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StarSurfer

FAFSA loan default consequences for parents - are they responsible for student debt?

I'm helping my daughter with FAFSA for next year, but I'm honestly worried about what happens if she can't repay her loans after graduation. Since they're using our household income to determine her aid package, does that mean I'm on the hook if she defaults? We're providing all our tax info but NOT planning to take out Parent PLUS loans. Just want to understand where my financial responsibility ends and hers begins with these federal loans. Her program is expensive and I'm nervous about the total debt she'll graduate with.

Ravi Malhotra

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Great question. For standard federal student loans through FAFSA (Direct Subsidized and Unsubsidized Loans), parents are NOT legally responsible if their child defaults - even though your income was used to calculate her aid eligibility. Those loans are solely in your daughter's name. The only federal loans that would make you responsible are Parent PLUS loans, which you've already said you're not taking. As long as you don't co-sign any private student loans, you have no legal obligation for her student debt.

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StarSurfer

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Thank you so much for clarifying! That's a huge relief. I was really concerned about this since we're contributing our information but can't afford to take on additional debt of our own.

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my nieghbor thought the same thing and didnt sign anything but the FASFA form and she was fine when her son stopped paying. they cant get blood from a stone lol

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Omar Hassan

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That's not entirely accurate. While the parent isn't responsible for the student's federal loans, defaulting has serious consequences for the STUDENT including wage garnishment, tax refund offsets, and destroyed credit. So while parents aren't liable, students definitely face severe consequences if they default.

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It's important to understand exactly which loans your daughter will be taking. If she's getting subsidized/unsubsidized federal loans, those are 100% her responsibility. Your income is only used to calculate ELIGIBILITY, not to determine repayment responsibility. However, I strongly recommend sitting down with your daughter and creating a post-graduation budget BEFORE she takes on loans. Calculate her likely starting salary in her chosen field and determine if she can afford monthly payments. Many students don't realize how much $30,000+ in loans actually impacts their monthly budget after graduation.

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StarSurfer

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We've started those conversations, but it's hard to predict what her job prospects will be in 4 years. Is there a rule of thumb for how much student loan debt is reasonable based on expected starting salary?

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A good rule of thumb is that total student loan debt shouldn't exceed your expected first-year salary. So if she's entering a field with $45,000 starting salaries, try to keep total loans under $45,000. Monthly payments on that would be around $450-500 on a standard 10-year repayment plan - manageable but significant on that salary.

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Diego Chavez

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I was in the EXACT same situation with my son last year!! I was terrified they'd come after me since they had all my tax info. I called FSA repeatedly and kept getting disconnected or waiting HOURS. Finally used Claimyr (claimyr.com) to get through to an actual human at FSA who confirmed parents aren't responsible for their child's federal loans unless they're Parent PLUS loans. You can see how it works here: https://youtu.be/TbC8dZQWYNQ - saved me so much stress! They connected me within minutes after I'd spent days trying to get through.

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StarSurfer

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I didn't even think about calling FSA directly to confirm. Did they give you any other helpful information about parent responsibilities when you finally got through?

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Diego Chavez

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Yes! The agent explained that even though your income determines her aid eligibility, the legal obligation stays with her. They also mentioned income-driven repayment plans that could help if she struggles after graduation. Definitely worth calling to get the full details for your specific situation.

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NeonNebula

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THIS IS WHY THE SYSTEM IS BROKEN!!! They use parent income to calculate aid but then leave the student with ALL the debt! How does that make sense?? My kids qualified for almost NOTHING because of our income, but we couldn't actually afford to pay for their college!! Now my daughter has $67,000 in private loans because FAFSA said we make "too much" 🤬

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True! The expected family contribution is such a joke. They act like parents have thousands just sitting around for college. My EFC was $14,000/year when I was applying and my parents laughed because they couldn't contribute anything close to that amount.

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Omar Hassan

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Financial aid counselor here. To clarify some points: 1. Federal student loans (Direct Sub/Unsub) are solely the student's responsibility 2. Parent PLUS loans are solely the parent's responsibility 3. Private loans depend on who signed (co-signers are equally responsible) Your income information determines her ELIGIBILITY for need-based aid like grants and subsidized loans, but doesn't create any legal obligation for her debt. That said, I recommend discussing repayment expectations clearly before she borrows. Some families have agreements about who will handle which portions of educational costs.

