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What age requirements apply for disabled spouse Social Security benefits?

I've been trying to figure out if my wife can get spousal benefits based on my work record. She's 52 and became disabled about 3 years ago. I'm 61 and still working, but planning to retire when I hit 62 next year. Someone told me that normally spouses have to be at least 62 to collect on their partner's record, but that disability might change things? I'm completely confused about the age requirements when disability is involved. Does anyone know if she can collect sooner because of her disability, or does she still have to wait until she's 62? We could really use the extra income.

Raj Gupta

You've got things mixed up. If she's disabled, she should apply for her OWN SSDI benefits based on her work record, not spousal benefits. Age doesn't matter for disability benefits if she qualifies.

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Thanks for responding. She didn't work enough years to qualify for her own SSDI. The doctors say she can't work anymore due to her condition, but Social Security denied her SSI application saying we have too many assets. That's why I'm trying to see if there's any way she can get benefits through me.

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The person who responded first isn't completely correct. Your wife may be eligible for disabled spouse benefits, but there are specific requirements. If your wife is disabled, she can receive benefits on your record as early as age 50 if her disability started before or within 7 years of when she last received spouse's benefits. However, you would need to be collecting your own retirement benefits first before she could collect on your record. Since you're not yet collecting, she wouldn't be eligible until you start receiving benefits, regardless of her disability status. There's also the Disabled Widow(er) Benefits if you were to pass away, which also allows collection as early as age 50 with disability, but that's not applicable in your current situation.

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This is really helpful, thank you! So if I understand correctly, once I start collecting my retirement benefits next year when I turn 62, she could potentially qualify for disabled spouse benefits since she's over 50 and her disability started within the past 7 years? Would she need to file a separate disability application or just the spousal benefit application?

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TechNinja

my cousin tried to do this and it was a NIGHTMARE!!! social security kept sending her back and forth between the retirement office and disability office for months!! no one knew the right answers and she got different information every time she called. she finally had to go to her congressman to get any help. good luck!

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Same happened to me! The local office told me one thing and the phone people said something totally different! It's so frustrating.

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I'd like to clarify a few things here. The second response is partially correct but missing some details. There are two different concepts being mixed up: 1. Disabled Widow/Widower Benefits - These allow benefits as early as age 50 if the spouse is deceased. 2. Regular spousal benefits - These typically require the spouse to be at least 62, with some exceptions. For your situation, since your wife became disabled before age 62 and you're still living, here are the facts: - She cannot receive disabled spouse benefits while you are still living unless she's caring for your child under 16 or a disabled child - Once you file for your retirement benefits, she would have to be at least 62 to file for regular spousal benefits - There is no 'disability exception' to the age requirement for regular spousal benefits when the worker (you) is still living Her best options would be: 1. Apply for SSDI on her own record if she has enough work credits 2. Apply for SSI if your household resources are limited 3. Wait until she reaches 62 to apply for spousal benefits once you're receiving your retirement Since you mentioned she was denied SSI due to resources and doesn't qualify for her own SSDI, unfortunately, she will need to wait until age 62 to receive spousal benefits.

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Oh, I see... that's disappointing. I thought her disability might allow her to collect earlier. So there's no way for her to get benefits through me until she's 62, even with her disability? That's going to be tough for us financially.

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Thanks for the tip. I've been trying to call them for weeks with no luck - either busy signals or disconnections after waiting for an hour. I'll check out that service because I really need to speak with someone who can look at our specific situation.

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wait, can someone explain the difference between SSI and SSDI again? i get these confused all the time. and which one is the spouse thing related to?

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Sure! SSDI (Social Security Disability Insurance) is based on your work history and the FICA taxes you've paid. SSI (Supplemental Security Income) is a needs-based program for those with limited income/resources. Spousal benefits are part of the retirement system, not directly part of either disability program, though there are some interconnections as we've discussed in this thread.

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After reading through this thread again, I realized I need to correct something in my earlier response. The provision about disabled spouses collecting as early as 50 only applies to surviving spouses (widows/widowers) whose partners have passed away. Since you're still living, your wife wouldn't qualify under that provision. As the expert correctly pointed out, for your situation, your wife would generally need to wait until age 62 to collect spousal benefits once you start receiving your retirement benefits. The only exception would be if she were caring for your child who is under 16 or disabled. I apologize for my error and the confusion it may have caused.

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Thanks for clarifying. We don't have young children at home, so that exception wouldn't apply to us. Looks like we'll need to figure out how to manage until she turns 62 in 10 years. I appreciate everyone's help in understanding these complicated rules.

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has she tried applying for disability again? sometimes ppl get denied first time but approved when they appeal. my sister got denied twice but then got a lawyer and won her case!!

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She applied for SSI (not SSDI) and was denied because of our assets, not because they didn't believe she was disabled. From what I understand, that's not something you can really appeal - either you meet the resource limits or you don't. Maybe we should talk to a Social Security attorney though to make sure we've explored all options.

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