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The Boss

FAFSA requiring ex-husband's info even though I have full custody - can he refuse?

I'm pulling my hair out over this FAFSA situation! My daughter is applying for college next fall (class of 2026), and we hit a roadblock in the application. After I completed my section as the custodial parent, the system is now requesting her father's information. Here's our situation: I have 100% physical custody, I claim her on ALL my tax returns as a dependent, and her father and I have been divorced for 8 years. He's remarried with stepchildren and is absolutely refusing to provide his household income information for the FAFSA. He's concerned it will somehow affect his new family's finances or be used against him. Is his information actually required? My tax documents clearly show I'm the supporting parent. Can we get an exemption or skip his section somehow? The FAFSA deadline is approaching and I'm seriously worried this will impact her financial aid package. Has anyone dealt with something similar?

This is actually a common situation with the new FAFSA for 2025-2026. Based on your description, if you're divorced and have primary physical custody, only YOU need to complete the FAFSA as the parent who provides the most financial support. The non-custodial parent (your ex) is NOT required to provide information. However, the system sometimes automatically generates contributor invitations to both biological parents. You should be able to remove him as a contributor through the "Manage Contributors" section. Look for the option to indicate that he is not financially responsible for your daughter. If you can't find this option, call FSA directly and explain the situation - they can manually update this status on their end.

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The Boss

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Thank you so much! I looked at the "Manage Contributors" section but it's not giving me a clear option to remove him. It shows him as "invited" but no way to cancel it. I'll try calling the FSA directly tomorrow. Do you know if there's any specific documentation I need to have ready when I call them?

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I went through this exact scenario last year. Your ex does NOT need to complete the FAFSA if you have full custody and claim your daughter on taxes. The system is just automatically generating these invites. Here's what to do: 1. Take screenshots of the current application status 2. Contact Federal Student Aid directly (note that wait times are RIDICULOUS right now) 3. Request a "contributor exemption" for the non-custodial parent 4. Be prepared to submit your tax return showing you claim her 5. They might also ask for custody documentation Most importantly, don't panic! This won't delay your daughter's aid if you get it resolved within the next 2-3 weeks.

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The Boss

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This is really helpful! Did you have to provide actual court custody documents? Our divorce decree is from 8 years ago and might take some time to locate. Would tax returns from the past 2-3 years be sufficient?

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In my case, I just needed my tax returns showing I claimed my son for the past two years. They didn't ask for the actual custody papers, but I had them ready just in case. Every FSA representative handles things slightly differently though - some are sticklers for documentation, others are more reasonable. Your mileage may vary!

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Omg the same thing happened to me!!! My ex husband refused to give his information too and we missed the priority deadline because of it! So frustrating. We ended up just submitting without his info and writing a letter of explanation to each school financial aid office. Some schools were cool about it but others made us fill out their own special forms. My daughter got wait-listed at her top choice and I'm convinced it was because of the FAFSA mess.

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You guys should NOT just submit without the required info or write explanatory letters! That's the old way of doing things. The new FAFSA system has an actual process for this situation. You need to call FSA and request a contributor exemption. If you just submit incomplete forms, the SAI calculation will be wrong and your kids will lose thousands in potential aid!

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The Boss

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THE ENTIRE FAFSA SYSTEM IS BROKEN!!! Why should your ex have ANY say in your daughter's future??? My son lost out on thousands in aid because my ex refused to provide info and by the time we got an exception processed, all the institutional aid was gone. The whole system discriminates against divorced parents and the CHILDREN ARE THE ONES WHO SUFFER. The colleges don't care, FSA doesn't care, and no one takes responsibility. I'm still fighting with our university about this and we're in sophomore year now.

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I understand your frustration, but the new FAFSA (2024-2025 and beyond) actually addressed many of these issues. Under the new formulas, only the custodial parent needs to provide information, which is a significant improvement. The system is still working out implementation bugs, but the policy itself has improved. Did you work directly with your university's financial aid office? They often have institutional forms that can override FAFSA limitations.

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cant u just put $0 for his income? thats what my cousin did when her dad wouldnt cooperate lol

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Absolutely DO NOT do this! Providing false information on the FAFSA is considered fraud and can result in serious consequences, including fines up to $20,000, prison time, having to repay all aid received, and your student being permanently barred from receiving federal aid in the future. Always follow the proper procedures for contributor exemptions instead.

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The specific answer depends on whether you're dealing with just the FAFSA or also the CSS Profile. For FAFSA (federal aid), as others mentioned, only the custodial parent's information is required. You'll need to get the contributor invitation canceled through FSA directly. However, if your daughter is applying to private colleges that require the CSS Profile, many of them DO require non-custodial parent information even if you have full custody. Each school sets their own CSS Profile requirements, and some will require a Non-Custodial Parent Waiver form if he refuses to participate. This is completely separate from the FAFSA process. Make sure you're clear about which forms each school requires and handle them separately.

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The Boss

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She's applying to both state schools and a couple of private universities. I hadn't even thought about the CSS Profile being different! I'll check with the private schools about their specific requirements. Thanks for pointing this out - would have been a nasty surprise later.

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After reading through all the advice here, I wanted to share a quick update. I finally got through to FSA today (took nearly 2 hours on hold). The agent confirmed that since I have full custody and claim my daughter on taxes, her father does NOT need to contribute to the FAFSA. They removed his contributor invitation and noted the exemption in our file. The agent also suggested I have my daughter check with each school's financial aid office about their specific requirements, especially for the private universities that might want additional documentation. Thanks everyone for your help! Such a relief to have this resolved before the deadline.

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That's great news! Glad you got it sorted out. Smart move to check with individual schools too - each one handles these situations slightly differently. Best of luck to your daughter with her applications!

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Wait, I'm confused - I see an update from Daniel Washington saying he got through to FSA and resolved the issue, but the original post was from The Boss. Are you Daniel Washington posting an update under a different account, or is this a separate person who had the same issue? Either way, this is really helpful information for anyone else dealing with this situation! The key takeaway seems to be that you need to call FSA directly to get the contributor invitation removed rather than trying to work around it in the system.

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