How does my ex's 529 affect FAFSA when I'm the primary contributor for my kids?
Just found out my son's financial aid package is showing $3900 in grants and $5500 in direct loans. I'm wondering how his dad's 529 plan factors into this. We've been divorced for 6 years and I'm the one who claimed our son on taxes and filled out the FAFSA since I contribute about 70% of his support. His dad has barely contributed since the divorce but somehow has this 529 with around $12K in it that he set up years ago. Does the FAFSA even know about this account? Would reporting it have changed his aid package? I'm hesitant to ask my ex for details since communication isn't great between us. Anyone dealt with 529s from non-custodial parents in FAFSA calculations?
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Connor Rupert
the 529 only matters on fafsa if its in the students name or the parent who filled out the form. if its in ur ex's name and hes not on the fafsa then it doesnt count. my ex has one for our daughter but it didnt effect anything
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Sophie Footman
•Thank you for that clarification! That's a relief. I was worried we'd lose the grant if they found out about it.
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Molly Hansen
The previous commenter is correct. For the 2024-2025 FAFSA and beyond, only the 529 accounts owned by the student or the parent who completes the FAFSA are considered in the SAI (Student Aid Index) calculation. Your ex-spouse's 529 plan is not reported on your FAFSA if you're the parent completing the form. However, there are a few things to note: 1. If your son withdraws money from that 529 for educational expenses, that withdrawal could be considered untaxed income to the student in future FAFSA applications 2. If your divorce decree specifies anything about the 529 usage, that's a separate legal matter 3. For schools that require the CSS Profile (mainly private colleges), they might ask about non-custodial parent assets including 529 plans
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Sophie Footman
•This is incredibly helpful, thank you! We're at a state university so no CSS Profile required. The divorce decree doesn't mention the 529 specifically - it was set up before our separation. So it sounds like we're in the clear. Would it be better for my son to use that 529 money first before taking out loans then?
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Molly Hansen
Yes, it's generally advisable to use 529 funds before taking on loans. Since the 529 is specifically designed for education expenses and the money grows tax-free when used for qualified expenses, it makes financial sense to utilize these funds first. Using the 529 funds before loans would reduce the amount of debt your son needs to take on. The $5,500 in Direct Loans will accrue interest (though subsidized portions won't accrue interest while he's in school). If possible, use the 529 to cover expenses and reduce how much of that loan he needs to accept.
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Brady Clean
•This is a really good advice but it assumes the ex is willing to use the 529 now. Some parents hold those funds for later years of college or make things difficult. Been there with my ex who wouldn't release 529 funds until junior year even though we needed them sooner!
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Sophie Footman
That's exactly what I'm worried about. My ex isn't the most cooperative and might want to control when and how the money is used. Any suggestions for approaching this conversation with him?
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Skylar Neal
•Document everything!!! I went through this with my ex who had a 529 for our daughter. Suggest setting up a meeting or call specifically about college funding - don't bring up past issues. Present it as working together for your son's benefit. If he's difficult, remind him that 529 penalties apply if not used for education and the purpose is to help your son avoid debt. If communication is impossible, consider asking a neutral third party (mediator, college financial aid advisor) to join the conversation.
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Vincent Bimbach
I worked in financial aid for 10 years and see this situation frequently. Here's what you should know about managing your son's financial aid with your ex's 529 plan: 1. As others mentioned, the 529 owned by your ex doesn't impact your FAFSA results since you're the filing parent 2. The $3900 grant is likely a Pell Grant based on your income information 3. The $5500 loan is the standard first-year Direct Loan amount ($3500 subsidized + $2000 unsubsidized typically) 4. For using the 529 funds: your ex will need to request distributions directly to the school or reimburse qualified expenses with documentation 5. If your ex is difficult about releasing funds, focus on the tax advantages of using the 529 properly versus potential penalties for non-qualified withdrawals Your son's financial aid package sounds standard for someone in your income range. The fact that you received Pell Grant eligibility is good news.
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Sophie Footman
•Thank you for this detailed breakdown! Yes, the grant is indeed a Pell Grant. I hadn't considered having my ex send the 529 funds directly to the school - that's brilliant and would bypass potential conflicts between us. I'll suggest that approach.
