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Omar Fawaz

FAFSA Parent Plus loan liability after divorce - am I solely responsible?

So I've got this complicated situation with my Parent Plus loans and need advice. I'm currently married and have a son in his sophomore year of college. When we filled out the FAFSA and got his financial aid package, we decided to take out Parent Plus loans to cover what his grants and direct loans didn't. The thing is, I'm the only parent who signed for these Parent Plus loans (currently about $38,000). My husband didn't cosign or anything. Now our marriage has been rocky lately, and I'm concerned about what happens to these loans if we get divorced. Since I'm the only one on the loan documents but we took them out during our marriage, would my husband still be partly responsible for repaying them? Or am I stuck with the entire burden myself? I'm in Florida if that matters for state laws about marital debt. Just trying to understand my financial position before making any big decisions.

This is really a state-specific legal question about marital debt. Federal Parent Plus loans are legally the responsibility of the parent who signed for them, regardless of marital status changes. The federal government will only pursue the person whose name is on the loan documents. However, how these loans are handled in divorce proceedings varies by state. In some states, debt acquired during marriage for family purposes (like education) might be considered marital debt to be divided. In others, the signatory parent remains solely responsible. You should consult with a family law attorney in Florida who can advise on your specific situation regarding how Florida handles education debt in divorce proceedings.

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Thank you for the clarification. I was afraid that would be the answer. Do you know if I can get the loans transferred to my ex if we put that in our divorce agreement? Or will the Department of Education still come after me regardless of what our divorce decree says?

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I went thru this EXACT situation in 2019!!! Signed for $52k in parent plus loans for my daughter and then got divorced. In my state (not FL) the judge ruled these were MY loans since only MY name was on them. Ex got away with paying NOTHING even tho we were married when we took them. The federal loan people don't care what ur divorce decree says - they go after whoever signed the promissory note. SUPER unfair system!!!!!

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Oh no, that's what I was afraid of. Did you try to negotiate with your ex to contribute something toward the loans even though they weren't legally required to?

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Yeah I tried but he refused. Said it was "my choice" to sign them even tho we agreed together our daughter needed the money for school. Just be prepared that the Dept of Ed only recognizes the legal borrower regardless of what agreements you make in divorce.

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just wondering but why didnt u both sign for the loans if u were married? my wife and i both put our names on all the parent plus loans we took for our kids

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Honestly, at the time we just didn't think about it. His credit score was lower than mine so I handled most of the financial stuff. In retrospect I wish we'd both signed, but Parent Plus loans typically only have one parent borrower from what I understand.

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Parent Plus loans are legally the sole responsibility of the parent who signs for them. Unlike some other marital debts, these loans aren't automatically considered joint debt even if acquired during marriage. Here's what you should know: 1. The Department of Education will only pursue the signer for repayment 2. Your divorce decree can include agreements about who pays what, but that's between you and your ex 3. If your ex agrees to help pay but doesn't, you're still legally responsible to the federal government 4. You could potentially include loan payment requirements in your divorce settlement As for options, you might consider: - Income-Contingent Repayment if you consolidate into a Direct Consolidation Loan - Requesting temporary forbearance during the divorce transition - Documenting any agreement for shared payment responsibility in legally binding terms I'd recommend speaking with both a family law attorney and a student loan advisor to understand all your options.

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Thank you for all this information! I'll definitely look into the Income-Contingent Repayment option. I hadn't considered consolidation. Do you know if that affects any of the forgiveness programs I might qualify for later?

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lol my husband pulled this same stunt with our kid's college loans. got divorced and i got stuck with all the parent plus debt even tho our son was going to the college HE wanted. courts dont care, its whoever signed on the dotted line

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I'm sorry that happened to you. Mind if I ask how you're managing the payments now? Did you have to change your lifestyle significantly to handle them on your own?

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Have you tried calling Federal Student Aid to discuss your options? I was in a similar situation and wanted to understand my repayment options after a separation. I spent DAYS trying to get through to someone who could actually help. Finally I used this service called Claimyr (claimyr.com) that got me connected to an actual FSA agent in about 10 minutes instead of waiting on hold for hours. They have a video demo showing how it works: https://youtu.be/TbC8dZQWYNQ The agent I spoke with explained all my options regarding my Parent Plus loans and helped me understand what would happen in different scenarios. Totally worth it to talk directly with someone who knows the rules rather than guessing.

