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Abigail Spencer

Will my husband's income affect my Social Security at 62 while he's still working? Confused about spousal benefits

I'm planning to retire next year and start collecting my Social Security retirement benefits at 62 (I know, early, but I need to). My husband plans to keep working until his full retirement age. We're both the same age (born in 1963). I'm confused about two things: 1) Since my husband will continue working and making around $115,000 per year, will his income somehow count against my earnings limit? I know if I work while collecting early SS, I'm limited to about $22,320 in 2025 before they start deducting benefits. But what about HIS income? Does that mess up MY benefits? 2) When he finally retires at his full retirement age (67), I understand I might qualify for spousal benefits if 50% of his benefit is more than my own. But since I'll have been collecting early for 5 years at that point, will my spousal top-up amount be reduced because I started my own benefits early? I've been trying to figure this out on the SSA website but keep going around in circles. Any help would be greatly appreciated!

Logan Chiang

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Let me clear this up for you: 1) Your husband's earnings won't affect your benefits at all. The earnings test only applies to YOUR earnings if you work while collecting Social Security before your FRA. His income is completely separate for this purpose. 2) Yes, taking your own retirement benefits early will permanently reduce your spousal benefit. When your husband files at his FRA, you'll be eligible for a spousal top-up, but it will be reduced because you started your own benefits early. The spousal benefit will be the greater of: - Your own reduced benefit - The difference between your reduced benefit and roughly 35% of his FRA benefit (not the full 50%) The reduction happens because you took your own benefits early. Had you waited until your FRA, you'd get the full 50% spousal benefit.

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Thank you so much for explaining! That's a huge relief about my husband's income not affecting my benefits. Do you know approximately how much the reduction would be for the spousal top-up? Like if his FRA benefit is $3,000, would I get around 35% of that minus my own benefit, instead of 50%?

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Isla Fischer

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Your husbands income doenst count for your benfits! only yours does! But you should really think about if taking SS at 62 is worth it? You lose a lot of money in the long run...

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Thanks for confirming about my husband's income. I've definitely thought about waiting, but I have some health issues that make working longer difficult. Plus, we've calculated the break-even point and given my family history, taking it early actually makes sense for my situation. It's different for everyone!

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The other responses are correct, but to add some clarity on your second question: When calculating spousal benefits when you've claimed your own retirement early, SSA essentially gives you the larger of these two amounts: 1. Your own reduced retirement benefit, OR 2. A reduced spouse's benefit The reduction formula is quite complex, but essentially you're permanently reducing your spousal benefit by approximately 30% by claiming 60 months early. So instead of receiving 50% of your husband's PIA (Primary Insurance Amount), you'd receive about 35%. However, you'll only receive the difference between your reduced retirement benefit and the reduced spousal benefit amount IF the spousal amount is higher. Also important to note: when your husband reaches FRA, he needs to actually file for his benefits for you to receive any spousal benefits. If he decides to delay beyond FRA to increase his own benefit, you can't receive the spousal portion until he files.

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Ruby Blake

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Wait...I'm confused about this too. So if I take my benefits at 62, and my husband waits until HIS full retirement age to claim his benefits, I'll STILL have a reduction to my spousal benefits??? That doesn't seem fair. I thought if he waits until HIS FRA, then I'd get the full 50% of his amount!!

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No, that's a common misunderstanding. Your spousal benefit reduction is based on when YOU claim benefits, not when your husband claims. If you claim ANY Social Security benefits before your FRA, you're locking in a reduced rate for both your retirement AND spousal benefits. It doesn't matter if your husband waits until his FRA or even age 70 - your reduction is based on your claiming age. The only way to get the full 50% spousal benefit is if YOU wait until your FRA to claim any benefits.

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I had this exact same situation with me and my husband! I claimed at 62 and he worked till 67. His income didn't affect my benefits at all - only what I earned mattered for the earnings limit. But I was disappointed about the spousal amount later... it was much less than I expected because I claimed early. Just letting you know what to expect!