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Kelsey Chin
Hey, just wanted to share that I was in your exact situation last year with my daughter's FAFSA and my ex's 529. I spent HOURS trying to get answers from the financial aid office at her college, kept getting disconnected, put on hold forever, or getting different answers from different people. Super frustrating!!! I eventually found this service called Claimyr (claimyr.com) that got me through to a Federal Student Aid agent in about 10 minutes instead of the 2+ hours I was waiting before. They have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/TbC8dZQWYNQ The FSA agent confirmed everything that people are saying here - ex's 529 doesn't affect FAFSA if you're the filing parent. Such a relief to hear it officially! Might be worth calling to get it confirmed for your specific situation.
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Sophie Footman
•Oh wow, thank you for this tip! I tried calling the financial aid office yesterday and gave up after being on hold for 45 minutes. I'll check out that service. It would definitely give me peace of mind to hear the official answer directly from FSA.
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Norah Quay
urrrr everyone is being so nice but tbh ur ex sounds like a jerk lol. hasn't helped financially but has a college fund?? make him use that 529 BEFORE any loans!!! those loans will be in ur sons name not urs!! why should ur kid be in debt when theres money sitting there?? stand ur ground!!
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Sophie Footman
•I appreciate the support! It is frustrating, but I'm trying to keep things focused on what's best for our son right now. You're right though - no reason for him to take loans if there's money available.
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Connor Rupert
wait i just remembered something important. when the 529 money gets used it can effect next years fafsa as student income so maybe talk to financial aid office before using it all at once
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Molly Hansen
•That's a good point about timing. For clarification: qualified distributions from a 529 plan used for educational expenses are NOT counted as income on the FAFSA. However, if the distribution exceeds qualified expenses, the earnings portion of that excess would be considered taxable income and could impact future aid eligibility. It's always wise to coordinate with the financial aid office on the timing and reporting of 529 distributions.
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Sophie Footman
Update: I finally talked to my ex about the 529. He agreed to withdraw $5000 this year to cover some expenses so our son won't need the full loan amount. The conversation wasn't pleasant, but we got a result. Thanks everyone for your advice - it really helped me approach this more confidently with the right information!
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Skylar Neal
•That's a great outcome! Glad you were able to get some of the funds released. $5000 less in loans will make a big difference over time with interest.
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Mateo Hernandez
Congratulations on getting that resolved! That's a significant win - $5000 less in debt will save your son quite a bit in interest over the repayment period. It sounds like having the right information really made a difference in how you approached the conversation. Even when co-parenting communication is challenging, focusing on the concrete benefits for your child can help cut through the personal stuff. Hope the rest of the college funding goes smoothly!
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LunarLegend
•That's fantastic news! You really handled a difficult situation well. It's great to see that focusing on your son's financial future helped bridge the communication gap, even temporarily. $5000 less in loans is huge - that could save hundreds or even over a thousand dollars in interest depending on the repayment timeline. You should feel proud that you advocated effectively for your son despite the challenging co-parenting dynamics. Wishing you all the best as you navigate the rest of his college journey!
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Yuki Yamamoto
Wow, what a journey you've been on with this! Reading through your whole experience really shows how confusing financial aid can be, especially when dealing with divorced parents and 529 plans. It's so encouraging to see that you got a positive outcome - $5000 less in loans is absolutely huge for your son's financial future. Your story is really valuable for other parents in similar situations. The key takeaways seem to be: 1) the non-custodial parent's 529 doesn't affect FAFSA calculations, 2) it's worth having those difficult conversations because the financial benefit is real, and 3) approaching it from the perspective of what's best for the child can help cut through personal conflicts. Thanks for sharing the update and congrats on advocating so well for your son!
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Omar Fawaz
•This whole thread has been so educational! As someone new to navigating FAFSA and college funding, it's really helpful to see a real situation play out with expert advice and a positive resolution. The clarification about non-custodial parent 529s not affecting FAFSA was especially valuable - I had no idea about that rule. Sophie, you did an amazing job advocating for your son despite the challenging communication with your ex. Stories like this give me hope that even complicated financial aid situations can work out with the right information and persistence!
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Jade Santiago
This is such an inspiring thread to read as someone who's just starting to navigate the FAFSA process with my own teenager! Sophie, your persistence really paid off - getting $5000 off your son's loan burden is incredible. I'm taking notes on all the expert advice here, especially about how 529 plans work with divorced parents. The tip about having the non-custodial parent send funds directly to the school is brilliant - removes so much potential conflict. Thanks to everyone who contributed their knowledge here, this is exactly the kind of real-world guidance that makes all the difference when you're trying to figure out college financing!
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