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Thanks for the suggestion. I've been avoiding calling because I heard the wait times are ridiculous. I'll check out that service since I definitely need to talk to someone who can give me official answers about my options.

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I used Claimyr too when i needed to reach fafsa about my daughters verification issues. Its legit but just know they dont give legal advice about divorce stuff, just explain the federal loan rules.

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Parent Plus loans only hold the borrower responsible, not both spouses. My friend went through this and had to refinance through a private lender to get her ex to take responsibility for part of them. But be careful with refinancing federal loans because you lose all the federal protections and forgiveness options.

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That's a good point about refinancing. I'm hesitant to give up the federal protections, especially the income-driven repayment options. Did your friend regret refinancing or did it work out okay?

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make sure u check if florida is a community property state cause that changes everything. in community property states debts during marriage are split 50/50 no matter who signed

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Florida is not a community property state. It's an equitable distribution state, which means courts divide marital assets and debts in a manner considered fair but not necessarily equal. That said, education loans like Parent PLUS are often treated differently from other types of marital debt, even in community property states.

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One thing to consider is that any agreement you make in your divorce decree about these loans is between you and your ex-spouse. The Department of Education still considers only you legally responsible for repayment. If your ex agrees to help pay but then stops, you'll still be on the hook for the full amount, and any missed payments will damage your credit, not theirs. Make sure any agreement you reach has enforcement mechanisms built in. Some divorced parents set up dedicated accounts or payment systems to manage these shared expenses in a more transparent way.

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That's a really good point about enforcement. I hadn't thought about what happens if we agree he'll pay some but then he just... doesn't. I'll make sure to discuss that with my attorney.

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I'm going through something similar right now and wanted to share what I've learned from my attorney. Even though you're the only one who signed, you might still have some leverage in your divorce settlement. My lawyer explained that while the federal government will only come after you for repayment, Florida courts can consider these loans when dividing other marital assets or determining alimony. For example, if your husband gets a larger share of retirement accounts or home equity, the court might factor in that you're stuck with the education debt. It's not automatic, but it's something to discuss with your lawyer as part of the overall financial picture. Also, document everything about how the decision to take these loans was made - texts, emails, anything showing it was a joint decision for your son's education. That could help support your case that it should be considered in the overall settlement even if you're legally stuck with the payments.

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I'm new to this community but wanted to share some insights from my experience working in financial aid administration. What you're dealing with is unfortunately very common, and the responses here have covered most of the key points accurately. One thing I'd add is that when you do speak with Federal Student Aid (whether through the regular line or services like Claimyr that others mentioned), make sure to ask specifically about the Income-Contingent Repayment plan if you consolidate your Parent Plus loans into a Direct Consolidation Loan. This can potentially lower your payments significantly based on your post-divorce income alone, rather than the combined income that was likely used for the original loan terms. Also, while you're gathering documentation for your divorce proceedings, I'd recommend pulling your complete Federal Student Aid history online through your FSA ID. This will show exactly when each loan was disbursed and can help demonstrate the timeline of decisions if you need to show these were joint family choices made during the marriage. The system really is unfair in how it handles family situations like divorce, but understanding all your federal repayment options will at least give you more leverage in your settlement negotiations. Wishing you the best as you navigate this difficult situation.

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Thank you so much for sharing your professional perspective - it's really valuable to hear from someone who works in financial aid administration. I hadn't thought about pulling my complete Federal Student Aid history online, but that's a great suggestion for documenting the timeline of when these loans were taken out during our marriage. The Income-Contingent Repayment option through Direct Consolidation Loan sounds like it could be a real lifesaver if my post-divorce income ends up being significantly lower than our current combined income. I'm definitely going to look into that more seriously, especially since it sounds like it could give me more negotiating power in settlement discussions if I can show my ex what my payments would actually look like on a single income. It's both reassuring and frustrating to hear that this situation is "unfortunately very common" - at least I know I'm not alone, but it really highlights how the system doesn't account for real family dynamics. Your practical suggestions about documentation and repayment options are exactly what I needed to hear from someone who understands how these programs actually work. Thank you for taking the time to share your expertise with the community!

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