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Thank you for sharing your experience! That's exactly my situation. Do you mind if I ask - was the spousal top-up still worth it even with the reduction? I'm trying to figure out if it'll make a significant difference to our monthly income.

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Yes it was still worth it! I get about $320 extra per month from the spousal benefit even with the reduction. Not as much as the $500+ I was hoping for, but still helps with groceries and utilities. Just don't expect the full 50% minus your benefit - that's where I got disappointed.

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Ella Harper

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The rules r so confusing!! My sister thought her husbands income would affect her benefits too but it didnt. SSA needs to make this clearer on there website!!!

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PrinceJoe

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Has anyone actually CALLED Social Security to get a personalized calculation? I've been trying for weeks to speak with an agent about a similar situation but keep getting disconnected or told the wait time is 2+ hours. Super frustrating when you need answers for retirement planning!

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PrinceJoe

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Isla Fischer

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THIS IS WHY IM WAITING TILL 70 TO CLAIM!!! All these complicated rules and reductions! The system is designed to confuse us and give us less money!!!

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Logan Chiang

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Waiting until 70 makes sense for some people, but not everyone. It's not a conspiracy - the reductions for early claiming are actually based on actuarial calculations to make the total lifetime payout roughly equivalent regardless of when you claim (assuming average life expectancy). For people with health issues or who need the income sooner, claiming early can be the right choice.

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Thank you everyone for all the helpful responses! I feel much better knowing my husband's income won't affect my benefits. I'm a bit disappointed about the spousal benefit reduction, but it makes sense. I'll definitely try to get an exact calculation from SSA about what my top-up might be when my husband reaches FRA. Thanks again!

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Everett Tutum

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Just wanted to add one important detail that might help with your planning - when you do become eligible for the spousal benefit (after your husband files), Social Security will automatically calculate and pay you whichever amount is higher: your own reduced retirement benefit OR the reduced spousal benefit. You don't need to apply separately for the spousal benefit. Also, make sure to keep track of any cost-of-living adjustments (COLAs) that get applied to your benefits over the years. These will increase both your retirement benefit and any future spousal top-up amount, which can help offset some of the impact of claiming early. Good luck with your retirement planning! It sounds like you've thought this through carefully given your personal situation.

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Jade Lopez

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Thank you for that clarification! I didn't realize it would be automatic - that's one less thing to worry about. The COLA adjustments are a good point too. I've been so focused on the reduction percentages that I forgot those annual increases would apply to whatever amount I'm receiving. That definitely helps with the long-term planning perspective. Really appreciate everyone taking the time to explain these complex rules!

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Paolo Bianchi

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I went through this exact same decision process a few years ago! Just to reinforce what others have said - your husband's income absolutely will NOT affect your Social Security benefits. That's one of the biggest misconceptions people have about SS. One thing I'd suggest is creating a my Social Security account at ssa.gov if you haven't already. You can see your estimated benefits at different claiming ages, which really helped me visualize the trade-offs. The calculator shows both your retirement benefit and potential spousal benefits. Also, since you mentioned health issues - don't let anyone make you feel bad about claiming at 62. Everyone's situation is different, and if you need the income or have concerns about longevity, claiming early can absolutely be the right financial decision. I know several people who are glad they claimed early because they were able to enjoy their benefits while still healthy enough to travel and be active. The spousal benefit reduction is disappointing, but as someone else mentioned, even the reduced amount can make a meaningful difference in your monthly budget. Best of luck with your decision!

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Amy Fleming

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Thank you for the encouragement and practical advice! I really appreciate hearing from someone who went through the same decision process. You're absolutely right about not letting others make you feel bad about claiming early - I've gotten some judgmental comments from friends who don't understand my health situation. I do have a my Social Security account and have been checking those estimates regularly. It's helpful to see the numbers in black and white, even if the spousal benefit projections aren't as detailed as I'd like. Your point about being able to enjoy the benefits while still healthy is exactly what I keep telling myself. There's value in having that financial security now rather than gambling on living long enough to make waiting "worth it" mathematically. Thanks for validating that perspective!

