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Lucas Lindsey

Can I delete my ex-husband's FAFSA application and submit a new one as custodial parent?

So I just found out my ex-husband submitted a 2025-2026 FAFSA for our daughter without telling me. I'm actually the custodial parent (she lives with me 85% of the time) and I handle all her expenses and college stuff. Our divorce decree even specifically says I'm responsible for her education. His income is WAY higher than mine, which means she'll get way less aid with him as the contributing parent. Can I somehow cancel the application he submitted and file a new one with my information instead? Or am I stuck with whatever aid package she gets based on his income? She's attending college this fall and we really need the maximum financial aid possible.

Sophie Duck

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the same thing happened to my cousin!! the dad filed and messed up all the financial aid. i think u can call fafsa and explain the situation but u need proof ur the main parent

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Lucas Lindsey

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Thanks for responding! Did your cousin manage to get it fixed? I have our custody agreement and tax returns showing I claim her as a dependent. I'm just worried about how long it might take to resolve if I call FAFSA...

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Yes, you can address this situation. For the 2025-2026 FAFSA, the parent who provides more financial support should be the one completing the application. Since you're the custodial parent (85% time) and responsible for educational expenses per your divorce decree, you have strong documentation to support your case. You cannot "cancel" the existing application yourself, but you can: 1. Contact Federal Student Aid (FSA) directly to explain the situation 2. Provide your custody agreement and documentation showing you're the primary financial supporter 3. Request they update the application to reflect you as the contributing parent This is actually a common situation, and FSA has procedures to handle it. The key is proving you're the appropriate parent to file based on financial support, not just physical custody.

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Lucas Lindsey

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Thank you so much for the detailed information! This is really helpful. Do you know how long this process typically takes? My daughter needs to make a decision by May 1st, so I'm worried about timing.

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Anita George

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the father has NO RIGHT to file if he's not the custodial parent! it's actually fraud if he knew you were supposed to be the one filing. definitely call them ASAP and explain what happened!!

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Lucas Lindsey

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I hadn't even considered the fraud angle. We don't communicate well, so he probably just did it without thinking about the legal implications. I'm definitely going to call right away.

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I went through something similar last year with my ex. It was incredibly frustrating trying to reach someone at Federal Student Aid - I kept getting disconnected or waiting for hours. I finally used Claimyr (claimyr.com) to get through to an actual person who could help. They have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/TbC8dZQWYNQ Once I got through to a representative, they were able to update our application after I provided proof that I was the custodial parent. Make sure you have your divorce decree, custody agreement, and tax returns ready when you call. The whole process took about 2 weeks to get resolved.

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Lucas Lindsey

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Thank you for sharing your experience! Those wait times are exactly what I'm worried about. I'll check out that service if I have trouble getting through. Did you have to send in copies of your documents or just explain the situation over the phone?

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They had me upload the documents through my studentaid.gov account after the call. The rep explained exactly which forms to submit and where to upload them. Having that direct guidance made a huge difference!

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Logan Chiang

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Anyone saying this is simple is WRONG! I had this exact situation and spent MONTHS fighting with FSA. They kept telling me different things each time I called. One rep said I could just submit a new FAFSA, another said I needed a correction form, and a third said I needed to wait for the first application to process before doing anything. The whole system is BROKEN and designed to frustrate parents in complicated situations.

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I understand your frustration, but the process has actually improved for the 2025-2026 FAFSA. With the FAFSA Simplification Act changes, there's now a clearer procedure for handling divorced parents. The key is speaking directly with a FSA specialist who handles dependency and parent contribution issues, not just a general representative.

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Logan Chiang

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Maybe it's better now but I'll believe it when I see it. OP should still prepare for a bureaucratic nightmare. Document EVERYTHING and get names of every person you talk to.

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Isla Fischer

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This is actually a relatively straightforward situation to resolve because the new FAFSA rules for 2025-2026 are very specific about which parent should complete the form in cases of divorce: 1. The parent who provided more financial support during the last 12 months should complete the FAFSA 2. If that's equal, then it's the parent with whom the student lived more 3. If both are equal, then it's the parent who provided more financial support Since you have documentation showing both custody (85%) and financial responsibility via the divorce decree, you have a strong case. Contact the Federal Student Aid office directly at 1-800-433-3243. Explain that an incorrect parent submitted the FAFSA, and you need to update the parent information based on the rules above. You'll need to provide: - Your custody agreement - Tax returns showing you claim the student as dependent - The divorce decree section stating educational responsibility They'll likely have you submit a correction rather than a new application.

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Lucas Lindsey

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Thank you for breaking down the rules so clearly! I didn't realize the new FAFSA had such specific guidelines for divorced parents. I'll call tomorrow with all my documentation ready.

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did ur daughter give him permission to do it? cuz she woulda had to make the FSA ID and approve him as parent, right? or did he make it for her?

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Lucas Lindsey

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That's a good point. I think he might have created the FSA ID for her - she says she never logged in or approved anything, which I know is against the rules too. This is getting more complicated...

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Lucas Lindsey

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UPDATE: I called FSA this morning and finally got through after being on hold for almost an hour. The representative confirmed that since I'm the custodial parent responsible for education expenses, I should be the one completing the FAFSA. They've put a hold on processing the current application and will be sending me instructions for submitting the correct parent information through the correction process. They said it should take 2-3 weeks to process once I submit everything. Thank you all for your help and advice!

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Isla Fischer

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Great news! Make sure to follow their instructions exactly and submit all the required documentation promptly. If you don't receive the correction instructions within a few days, follow up with another call. The 2-3 week timeline should still give you enough time before your daughter needs to make her college decision.

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Logan Chiang

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2-3 weeks IF everything goes perfectly... just saying be prepared for delays. Glad you got through though!

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