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StarSurfer

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Thank you for the clear breakdown! One follow-up question: if she gets subsidized loans because our income qualified her, but then defaults, there's still no way they can come after us as parents, correct?

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Omar Hassan

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Correct. Subsidized loans are still 100% her legal responsibility regardless of how she qualified for them. The government is just subsidizing the interest while she's in school as a benefit, but the loan contract is solely between her and the federal government.

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just make sure u dont cosign ANYTHING and ull be fine

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I defaulted on mine for like 8 months after graduation (couldn't find a job) and they just kept calling me and sending letters. Eventually I got on an income-based plan where I paid $0/month until I found work. They never contacted my parents even though their info was on my FAFSA. Just my experience though, not legal advice lol

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StarSurfer

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That's somewhat reassuring. I hope she doesn't end up in that situation, but it's good to know there are options if job hunting takes longer than expected.

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One other thing to consider - while you're not legally responsible for her federal loans, some parents do feel morally obligated to help if their child struggles. It's worth discussing expectations upfront. Will you help if she has trouble? Set clear boundaries now to avoid family conflict later. Also, make sure she understands the full terms of any loans before accepting them. Many students click through their financial aid packages without really understanding what they're agreeing to.

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StarSurfer

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That's excellent advice. We need to have that conversation explicitly. I want to help her succeed, but we also need to be realistic about our own retirement savings and financial limitations.

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Oliver Brown

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As a parent who went through this exact worry last year, I can confirm what others have said - you're NOT responsible for her federal student loans even though your income determines her aid eligibility. The key is making sure she only takes federal loans (Direct Sub/Unsub) and avoiding private loans or Parent PLUS loans. What really helped us was creating a spreadsheet with her likely debt totals and estimated monthly payments based on different career paths. We also looked up actual salary data for her major on sites like PayScale and Glassdoor. This gave us both a reality check on what debt level was manageable. One tip: have her apply for scholarships throughout college, not just as a senior in high school. Even small $500-1000 scholarships add up and reduce her loan needs. The time she spends applying is basically "earning" money at a very high hourly rate!

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Natalie Wang

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This is really helpful! I love the spreadsheet idea - we should definitely map out different scenarios. Do you have any recommendations for reliable salary data sources beyond PayScale and Glassdoor? I want to make sure we're using realistic numbers for her field (she's planning to major in social work). Also, any specific scholarship search engines that worked well for your family?

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As someone who works in financial aid, I want to emphasize something important that hasn't been fully addressed: while you're not legally responsible for her federal student loans, there are still ways defaults can indirectly affect families. For instance, if she defaults and her wages get garnished or her credit is destroyed, she might need to move back home or require financial support from family during the recovery process. That said, federal loans have much better protections than private loans. If she struggles after graduation, she can apply for income-driven repayment plans, forbearance, or deferment. These options can prevent default in the first place. I always tell parents to focus on helping their students understand these safety nets rather than worrying about legal liability. Also, consider having her take the minimum federal loan amounts each year and supplementing with work-study, part-time jobs, or family contributions if possible. Starting with less debt gives her more flexibility after graduation.

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This is such a thoughtful perspective! You're absolutely right that even without legal liability, defaults can still impact families practically. I hadn't considered the potential for her needing to move back home or require support if her credit gets destroyed. That's definitely something we should factor into our planning. The point about focusing on the safety nets rather than just worrying about liability is really helpful - I should make sure she understands all those repayment options before she even starts borrowing. Thank you for this broader view of how defaults can affect families beyond just the legal aspects.

