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Can my ex take out Parent PLUS loans if I already completed the FAFSA as the supporting parent?

I'm so confused about what my ex is trying to pull here. I've been financially supporting our son through college (paying bills, housing, etc.) for the past year, so I completed the 2026-27 FAFSA with my information since I'm the supporting parent. Now my ex is suddenly saying he wants to "help" by taking out Parent PLUS loans for our son. Can he even do this if he's not listed on the FAFSA I submitted? I thought only the parent who completes the FAFSA can apply for Parent PLUS loans. We've been divorced for 6 years and he's barely contributed financially. Is he just trying to look good or can he actually do this? Anyone know how this works with divorced parents?

Yes, your ex can technically take out Parent PLUS loans even if he wasn't the parent who completed the FAFSA. The Parent PLUS loan application is separate from the FAFSA. Any biological or adoptive parent can apply for a Parent PLUS loan as long as they meet the eligibility requirements (U.S. citizen/eligible non-citizen, no default on federal loans, pass credit check, etc.). The student must have a FAFSA on file, but either parent can apply for the PLUS loan regardless of which parent completed the FAFSA or which parent the student lives with.

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Seriously? I had no idea! So even though I'm the one who filled out all the forms and provided all my financial info, he can just swoop in and take loans? Will this affect the aid package my son already received based on MY income?

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happened 2 me 2... my ex did this and then tried to make our kid feel guilty about it later. be careful, there might be strings attached. does ur son know about this?

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Oh wow, I didn't even think about that angle. My son doesn't know yet - his dad just texted me about it yesterday. Did your ex actually follow through with the loans or just talk about it?

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This is a common situation with divorced parents. Here's what you need to know: 1. Parent PLUS loans are completely separate from the FAFSA 2. Either biological/adoptive parent can apply for them regardless of who filled out the FAFSA 3. The loans will be in your ex's name only - he's fully responsible for repayment 4. It won't affect your son's aid package that was based on your income 5. Your ex will need to pass a credit check to qualify One thing to consider - make sure your ex understands these are loans in HIS name, not your son's. Some parents mistakenly think these are student loans the child will repay.

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Thank you for breaking this down! I'm still confused about one thing - since FAFSA determines the Cost of Attendance, is there a limit to how much he can borrow? And will he need any information from me since I'm the one who filed the FAFSA?

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Great questions. Your ex can borrow up to the full Cost of Attendance minus any other financial aid received. He won't need information from you directly, but he will need your son's information: - Student's name, SSN, DOB - Student's school code - Information about the academic period for the loan He'll apply directly at studentaid.gov with his own FSA ID. The school financial aid office will verify your son's enrollment and aid package before approving the loan amount.

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my brother did this and didn't realize PLUS loans have higher interest rates than direct student loans!! make sure your ex knows the interest rate is like 8% now!!!

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BE CAREFUL WITH THIS!! I went through EXACTLY this situation with my ex 2 years ago. Here's what happened - he took out the Parent PLUS loans to "help" but then ended up trying to control my daughter's education choices because "he was paying for it." Started demanding she switch majors from art to business and threatening to not take future loans if she didn't comply. It was a NIGHTMARE of manipulation. Make sure you and your son have a VERY clear written agreement with your ex about these loans and his expectations before he takes them out. Don't trust sudden generosity without understanding the motivation!

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This is exactly what I'm worried about. My ex has a history of using money to control situations. I think I need to have a serious conversation with my son about this possibility before my ex takes any action.

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When I was trying to sort out my son's aid package, I spent DAYS trying to reach someone at Federal Student Aid to get clear answers about Parent PLUS loans in divorce situations. The wait times were ridiculous, and I kept getting disconnected. I finally used Claimyr (claimyr.com) to get through to a real person at FSA who could explain all the rules. They have this video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/TbC8dZQWYNQ Totally worth it because the agent I spoke with gave me specific documentation about Parent PLUS loans with divorced parents that I couldn't find anywhere online. Apparently there are some nuances about how the loans interact with child support obligations that can vary by state.

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That's really helpful, thanks! I've been trying to call FSA too but kept hitting dead ends. I'll check out that service because I definitely want to understand all the legal implications before my ex gets involved.

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im confused... isnt parent plus just for parents who file fafsa? my mom took one out but my dad couldnt cuz he wasnt on my fafsa i think?? anyone else have this happen

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That's a common misconception. The only FAFSA requirement for Parent PLUS loans is that the student must have a FAFSA on file. Either biological/adoptive parent can apply for the Parent PLUS loan regardless of which parent completed the FAFSA. Your dad may have been denied for other reasons (credit issues, reaching borrowing limits, etc.) rather than not being on your FAFSA.

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Another thing to consider - if your ex takes out these loans, it could potentially impact your son's future financial aid. Not because it changes your income calculation, but because the financial aid office might see additional PLUS loan support and factor that into their professional judgment reviews in future years. Some schools look at the "family contribution" holistically, even from divorced parents. Also, WATCH OUT for the SAI calculation next year! If your ex is suddenly acting financially supportive, he might try to claim your son on his taxes, which could completely change your SAI score for future FAFSA applications.

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We have a court agreement that clearly states I claim our son on taxes, so at least that part is covered. But I hadn't thought about how this might impact future aid calculations. Our son has two more years after this one.

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To clarify a point above - Parent PLUS loans themselves won't impact future aid eligibility through the FAFSA formula. The SAI calculation doesn't consider loans from previous years, only current income and assets. However, some private scholarships and institutional aid may take a more holistic view. The most important thing is to understand that Parent PLUS loans are serious financial obligations. Your ex will be legally responsible for repaying the full amount, and these loans have fewer repayment options than student loans. They also can't be discharged in bankruptcy except in extreme circumstances.

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Thank you for this clarification. I guess what I really need to understand is what his motivation might be. We don't have the best co-parenting relationship, and suddenly offering to take on debt for a child he's barely supported financially seems suspicious to me.

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trust ur gut!! my ex did this to look good to his new girlfriend who had college kids... wanted to seem like supportive dad of the year when he hadnt paid full child support in YEARS!!

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You know what, that actually makes a lot of sense. My ex just started dating someone new who has a college-aged daughter. The timing suddenly seems suspicious.

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Document EVERYTHING before he takes any action! I learned this the hard way with my ex. Get any promises or agreements about the loans in writing - what he expects from your son, what happens if he can't pay, etc. Also consider having your son speak directly with the financial aid office at his school. They can explain how having two parents take different types of loans might work and what protections are in place for students. Some schools have specific policies about divorced parents and financial aid that could be helpful. Your instincts about this being suspicious are probably right - protect yourself and your son!

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