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I'm in a very similar situation and have been researching this extensively! Just wanted to add a few practical tips that helped me: 1) You can use the SSA's online benefit calculators to get a rough estimate of your spousal benefit, but they don't show the exact reduction amounts. I found it helpful to call during off-peak hours (mid-week, mid-morning) to get through to an agent faster. 2) Make sure you understand the timing - you won't be eligible for any spousal benefits until your husband actually files for his own benefits, even if he's reached FRA. So if he decides to delay past 67 to get delayed retirement credits, your spousal benefit also gets delayed. 3) One silver lining about the spousal benefit reduction: it's calculated as a percentage of your husband's Primary Insurance Amount (PIA), not his potentially higher benefit if he delays. So while you get less than 50%, the base amount it's calculated from stays the same regardless of when he claims. The whole system is needlessly complicated, but at least your husband's income won't be an issue for your benefits. That was my biggest worry too! Hope this helps with your planning.

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Zoe Wang

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This is incredibly helpful information, thank you! I hadn't thought about the timing issue with my husband potentially delaying past his FRA. That's definitely something we need to discuss - if he decides to wait until 70 for the delayed retirement credits, I'd have to wait even longer for any spousal benefits. Your tip about calling during off-peak hours is great too. I've been trying to call during lunch breaks which is probably the worst time. And it's good to know the spousal benefit is based on his PIA rather than his actual benefit amount if he delays - that makes the math a bit more predictable. Thanks for taking the time to share all these practical details. It really helps to hear from someone else who's done the deep dive on these rules!

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Jackson Carter

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I'm facing a similar decision and this thread has been incredibly helpful! Just to add one more perspective - I spoke with a financial advisor who specializes in Social Security planning, and she mentioned that many people overlook the "do-over" option. If you claim at 62 but then change your mind within the first 12 months, you can withdraw your application, pay back what you've received (without interest), and restart at a later age with higher benefits. It's not ideal since you have to pay everything back, but it could be a safety net if your health or financial situation improves unexpectedly. Also, for anyone reading this who's married - make sure you consider the survivor benefit implications too. If you're the lower earner and claim early, it doesn't just reduce your own benefits, it can also reduce what your spouse would receive as a survivor benefit if you pass away first. That's another complex calculation but worth understanding. The earnings test clarification about spousal income not counting is such a relief though - that would have been a nightmare to track and report!

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That's a really important point about the "do-over" option! I had no idea that existed. Even though paying everything back sounds daunting, it's reassuring to know there's at least some flexibility if circumstances change dramatically in that first year. The survivor benefit angle is something I definitely need to research more. My husband and I have been so focused on our own retirement benefits that we haven't really thought through all the implications for the surviving spouse. That could be a significant factor in the timing decision, especially since I'm planning to claim early. Thanks for mentioning the financial advisor option too. I've been trying to figure this out on my own, but having someone who specializes in Social Security planning might be worth the cost to make sure I'm not missing any important considerations. Do you mind sharing how you found yours? I'm not sure where to start looking for someone with that specific expertise.

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Liam Sullivan

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I found my advisor through the National Association of Personal Financial Advisors (NAPFA) website - they have a search feature where you can filter for advisors who specialize in Social Security planning. I also looked for someone who charges a flat fee for Social Security analysis rather than managing assets, since I just needed help with this specific decision. One thing to watch out for - make sure any advisor you consider is actually credentialed in Social Security planning. There are some specific certifications like the National Social Security Advisor (NSSA) designation that show they've had specialized training beyond general financial planning. The survivor benefit analysis was eye-opening for me. It turns out that if I claim early and pass away first, my husband's survivor benefit would be based on my reduced amount rather than what I would have received at full retirement age. That definitely factored into our decision-making process, especially since men statistically have shorter lifespans. The do-over option gave me some peace of mind too, even though I hope I won't need to use it. Just knowing it exists made claiming at 62 feel less like a permanent mistake if my health situation improves.

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