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I completely understand your anxiety about this - it's such a common concern for parents! The good news is that you're asking the right questions early in the process. As others have confirmed, federal student loans (Direct Subsidized and Unsubsidized) are solely your daughter's responsibility, even though your income information is used to determine her eligibility. One thing I'd add is to make sure you both understand the annual and aggregate borrowing limits for federal loans. For undergraduates, there are caps on how much she can borrow each year in federal loans, which actually provides some built-in protection against excessive debt. If her program costs exceed these limits, that's when families often turn to Parent PLUS loans or private loans - both of which you'll want to carefully consider. I'd also suggest having her meet with the financial aid office at her school once she's enrolled. They can walk both of you through exactly what types of aid she's receiving and help create a four-year financing plan. Many schools also offer financial literacy workshops that can help students understand loan terms and repayment options before they graduate.

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Thank you for mentioning the annual borrowing limits - I wasn't aware that federal loans had built-in caps that could help prevent excessive debt. That's actually reassuring! Do you know what those limits are roughly, or does it vary by year in school? We definitely plan to meet with the financial aid office once she's enrolled, but it would be helpful to understand the general framework beforehand. I really appreciate everyone's advice here - this conversation has been incredibly informative and has eased a lot of my worries about our potential liability while also helping me think more strategically about the whole process.

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The annual federal loan limits for dependent undergraduates are: $5,500 freshman year (up to $3,500 can be subsidized), $6,500 sophomore year (up to $4,500 subsidized), and $7,500 for junior/senior years (up to $5,500 subsidized). The aggregate limit is $31,000 total for dependent undergraduates. These limits definitely help prevent students from borrowing excessive amounts in federal loans, though as @b81bfc1fa5fb mentioned, costs above these amounts often lead families to consider Parent PLUS or private loans. It's good you're thinking about this framework early!

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As a newcomer to this community, I really appreciate how thorough and supportive everyone has been in addressing this concern! Reading through all these responses has been incredibly educational. I'm in a similar situation with my son who's a junior in high school, and I had the same fears about potential liability for his future student loans. It's such a relief to hear from multiple sources - including financial aid professionals - that federal student loans remain solely the student's responsibility regardless of parent income being used for eligibility calculations. The practical advice about creating repayment scenarios, understanding borrowing limits, and having frank conversations about post-graduation expectations is exactly what I needed to hear. I especially appreciate the reminder about income-driven repayment plans and other safety nets that exist for federal loans. Thank you @StarSurfer for asking this question and to everyone who shared their experiences and expertise. This is exactly why I joined this community - to learn from others who've navigated these complex financial aid waters!

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Welcome to the community! I'm also relatively new here and have found everyone to be incredibly knowledgeable and supportive. It's great that you're thinking about this while your son is still a junior - that gives you plenty of time to plan and have those important conversations about debt expectations. One thing I've learned from this discussion is that starting these financial literacy conversations early really helps students make more informed decisions about borrowing. Best of luck navigating the FAFSA process when the time comes!

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NebulaNova

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As a newcomer here, I want to thank everyone for this incredibly informative discussion! I'm currently going through the FAFSA process with my daughter and had the exact same concerns about parent liability for student loans. What's been most helpful is learning that the distinction is really about WHO SIGNS the loan documents, not whose income was used for eligibility. Federal student loans are solely in the student's name, while Parent PLUS loans would be in the parent's name. It seems so obvious now, but when you're stressed about college costs, it's easy to conflate eligibility calculations with repayment responsibility. I particularly appreciate the practical advice about mapping out realistic post-graduation scenarios and discussing expectations upfront. We've started having more detailed conversations about her career goals and likely starting salaries, which has actually been helpful for her to think more critically about her major choice too. One question for the financial aid professionals here: are there any red flags or warning signs in financial aid packages that parents should watch out for that might indicate a school is pushing families toward riskier borrowing options?

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Welcome to the community! Great question about red flags in financial aid packages. As someone new here myself, I've learned a lot from this discussion. From what the financial aid professionals have shared, I'd watch out for packages that rely heavily on Parent PLUS loans to meet costs, since those have fewer protections and higher interest rates than student loans. Also be wary if a school suggests private loans before maximizing federal student loan options. The annual federal loan limits that @e08212d25ccf mentioned ($5,500-$7,500 depending on year) provide natural guardrails, so if a package requires significantly more borrowing to attend, that might be a red flag about affordability. I'm curious to hear what the professionals here think about other warning signs!

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