes in even years and me in odd years.
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Declan Ramirez
this happened with my niece and my sister (her mom) ended up getting audited because the dad claimed her but mom did the fafsa and they had different income reported. just saying be careful and keep good records!!!
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Zadie Patel
AuthorOh no, that sounds stressful! I'll definitely keep good records of everything. Did your sister have to pay any penalties?
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Declan Ramirez
no she was fine because she had all the paperwork but it was a huge headache for months
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A Man D Mortal
Just to close the loop on this thread - the consensus advice is correct. As others have mentioned: 1. Scholarships and grants generally don't affect YOUR tax return 2. Your daughter may need to report scholarship amounts that exceed qualified educational expenses on HER return 3. Your status as the FAFSA parent is separate from tax dependency 4. Your daughter should have received a 1098-T form from her school The key is making sure your daughter understands her potential tax obligations. Most students don't end up owing taxes even on the taxable portion of scholarships because their total income falls below the standard deduction, but it's still important to file correctly.
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Zadie Patel
AuthorThank you all so much! This has been incredibly helpful. I feel much more confident about how to handle this situation now. I'll help my daughter sort through her 1098-T and make sure she reports everything correctly on her return.
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Ravi Gupta
Just wanted to add my experience as someone who went through this exact same situation! My ex claimed our son on taxes but I was the custodial parent for FAFSA. The key thing I learned is that the IRS and Department of Education operate completely independently - they don't cross-reference who filed what. What really helped me was creating a simple spreadsheet to track everything: scholarship amounts, what they covered (tuition vs room/board), and copies of all the 1098-T forms. This way if there are ever any questions down the road, you have everything documented. Also worth noting - if your daughter ends up with a summer job or internship income on top of any taxable scholarship money, she might hit the filing threshold even if the scholarships alone wouldn't require it. Just something to keep in mind for future planning!
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